I don't know why my ex just can't stop fucking herself over. We finalized in April and 2 month ago she announces she is engaged. We have 3 kids together between ages of 5-11. It was hard on them but she didn't care at all. We have 70/30 custody because I am in healthcare and have no family to help me take them more days that I can.

This is where the timeline starts to get confusing. This guy she is engaged to loses his job just about the same exact week. Well just about a month ago I find out through the kids that they actually eloped back in July. When I confronted her about it and complained that I don't like learning this info through the kids she said oh we had to because of his job he lost insurance. (right... because any man that is 30 years old can't afford to go 3 months without insurance) They also have had this fake wedding planned in November. Well, just 2 days ago I find out this woman is now pregnant at just about the same exact time they eloped... Hmm I'm starting to think she didn't get married for insurance reasons.

You can lie about a lot of things. You can't lie about getting pregnant. Well just yesterday I get a call from CPS that there has been a report and that they have interviewed 2 of my children involved with the report. Turns out the stepdaddy has been using a gel blasters as a means of disciplinary action when the kids misbehave. Don't know yet if he actually used them or is just intimidating....

Not only this, she bought me out of the house... all 100k of it from her mom, who cashed out her 401k to do it for her. Then she basically pissed on her mom and said she is no longer welcome at her home due to some stupid argument and now her mom hates her. She now believes me and has been talking to me about how she can't believe the woman she raised. She is so mad she is making her pay her back and she has to sell her house now to do so. The guy she married is a dead beat, jobless most of the time, and has declared bankruptcy before, and his new job is at a factory. So he is of no help to her either. She is a compulsive hoarder. There is a pile to the ceiling of junk right when you walk in the door. Her table has never been able to be sat at, and her couch is never able to be sit on. The kitchen always smells of weeks old dishes. You can barely walk anywhere. What is going to happen when CPS walks in the door and she has nowhere to put all of her crap? Oh and the guy she married is the same way. Tons of crap at his place and he hasn't even moved in yet! And they have to find someplace to move and put it all.

God I just want to puke when I think about all of this. Why did my life have to become like a soap opera. Why can't I just keep to myself, cry myself to sleep, and continue mourning my divorce in solitude. I am nervous what is going to happen here. I have always wanted 50/50 custody but don't know how it is possible. What if CPS removes the kids from her and makes them live with me 100% of the time? I don't know if I could handle it with my work schedule. On the contrary without having to pay $1,100 in child support I could probably switch shifts so that I could have the kids more and take the pay cut. Man I am just so sick of the decisions she has made and how they affect all of us. Just needed to vent here. And if that CPS case is true I am going over to his house and beating his ass.