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[β]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist68 points69 points70 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This might be the quickest way to fend off an LVM, express minor self-love. Poof πββοΈπ¨
[β]YarikEnterpriseFDS Disciple33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you're onto something here. This could be a good early weeding out tactic!
[β]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really think so. I've experienced this from LV men just for getting excited about my life or a skill, not even directly saying I love myself. I once had a guy get angry with me and say something nasty just because I had a whole group of men laughing about some ridiculous crazy person that came into my job and made the most hilarious scene that involved cops and security staff, drugs, and hiding in bushes then getting tackled. Poor baby got insecure! This wasn't even a guy I was dating just someone I casually new from around and had spoken to a couple of times briefly.
There's nothing that triggers these guys like a little loving yourself, or even thinking that you're fun, funny or smart.
[β]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You nailed it! ππππππππ
[β]RadarFemefFDS Newbie82 points83 points84 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should want your partner to like themselves
[β]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right?
[β]mightbethrowawayyyFDS Newbie77 points78 points79 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Heβs too ugly and he doesnβt get more than 2 matches. Because if he had more than 2 matches, he wouldnβt write essays trying to argue why you shouldnβt like yourself π
[β]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, who the fuck does that? The kind of guys who order nail brides because they're suppose to be docile and grateful, I guess. Fuck that.
[β]ihavenoideadwhatimdoFDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The first reply there that you see was my first message to him!
[β]QuodpotFDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
JuSt sOmEtHiNg tO tHiNk AbOuT
[β]_Atalanta_FDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Translation: βI hope this eats away at you and destroys your self esteemβ
[β]IrateBraceFaceFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Think more about how to please men and stroke their ego"
[β]sofiacarolinaFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly what I came here to comment nshfjshd
[β]Amy3e13FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's a covert narcissist, lol
[β]silkypetalFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frank, weβre all wondering pal...who the FUCK asked π
[β]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Him and his giant ego and paper thin skin π What a loser.
[β]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ironically it's kind of true. Lvm don't look for a woman who loves herself because she won't even talk to him. Imagine telling somebody that nobody loves them because they love themselves. Smh
[β]comet2004FDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is why I'm afraid to even respond to men who call me pretty. I know I'm pretty LOL. I just ignore that as an opener.
[β]eden_elseFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, those get no reply. What am I even meant to respond to "wow u look very pretty". Like yeah it's a dating profile, I'm not putting up pictures where I look like trash?
[β]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lvm hate women with high self esteem. When my last ex started dating me I was recovering from an abusive relationship, and my self esteem was at an all time low. He would tell me often how good I looked and that I had "model" looks, and my answer was always " no, I know I look hideous". When I recovered and start loving myself, looking in the mirror and saying, "hey I feel really good today. I look good too" he started calling me conceited and that my looks were average at best.
So yeah. Test them early. If they can't stand that you love yourself, drop them.
[β]CeriseNoireFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I like myself too"
Ok lemme write you an essay on why that's wrong and why your dog probably doesn't love you and your neighbors think you suck. jUst sOmEtHiNg tO ThiNk aBoUt. No I'm not insecure. Why do you ask??? WHY????
[β]randomoose123FDS Newbie77 points78 points79 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LMAO block him sis he has a forest on his chin anyway
[β]ihavenoideadwhatimdoFDS Newbie[S] 56 points57 points58 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oh lord i unmatched immediately
[β][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow the audacity of even initiating contact with that hairline.
[β]fiercefinanceFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just fuck off Frank.
[β]PollyAnnaSunshineFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He looks like a civil war re-enactor in his online dating profile pic. I'd say, bullet dodged.
HVM seem to like when women are confident and playful, just like you were on the first reply.
[β]ChancedizzleFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love yourself before you give Love elsewhere!
[β]MyplummmsRuthless Strategist10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy hell - look at all these red flags
[β]Blacklea20FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, they easily throw tantrums like toddlers.
[β]OrchidLionFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoooo is he fucking retarded?
[β]sevvb2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
girlll
this same guy sent me an intro and i never answered because he was giving me bad vibes
glad i didn't he's a scumbag
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