Does this seem disturbing to anyone else?

pinkyberries · 2020-02-02T21:50:12+00:00

Wonder how long it took the husband to convince his poor spirit-broken wife to have a threesome with another woman.

My heart goes out to the wife who probably had her husband nag her about it for 2 years until she agreed just to try and 'save' the marriage by basically agreeing to him cheating and my heart goes out to the woman writing this post who doesn't understand that they are not friends at all and that she's just a sexual tool to the husband and the wife probably hates her already.

If you notice she wrote "the husband wants a unicorn" and not "Both of them want a unicorn" the wife clearly didn't make that decision.

Snugglyy · 2020-02-02T22:20:29+00:00

I think the last paragraph says it all. When I see poly-minded and sex-positive people like this it’s always them trying to prove to the world that they are radicals redefining what their parents or society expects of them. All it sounds like is they’re trying to prove it to themselves.

This poor, stupid, girl is going to waste very good years realizing that she never built anything of value for herself

supremelyparanoid · 2020-02-02T22:21:54+00:00

This was so gross and sounded like it was written by a man haha

aclumsygirl · 2020-02-02T22:47:42+00:00

I'd love to read the wife's version of the story. I doubt she finds it "exciting" and "refreshing" to stand outside a bedroom door listening to her husband bang another woman 🙄

arnaq · 2020-02-02T22:26:17+00:00

Polyamory is bullshit. I said what I said.

AyemHerself · 2020-02-02T23:40:47+00:00

This "unicorn" is going to get chewed up and spat out as soon as the couple is bored with her. These things never end well.

ScrappleSandwiches · 2020-02-02T22:46:14+00:00

Her post history is really, really sad.

purasangria · 2020-02-02T22:48:11+00:00

What the hell. I assume she'll be paying her own way on these vacations? So she gets to be a sex doll for this married couple, and at her expense?

Nah, Sis.

2020-02-03T00:06:14+00:00

There’s a tag group on Facebook “Wanted: bangmaid until one of us gets jealous” lol

One of the things I hate most about being a bisexual woman is that these weirdos insist we have to participate in this shit. Hell fucking no.

bog_nymph · 2020-02-02T23:11:59+00:00

Yes, it’s so obvious that they had no intention of meeting up with OP again. Not poly, not a unicorn, she was just a test drive for a sick man who now most certainly believes he can and should score anyone he wants for his “threesomes” where at least one party feels coerced every time.

I hate how people act like this is so normal and cool and positive these days. All OP typed out was “I fucked a married man who would NEVER leave his wife who knows. I’m over the moon!”

RadarFemef · 2020-02-02T23:46:56+00:00

“it’s so refreshing”

I think I read about relationships like this in the Bible, sis, there’s nothing new or fresh about it

Novemberinthechair · 2020-02-03T03:17:32+00:00

I know it said, "I got to be a unicorn!" But all I saw was, "I have low self esteem and don't mind being used!"

Ka_Tetof99 · 2020-02-03T02:20:21+00:00

As a bisexual woman this sounds like my absolute worst nightmare. Anyone looking for a unicorn is usually not mature enough to handle treating them like a third functioning person and not just a relationship auxiliary.

behappyaimhigh · 2020-02-03T07:27:43+00:00

This poor deluded fool. It won't be refreshing for long.

IFingHateUsernames12 · 2020-02-03T12:12:18+00:00

And that my dear friends is why you hire an escort if you BOTH are curious and want to try a threesome.

Don't get me wrong, I don't say your man should get to bang whoever he wants as long as he is paying her. But if it's obviously a business transaction, that should instantly kill the spark.

No illusion of friendship, love or anything else. Everybody knows exactly what they are getting from this experience.

In this case the wife did not seem to want this, which should have stopped this whole mess before it even happened.

What I can't get over is that he closed the door. He didn't even want his wife to participate in this. He just wanted to fuck another woman and force her to listen. This screams emotional abuse!

This "unicorn" is so oblivious to the damage she does to this couple's marriage, it's almost hilarious.

He is a cheater and an abusive asshole. His wife can't accept this and forces herself to participate in his cheating, so she can convince her that he isn't and the unicorn seems to have a whole other set of issues on her own to deal with.

ivy176 · 2020-02-03T14:28:10+00:00

averagemedic503 · 2020-02-03T11:41:50+00:00

Based on her post history, I think she’s just trying to find somewhere to fit it. Sad situation for sure.

anonymity_anonymous · 2020-02-03T19:14:05+00:00

For some reason, I thought a man wrote this

Title	Does this seem disturbing to anyone else?
Author	Palomanegra88
Upvotes	82
Comments	51
Date	February 2, 2020 9:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/exvtad/does_this_seem_disturbing_to_anyone_else/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/does-this-seem-disturbing-to-anyone-else.694175 https://theredarchive.com/post/694175

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