I'm speechless

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-09-11T22:43:11+00:00

"My boyfriend rapes me. This is kind of frustrating." WHAT. THE. FUCK. So many women have been brainwashed to just not care if the men in their lives are hurting them and it's actually so depressing to see.

redbirdflies · 2020-09-11T23:09:47+00:00

I sent her a DM

I hope she comes to this sub

She’s being groomed by a narc

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2020-09-11T22:46:07+00:00

TRAUMA BONDING

This is trauma bonding in action. This is why this sub is anti-kink.

Moonxtal · 2020-09-11T23:28:51+00:00

I'm thinking a safe word for him should be a swift kick to the balls

BasieSkanks · 2020-09-11T23:44:42+00:00

If you dare venture onto any of the kink subreddits, you’ll see situations like this with alarming regularity. When I was in the kink world, men reacted badly to me using the safe word. One guy completely ignored it, whilst another ghosted me the next day because he felt powerless after I used it.

chasingconfidence · 2020-09-11T22:50:35+00:00

what in the crazy?!?!

I was "NO!" from the subject line. It only got worse and worse as I kept reading it. She needs to leave him before it gets worse, which it will.

This is another reason why I cannot go for rough sex. Anytime I've heard about women engaging in rough sex, it just seems to get "rougher" (and degrading) over time. I am prudish though.

staywiththecrown · 2020-09-12T01:06:46+00:00

It's so disgusting that a safe word is even fucking needed. Safe words are basically saying that guys don't want to be traumatized when they rape someone because hearing "no" or "stop" ruins their fantasy and makes them the bad guy. It's a half assed way for the guy to follow consent cuz he could just say, "I didn't know what you meant" or "I couldn't hear you".

ello-motto · 2020-09-11T23:46:30+00:00

I was browsing NoFap earlier and the stories were horrible. Gen Z guys have literally been watching porn since they were 10. Lots of them still in their teens already complaining about erectile dysfunction. The successful NoFappers were celebrating finally getting rid of their "weird fetishes" after successfully completing the 90 day mark. I can't even imagine how messed up their idea of sex of the guys who continue to watch it on a daily basis.

chateauduchat · 2020-09-11T23:07:09+00:00

So what she’s asking is... “Is my boyfriend raping me ok?”

stares blankly into the camera like in The Office

Particular_Cut_9994 · 2020-09-11T23:41:12+00:00

I feel like men 24 and under are all nasty immature little six year old's in a grown ups body and should not be allowed to procreate until they hit 30 or can at least prove that they WON'T rape, violate, threaten and/or act like an emotionally stunted six year old.

Also we do a great disservice to young women if they have to ask the question 'is it okay for my boyfriend to rape me'.

daisy_0720 · 2020-09-12T07:28:50+00:00

"Too rough for my tastes but HE likes it so we keep doing it."

What about what SHE likes? It makes my blood boil to see how women are brainwashed to constantly put aside their wants, desires and needs for the sake of some LV scrote who literally sees them as an object to masturbate into. He couldn't give less of a fuck about her but sHe lOvEs hIm.

It's like whack-a-mole. For every one woman FDS saves, thousands more will continue to be abused.

redbirdflies · 2020-09-12T18:18:01+00:00

I’m truly disappointed at some of the comments on this thread

Some of you are shaming this poor girl, who is suffering from abuse. She’s young and confused and this is how you treat her?

That’s NOT what this sub is about

Shame on those of you who are doing this !!!!

iamaninsect · 2020-09-12T15:44:26+00:00

No. Consensual sex isn’t a negotiation. If it’s uncomfortable to you and he’s ignoring that, he’s disrespectful trash and lord only knows what he’s really into.

GingeroftheDead · 2020-09-12T14:06:34+00:00

Omg honey nooo 🤢🤢🤢

whyyyyyyyythoo · 2020-09-12T03:40:21+00:00

IlL TaKE iT InTo COnsDIeRaTIon or in other words he’ll listen to you ask him to stop and fucking ignore you.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-09-12T04:56:02+00:00

"but I looove him tho!!!!"

appleadam123 · 2020-09-12T08:55:35+00:00

I just want to know why women put up with this much? I am soo done

redbirdflies · 2020-09-12T08:47:37+00:00

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Title	I'm speechless
Author	GrapeJuiceEnthusiast
Upvotes	112
Comments	38
Date	September 11, 2020 10:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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