is a guy ranting about pornsickness a red flag?

Aocwannabe · 2021-08-11T16:27:29+00:00

🚩🚩It’s uncouth for him to be talking to you about sex or money this soon.

miwamus · 2021-08-11T17:04:46+00:00

I'm more bothered by the way he said it.

"I think this about (subject) and people that think differently are (crazy/stupid/dumb), what do you think?

Basically making you say you're (crazy/stupid/dumb) if you say you think differently.

It's a manipulation tactic.

revengeofgivingtree · 2021-08-11T17:15:54+00:00

If he made you feel weird that's your body telling you he's not right for you.

PinturaMagnifica · 2021-08-11T17:29:56+00:00

Yeah, that's a big red flag, imo. This was only your second date? That seems inappropriate to be bringing up, on his part. If it made you feel weird, you should drop him.

I wonder if he already broke his pp, and that's why he's so angry over it. Also sounds a bit misogynistic to be raving about a women who made a sex tape and not the male-dominated, woman-abusing porn industry (if he really cares that much about it).

coursesand · 2021-08-11T18:41:36+00:00

I find it to be fake outrage to try to get on our side. It’s happened to me multiple times. It’s basically their version of “I’m not like the other guys.” They’re like “ugh yes men DO suck, but not ME, I would NEVER do something like watch porn, EW.” But typically these guys are just the “nice guy.”

thatjimmylove · 2021-08-11T16:40:34+00:00

To me it seems his rage is oriented at the sexuality of women being displayed hence why he hates kim's sex tape so much, instead of focusing on the obvious implications and disturbing parts of pornography. A sex tape is very different than what porn is ( i know that sounds stupid at first lol). This seems red flag to me.

Zeniite · 2021-08-11T17:22:00+00:00

It sounds like reaction formation. Red flag.

PinturaMagnifica · 2021-08-11T18:49:36+00:00

Apart from his obvious red flags, the Kardashians have been strategic in continually leveraging media cycles to suit their fame and business model. One cannot just make a sex tape and then find themselves with an empire. The Kardashians are problematic af, but i roll my eyes at men who think their success is a fluke. The tiktok/instagram account Kardashian Kolliqium explains it in detail if you're into media studies.

starfighter07 · 2021-08-11T19:07:56+00:00

Well, considering that Kim K was first and foremost a victim of REVENGE PORN aka a man trashiness + she is not known only for sex, this is once again an example of a man trying to neg women (no matter what you think of the Kardashian). So yeah, huge red flag for me.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-08-11T20:12:13+00:00

Red flag for sure.

He’s entitled to his opinion about the Kardashians and Kim’s sex tape but to just bring it up out of nowhere and to start ranting about it is off.

It also bothers me because Kim Kardashian is a victim re: the sex tape, and I find that men who rant about it are just upset that an exceedingly beautiful and rich woman became famous after a sex tape leak. I don’t know why he was complaining to you about it either, it was men who made that tape famous by watching it, he should be complaining to other men.

His disparagement of the Kardashians also ignores the fact that Kris Jenner is an excellent businesswoman.

It’s also ridiculous to be upset about Kylie lip kits. He’s again just angry that she became a billionaire. He doesn’t even stop to think about how she has been in the spotlight since she was a child, had to drastically change her appearance to be considered hot, and how she was groomed by the man she was babysitting for.

It’s pure jealousy.

But it’s more than that too. His ranting also tells me he sees women as opportunistic whores and I think his rant was his way of warning you to not be an opportunistic whores.

It also shows he doesn’t respect you. A man who respected you who didn’t like the Kardashians knowing you did would keep his opinion to himself or politely say he’s not into it and take a “to each their own attitude.”

The ranting about pornsickness comes off as performative to me. It sounds like he’s come across other women who are anti-porn and he was testing you to see if you were anti-porn, and if you are, you’re a hypocrite for liking the Kardashians. He was testing your ideological purity.

FoxTrotRiot · 2021-08-11T16:52:39+00:00

It could go either way. If he's mad that the Kardashians are famous because of money, eh, who cares. If he's mad that she is famous because of a sex tape, he probably has let culture misogyny influence how he perceives the world.

ferociouslycurious · 2021-08-11T21:02:16+00:00

Ranting about your buying habits strikes me as a red flag. Blaming the Kardashians in a rant for pornsickness strikes me as a red flag.

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Title	is a guy ranting about pornsickness a red flag?
Author	comet2004
Upvotes	49
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Date	August 11, 2021 4:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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