Trying to avoid redpill men

SweelFor- · 2024-09-14T23:06:13+00:00

You don't need to know if he qualifies as "a red pill man" whatever that means.

Take the common denominator: is he an asshole? is he stupid? -> Yes

It's not like "he thinks women should know their roles, but oh well he technically isn't red pill for X reason, so whatever"

bluemagex2517 · 2024-09-15T00:29:16+00:00

They keep taking him to court for child support so he tries to find ways to hide any bonuses or pay raises.

Fuck dead beat dads. I was lucky and my dad always paid his share toward my care (parents were never married, Mom took primary custody with no contest). A few of my friends had shit dads who were always dodging child support. Those guys really fucked up their kids in many ways.

People say that the courts are stacked against dads in custody, but most men don't even seek shared custody. When they actually seek it, they usually get it.

Even my cousin who has been to prison for B&Es and heroin got shared custody of his three kids with three different women. It really takes a lot to seek it and not get it.

Sorry if I'm being extra blunt, this is a subject that is very close to home for me.

xvszero · 2024-09-14T23:23:42+00:00

Let me know if I’m dealing with a redpiller or just a bitter man

What difference does it make? Don't date either of those.

how women should know their role

Also like... you don't want this do you?

blurryeyes_ · 2024-09-15T00:06:53+00:00

🚩🚩🚩🚩 hes red pill man with bitter, Divorced Dad™ energy. Move on

Yamureska · 2024-09-14T22:26:44+00:00

He's redpill. His ideas seem to be about Women being weak and thus unreliable/dangerous, the key redpill belief.

gursh_durknit · 2024-09-15T02:52:02+00:00

Girl.

Designer-Arugula6796 · 2024-09-14T23:38:25+00:00

This guy is a walking red flag

GladysSchwartz23 · 2024-09-15T01:15:59+00:00

What on earth makes someone who says this shit otherwise dateable?!

Inareskai · 2024-09-14T22:26:54+00:00

Objectively yes. You shouldn't even really need to ask about this dude.

NormalCurrent950 · 2024-09-15T00:33:45+00:00

Ugh that’s gonna turn into something insufferable

memomemomemomemomemo · 2024-09-15T04:02:11+00:00

the only thing I can think of is RUN

DMD12345 · 2024-09-15T10:01:36+00:00

The complaining about his ex, especially in the early stages of dating, and sending you content about holding women accountable is a major red flag. Check his Instagram following as well.

callmejay · 2024-09-15T12:21:13+00:00

I'm a man and I wouldn't even hang out with someone like that. Have a higher bar! Date good people.

Lamia_91 · 2024-09-15T11:04:33+00:00

He's sexist. Do you want to be with a sexist man?

Illustrious_Juice_99 · 2024-09-15T15:38:28+00:00

I think that most times, identifying a Redpill man will come more so from how he acts. As someone who was part of the Redpill sphere, the general rule there is similar to Fight club, which is to never talk about Redpill openly.

risen-098 · 2024-09-15T11:49:24+00:00

says the court is stacked against him, but these types wont ever being up the stat of how much child support goes unpaid. says women cant take accountability, but he cant even pay child support. run away. unless his child is some teenager and the mother is making them work to pay their own way while collecting child support and not giving it to them. then he should take all that child support hes not paying to take that case to court rather than the other way around. women cant take accountability and end psychotherapy prematurely? that must say a lot about men lacking accountability then if they're less likely to go to therapy to begin with and fall into this red pill stuff instead.

Unkown64637 · 2024-09-15T14:35:01+00:00

I just wouldn’t date a guy who complains about caring for their children

PrettyPistol87 · 2024-09-15T14:58:25+00:00

Red pill guys are like the hot crazy chicks equivalent.

To me, anyways. If I’m attracted to a dude he’s prob an ass 😜 thanks social conditioning

Beginning-Yak-5387 · 2024-09-15T15:44:49+00:00

Dump

TelevisionGloomy5458 · 2024-09-16T04:29:00+00:00

Good luck. Red pill men will exhaust you with their constant incel speak. It’s best to just cut them off

Bray9545 · 2024-09-16T05:31:01+00:00

I don’t know if he’s redpill. But point number 2 is just a general red flag.

baitlyn · 2024-09-17T15:19:21+00:00

I think constantly sending someone that sort of content is exhausting. He sounds bitter. How does he treat you otherwise?

Honeyhoneyandco · 2024-09-18T04:28:51+00:00

Bro. Point number 1 was a red flag enough. He fathered two separate children with two different women. Then doesn’t even want to support his own children . Talk about taking accountability 🙄

Title	Trying to avoid redpill men
Author	Josie4321
Upvotes	43
Comments	50
Date	September 14, 2024 10:11 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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