I've only been divorced for a few months so I'm as they "new to the game". My exwife asked for a divorce after 13 years of marriage, we have 2 young boys. We had our problems but nothing I thought couldn't be fixed. We were very good financially and we worked very well as a team. She was very sure of her decision, had everything planned and wanted it done quickly. She has moved to a different state(she is in the military and the move was known about before the divorce), now after some time to reflect I find myself thinking about us getting back together someday. We still text periodically and it reminds me if how much I miss her friendship and companionship. My question is has anyone out there ever successfully gotten back together after a divorce and if so how? Or is it a pipe dream and I should give up hope?