Don’t let yourself get scammed

InexperiencedZamboni · 2020-06-29T14:04:07+00:00

I remember telling my ex i loved him. His response was:

I know, you've always known how to love me. I'm so lucky.

TF?

FDStrategist · 2020-06-29T12:33:56+00:00

Omg this is so on the nose. I used to hold a lot of resentment because of this but now I’ve let it go

Lylaeth · 2020-06-29T13:09:12+00:00

My exes didn’t love me, they just loved the hand that fed them so to speak.

the_real_veruca_salt · 2020-06-29T15:11:26+00:00

Omg can you believe it took until my LDR ex cancelled visiting me with the excuse 'i just don't really care about you' until I finally dumped him. He really thought he could get away with that. The audacity.

lanadelhayy · 2020-06-29T14:06:16+00:00

The volume inside of this bus is astronomical

seraphinelysion · 2020-06-29T14:29:17+00:00

I was scammed for way too long. Rather be in an MLM than experience this again.

badnewsbroad76 · 2020-06-29T13:35:30+00:00

Ouch..I felt that too hard :( Knife to my gut..ughh

manisfestationqueen · 2020-06-29T16:23:16+00:00

Is ok babygirl! You are an empathetic angel, and even though someone took advantage, do not lose what makes you the epitome of love. The person who is getting this love next will fully deserve it and act like it. It will be reciprocated. I refuse to make undeserving men make me bitter. I'm just more careful with my love now. Do one will dim my light! We are naturally giving and loving, and there's people out here in this world who deserves and will earn this love

bootyandthebeet · 2020-06-29T12:12:55+00:00

This is how I feel at the moment. Recently my NVM-ex broke up with me and he even told me I always made him feel loved, well that makes one of us 😔 I also feel anger that I wasn’t the one to break up with him, because I honestly had so many more valid reasons to. Argh, never again am I going to put up with so much crap.

thealamo369 · 2020-06-29T19:26:16+00:00

I really needed this today. Broke up with my ex recently because he wasn’t giving the slightest effort. When we broke up he said he wanted to “figure things out” with himself and then get back together because he now knows what it’s like to truly be loved and wanted to show that he could truly love me. I was like lol you think I’m going to sit and wait for your dumb ass to come back and treat me like shit again!? I told him I never wanted to speak to him again.

rivkadidit · 2020-06-29T17:44:39+00:00

At least we can love right. Knowing that is what keeps me sane.

Knowing how proud I am of myself for my pure heart and intentions. My parents did so well with me and no man can taint my morality and ethics.

sadgirlhappydemons · 2020-06-29T14:14:58+00:00

Big mood

2020-06-29T15:11:20+00:00

Well you know how it feels to really love someone. He knows how it feels to be a real long term asshole.

jucamonole · 2020-06-29T14:07:11+00:00

This hits home... 😒

loose_leaf_kitt · 2020-06-29T14:24:44+00:00

Fuck :(

Zadi3l · 2020-06-29T18:40:06+00:00

I loved my ex. My ex loved what I did for him.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-06-29T19:47:17+00:00

I was raised by a porn user mormon who wanted a mini wife. I didn’t get to experience it cause I couldn’t reciprocate due to abuse behind the scenes I didn’t want to accept so I tried to date anyway and got threatened. I felt loved momentarily but as we know mixed signals =no so they understandably stopped putting in an effort. (Teenager, now adult.)

I feel like online porn got bad post 2009. I miss innocence.

I believe most men cannot love. They do not love women. They love feminity and want sex slaves and maids. They want women to validate them without giving anything in return. I’m repulsed. I see too many women talking about their partners who they swore were “loving” raping them in their sleep. It’s scary! Men are scary. No wonder so many women don’t feel loved... men aren’t loving. Most of them are abusive honestly.

Not gonna fall for that cause I’ve seen it. Getting good at spotting ref flags. Just sad it seems like every. Single. Man. Is a raging red flag. Even non violent ones.

itisbetterwithbutter · 2020-06-29T15:23:27+00:00

You got to love that’s a gift. When someone doesn’t love us back they don’t even receive our love they just like the attention so you actually got a lot more out of this both in the love you gave and the heartbreak it caused. The price of unrequited love but it’s worth it in the end. Keep moving forward and you’ll find the guy who thinks you’re as awesome as you think he is.

mscristalconnors · 2020-06-29T18:02:12+00:00

Did it just once. Nope. Never again. I feel bad for the guys I date because I have zero interest in loving them.

I rather love my family, friends, cats, my succulents and my weed....but never a man again.

LifeinGrey · 2020-06-29T20:47:59+00:00

I’m in this situation right now. Broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated when he was stationed overseas. Got back together, got married like two months after I turned 18, dropped everything to move in with him, and not even a year later I have to leave because I can’t stand the abuse anymore. I’m scared to leave because I have no where to bring my pets and I refuse to leave them because they’re all I have left now. I gave him everything but I got nothing return. It hurts so bad :(

breadandbunny · 2020-06-29T16:53:21+00:00

Easlinlove · 2020-06-29T20:52:54+00:00

I felt this in my bones

lilith-ness · 2020-06-29T17:16:54+00:00

I did, and being miserable too.

(Far away and a long time ago)

Noirelise · 2020-06-29T18:35:56+00:00

damn this made me sad :/

ObscureGoldenSphere · 2020-06-29T21:03:42+00:00

Aaaawwww

Icedmocha123 · 2020-06-30T08:27:13+00:00

Hits home 👁👄👁

typeadhd · 2020-08-01T12:07:36+00:00

And I oop-

Title	Don’t let yourself get scammed
Author	eng2fly
Upvotes	3458
Comments	51
Date	June 29, 2020 11:30 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hhy6o8/dont_let_yourself_get_scammed/
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