It's crazy how if you've been on this subb for a while you start seeing the same story told 100 times. But as it's happening to you, it's almost surreal.

Look at my post history for the full history play-by-play but let me tell you the short version/tldr:

Ex wife told me in September she was depressed and sad and it was because of our marriage. That was Saturday. She left me Monday evening. Friday night she came back drunk, the next day (Saturday) I asked her to go back to her brother's house (where she was staying). Sunday she met a dude on Tinder...

We agreed to go our separate ways, and to finish splitting the bill through October and then we'd be on our own. I got my own phone bill, started closing accounts, stuff like that, but 2 weeks after she met this dude, she had me taken off the car insurance and had him on it. I logged in to take myself off of it (I had told her I would) and already saw it. I confronted her on it saying I wasn't going to pay for this dude's car insurance and she accused me of "stalking her boyfriend."

I pushed that divorce through as fast as possible. Shit was getting crazy to me. Like where was all this coming from? I left the whole state and moved 5 hours away to get away from everything and to start over. I find out 2 months later - so November, he's moving in with her. Oooookay?

Now, people on this sub talk about how shit goes wild and strap in. Let me tell you, it's so true. I'm out here, heart torn to shreds but doing my best - hitting the gym, reading books on grief and loss, got a better job, signed up to go back to school (Computer Science) - meanwhile, my friends say this dude is a total loser (whatever, he's irrelevant to me, he's literally the first person she met on tinder.... I'd go so far as to say he's irrelevant to her, he's just an emotional placeholder), she's out drinking every night, her family is about sick of her and shocked that she walked out on me and dude moved in ASAP. Everyone is blown away.

Here's the crazy part. Our divorce was final Dec. I find out they got married in Jan. What? It gets worse. She posted last week on the relationship advice sub that she found out the whole time they've been together he's been talking to other girls and might be seeing them.

This story is literally word for word like the same one told on this sub over and over. Monkey branches to another dude and that lasts a few months and guess what? That wonderful person and relationship that you tried to convince everyone was so great? Nope, he's a total scumbag and you're about to be divorced twice within 6 months.

Guys, I'm not one of those that got divorced and bitter. I wish her all the best. All I'm saying is whatever you believe about relationships and divorce and men and women.... believe me when I say, you aren't alone.

tldr: wife walked out on me, divorced 3 months later, she remarried a month after that and then discovered he's cheating on her. Same old shit, just a different day.