Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-22T02:19:54+00:00

He has a point 😂 I want every loser who sees sex as transactional to just switch to hookers. We don't want em.

2020-01-22T06:03:45+00:00

I'm realizing that Reddit is mostly young, inexperienced, soft boys who know zero about women, and lack social and emotional intelligence.

heartbreakandseance · 2020-01-22T09:02:09+00:00

I don't think it should be a sex worker's responsibility to take these men out of the dating pool. It should be the responsibility of men to be better people.

gawiya · 2020-01-22T05:57:37+00:00

What’s the point of getting a boyfriend if dildos are available?

VelvetKnuckleduster · 2020-01-22T09:16:45+00:00

Prostitution, like porn, contributes to a culture where women are seen as objects and leads to the disempowerment of us all. We shouldn't encourage LVMs to use either, even if it does keep them out of our hair.

Whateverrr_345 · 2020-01-22T02:26:34+00:00

If only all of them that thought this way would stick to that, stop bothering regular women and go marry a hooker. No one cares and no one would miss you, either.

hazelbroom · 2020-01-22T08:30:42+00:00

Most men raping prostituted women are in relationships already. In countries like South Korea, where the sex trade is larger, 80% of men buy sex. It's not 98% because some men are very poor. In your dream where every man has easy access to a more disadvantaged woman to abuse instead of you, every man who watches porn will be raping trafficking victims as well as dating you. It's harder to tell who is a john, than a porn addict. In South Korea, normal successful men rape a woman to finalise business deals. Most women everywhere enter prostitution underage and men love fucking kids then going home to their families.

Johns are rapists, they should be locked up, fined and their victims given everything that allows her to escape a living hell. I know that won't happen with men in charge but holy shit, don't celebrate the abuse done to vulnerable women and girls. It's not an either/or situation where you escape scot free. Even if they directed their worst abuse at women who had lives full of rape, incest and poverty instead of you, they will still seek wives and won't tell them who they raped to vent their frustrations at her not putting out. Rape rates rise among all women when men are given societal acceptance to rape some women and girls.

jewdy09 · 2020-01-22T02:44:06+00:00

Yaaaassss! Please stop trying to get me and ladies with the same goals as me to perform the services of a professional for free. Everyone wins!

plutonian_princess · 2020-01-22T03:39:50+00:00

Them leaving the dating scene is the most decent thing they will ever do in their pathetic lives lmao

hazelbroom · 2020-01-22T08:36:45+00:00

The Mindless Cruelty of Toxic Ignorance - Rachel Moran

One of my fellow exited women has raised an interesting point on her blog (secretdiaryofadubincallgirl) when she mentioned the ‘cruelty and callousness’ of non-prostituted women who advocate prostitution as suitable and agreeable ‘work’ for other women.

This view is expressed with great vigour by some women who are not prostituted, never were prostituted, and never will be. To hear commercialised sexual abuse sanctioned as acceptable is a painful, insulting slap in the face to prostitution survivors, but to hear it sanctioned by women who know NOTHING of prostitution from personal experience is worse than painful and insulting – it is the deepest stab in the back a non-prostituted woman can give to a woman with a history like mine. There is no question that the position these women have taken is rooted in their own ignorance.

Ignorance is just a natural consequence of never having experienced a situation, but it is not ignorance alone here that causes emotional and practical suffering. It is, in this case, ignorance paired with baseless convictions. This is what I call ‘toxic ignorance’.

But why do people convince themselves that they understand the shape of an experience better than the vast majority who’ve ever lived it? Where does it come from, this great arrogance?

I believe it is fanned into flame, in part, because of that unsavoury human proclivity to be a know-it-all. There are non-prostituted pro-prostitution women who I have come across online who readily state they have zero experience of prostitution – yet we survivors of prostitution are expected to listen as they tell us that a world without prostitution is an unattainable, unachievable, even undesirable thing! The kindest thing I can say about these women is that, by way of their ignorance, the arrogance of their position is beyond their comprehension also.

Why does any woman assume, because she has followed her comfortable and privileged middle-class trajectory into college (as was her lucky non-prostituted birthright) that her education somehow equips her to decode and deconstruct the prostitution experience better than the women who earned their understanding with their legs open on a brothels bed?

They feel they are better equipped to explain to us the nature of what happened to us because of a depth of arrogance so staggering as to be beyond reason. To these women, I have this to say:

“YOU HAVE NO RIGHT to speak for us, or to formulate the shape of our experience, or to attempt to educate the world about something you know nothing about. When you warp and distort the reality of our lived experiences you abuse us as thoroughly as the punters ever did. Yours is the purest expression of the mindless cruelty of ignorance – belligerent, arrogant, and potent in its toxicity. I am ashamed your brand of ‘feminism’ even exists, and I am ashamed of that part of my heart that wants to see you eat your words in a brothels bedroom, because I would not wish that hell on any woman – not even you.”

http://theprostitutionexperience.com/?p=1

Nifteroni-and-Cheese · 2020-01-22T16:44:25+00:00

I fully support this man not trying to date any women. 100% on board with him taking himself out of the dating pool.

wowthispostissad · 2020-01-22T03:18:02+00:00

I hope the men into sex dolls and prostitutes get into those and leave real women alone.

Title	Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄
Author	GuineveresGrace
Upvotes	124
Comments	37
Date	January 22, 2020 2:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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