We have been married for 5 years. We have a 3yo together and I have raised her 10yo for the past 6yrs. It’s has been a endless argument between her and I. I have worked endless hrs because I wanted to be the only one to provide,while still dealing with epilepsy and now Dt1. My definition of her is a Narcissist, plain and simple. I have lied to her plenty of times, to prevent us from arguing. I knew the toxicity was there, I didn’t know anything else. All I care about is my daughter. She has the power, I gave it to her. She knew what she was doing, I didn’t want to figure it out. Know I figured it out, and don’t really know what/how to handle things. I never thought she would approach me with divorce papers in the manner that she did.