I just want to state a fact.

While we lose access to our children. Most often because of lies. We lose years of their lives that we will never get back.

While we are spending months, years and even decades stressed out of our minds about our divorces. While we suffer debilitating health effects for years after.

While we are pillaged financially. While we lose everything we gained during the marriage, everything before and likely half of what we gain after.

While we suffer for as long as the divorce takes to get finalized.

Judges don’t give a shit.

You are something to “get over with” in front of them.

You are a case that needs to conclude:

You are not a person. They don’t know you. They will take the easiest route to “get to know you,” and if you somehow make it difficult to actually get to know you, they will punish you.

(I’m not even beginning with GALS. They are even worse than judges).

They spend minutes. Maybe hours. Making the most consequential decision of your entire life. Affecting your children, everything you have and your future.

And they do not care.

You are bothersome to them. “How dare you make their life more difficult by not immediately settling the case against your own interest? Don’t you know that whatever they have to do is more important than your life?”

And after they are done absolutely destroying you….there are no consequences. They will likely sleep soundly that night, never thinking for a second how they destroyed you, and they will move on to the next guy to do it again.

I don’t know how this could be possible, but only judges with humanity should make it to the bench. I have yet to see a family court judge who actually recognizes the absolute destruction of their actions.