Hello gentlemen, The divorce is final as of the 20th, I just got my decree in the mail. I feel relief that it’s all over but certainly miss my best friend and partner. I’m not sad anymore or angry, I just want happiness and peace.

My ex has been texting me non stop since the final hearing, not trying to get back together but about our parenting schedule for the upcoming holidays. Everything has been agreed upon 50/50 split and we share holidays but she insists on making small changes which I have been reluctant to accept.

I have asked her to stick to the parenting plan and to quit texting me unless it’s an emergency but she can’t seem to stop. She initiated the divorce and monkey branched to a co worker.

I’m guessing it’s finally hitting her that I don’t want a friendship or anything to do with her, which may be causing her to panic a little. She keeps telling me how sorry she is and knows that she messed up but I’m at a good point and just want to be left alone.

Have you guys dealt with anything similar? If so, what advice would you have for me in this situation? I appreciate your time and responses!