Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us here

Thereismorethanthis · 2022-01-02T07:12:16+00:00

20 comments and I can only see 12 😂

msxchrisx · 2022-01-02T06:38:33+00:00

I send people the link in a message. Too many other eyes are watching

saragc92 · 2022-01-02T06:42:51+00:00

It’s happened to me, like they really hate us uniting

mandoa_sky · 2022-01-02T06:47:14+00:00

that's why you DM them ;)

sleutherino · 2022-01-02T06:43:16+00:00

I usually send people a DM with the suggestion, because some people get big mad when they hear about FDS, let alone to see us actively spreading the word. Weird how they feel so threatened by us, but anyway.

Yeah, I stick to DM's, with a reason why I think it would be worth them checking out. Relationship troubles, struggling to set personal boundaries, looking to self improve, ect.

glittersparkles212 · 2022-01-02T07:45:15+00:00

I like the sub starterpacks, sometimes they post funny stuff, comic relief. But every now and then when I check that on sub there is a meme hating on FDS. Keep up the great work ladies ! This sub just keeps on growing and I am very glad for that.

butteryrum · 2022-01-02T06:25:28+00:00

A very fine example of reddit misogyny in mod teams that we discuss from time to time. I said something a little too feminist and it got me banned from some political sub can't remember which. It's annoying, this is the exact problem I have with men in general is they often simply refuse to listen. If it doesn't fit their narrative, if it challenges how they view the world then we're lying, we're being dramatic, they don't want to hear it/can't handle hearing it and thinking about it a little too hard. Might pop a blood vessel from too much critical thinking. Gaslighting assholes. The Pickmeishas who enable it are gaslighting assholes just the same too.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-01-02T10:02:58+00:00

As others have said, don’t publicly link to this sub like that, please send a DM instead.. Otherwise It encourages extra negative attention and brigading from scrotes.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-02T07:55:04+00:00

Didn't you know? One does not simply ask a confused person that posts on relationship advice to join the dark side🖤 Also, I tend to think that most women on RA might actually be men who like to troll. Too many OP replies with: "thanks for all your advice and for telling me to leave my abusive bf and for minutiously pointing out he's abusive and how but I think I'll stay in this bad relationship because he's the breadwinner and I suddenly love him and I suddenly like violence, especially in bed uwu" 🤡

Bratsociety · 2022-01-02T06:50:00+00:00

I was banned recently from the dating sub cause I'm a part of this sub lmao

dlynne5 · 2022-01-02T09:58:26+00:00

Since FDS has been making the front page, it's really crazy. I've found THE most positive thing about this sub is empowering women not to settle for mooching, red flag waving idiots. I find this sub to have it's positives and negatives like most things. THE most positive thing about this sub is empowering women not to settle for mooching, red flag waving idiots. The fact that the most comments when this site makes the front page are usually " those women are fat and ugly and can't date anyway" is the same shit that's been thrown at women for years who basically said no to abusive soul sucking relationships.
Comparing FDS to red pill incels is also a joke, the men that are dragged in here deserve every moment of it, there's no "shit testing" " or deceptive dating practices. I'll wait for the day that a woman goes on a shooting spree targeting men because the "womenssphere" is ssoooooo toxic.

creamtart_ · 2022-01-02T08:41:17+00:00

If you want to reach out to a user then just DM them. Posting a comment linking to FDS encourages haters to brigade and spam the sub.

The mods work hard enough to clean the sub up as it is, you’re just giving them more unnecessary work.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-02T08:04:25+00:00

What's the issue? Just replace him.

ratchetmildew · 2022-01-02T10:24:22+00:00

Just pm them

blackmetalbetty · 2022-01-02T16:11:25+00:00

Society just let's them be as shallow as they want 🤦🏾‍♀️ dump this dude, tired of seeing these dumb questions these women already know the answer to.

Title	Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us here
Author	Thereismorethanthis
Upvotes	330
Comments	37
Date	January 2, 2022 6:18 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ru3fxu/just_got_banned_from_relationship_advice_for_my/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/just-got-banned-from-relationship-advice-for-my.1093231 https://theredarchive.com/post/1093231

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