Well got tired of forced celibacy and a deadbeat step son at 20 no license and no job. I tried to talk about it but I was as usual deflected and blamed. I'm always grumpy is my crime. You would be too if you still wanted intimacy and you came home after your 10 hour day and no chores at home have ever been done, and you have to do all of them too. I broke and said I'm done. She ran with that like an NFL running back. Guess she got out of being the bad person. I have tried to talk it out, but nope not talking. Thankfully the home is tied up in probate and is my inheritance, and we have no children together.