Stop giving second chances to men after they show their true colours! You do not come off as compassionate or empathetic. You come off as a weak tool to be manipulated out of your emotions or feelings of unease, and for this they smell insecurity and they will strike again.

Ladies, EMPATHY AND COMPASSION FOR MEN WILL NOT GET YOU FAR. He is who he is! Please believe him when he shows his actions, and DO NOT let him politic with you. Men love to politic with women they feel they are about to lose, but go radio silent when she needs her emotional needs to be met. Its sickening and it's a game they play. Men always tell you who they are if you just listened for a moment and snapped out of the fairytale in what you hope he can be. He isn't that and he never will be sis. Stop playing yourself. 🤡

This is legit text I received from a guy after giving him multiple chances during my pickmeisha days:

"I can’t promise I would adhere to all your boundaries. I can try." Word for word. Barf.

Lmao, like how brazen can they be with their low-valueness? These men are not even trying to be covert with their lack of fucks for you. With men, the devil is rarely in the details. He's right in front of you.

Begging you to give him a second chance to hurt you.

Run.