Hi guys. I went out with some friends last night and my friend’s brother was in town. She’s a newer friend, super lovely, never previously met her brother. He’s a definite LVM - divorced at a young age w a young child, ex-military, said some grotesque things about my career, etc. The whole night was very fun. I did flirt back a couple times, but very harmlessly in a crowd of people. We returned to my friend’s apartment and I go to the restroom. When I walk out he is the ONLY person there. Apparently everyone went an apartment of a different friend a couple doors then. He then very aggressively demands that if I’m not going to f*** him I need to leave. I have NEVER met this man before. He is blocking the exit. I started to cry and he then moved and I scurried out.

Ladies, do not be nice to these men. I knew he was a LVM, but was nice because he is my friend’s brother. I honestly thought he was going to hurt me. My friend is sweet and immediately confronted her brother and made him leave, but I’m just a little shaken up and feel very stupid. Stay safe out there.