Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.

Vmchik · 2022-03-27T12:23:45+00:00

Locking this thread because we do not explain ourselves or send paragraphs at FDS. You block and delete. No need to help him get better at duping the next woman.

AnniaT · 2022-03-27T09:23:39+00:00

Don't waste time and energy explaining. Just block and delete. He knows, he just doest care.

Edit: I had only read the first message and thought the black one was you/the woman lol But the sentiment of never explaining still applies. What a NVM he is! Also men who refer to women as "females"...

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-27T09:32:58+00:00

He’s an idiot.

Quote - “There’s a big difference in how you as a female makes a man feel when u grant him the opportunity to be a gentleman… And when u assume that he’ll pay for your entertainment”

Nobody missed his use of verbiage I’m sure. He put her as a lower form, female, while he is a man with potential of gentleman. She was granting him the opportunity to be a gentleman, he wasn’t one. Then he shifted blame onto her; and said gentleman don’t have to pay for your dates or act like gentleman!

makeawomancum · 2022-03-27T09:08:49+00:00

Eww. He seriously thinks he did something when he typed those petty emojis. HE IS a turn off. HV dates I’ve had were with men who were happy to treat me and would be offended if I offered.

Platipus6 · 2022-03-27T09:23:43+00:00

I GRACED YOU WITH MY PRESENCE YOU FUCKING BIIIIIITCH

GIVE ME A RIDE HOOOOOME

I DESERVE A BLOWIE IN YOUR CAR AT MY DOORSTEP BECAUSE I GAVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO DRIVE ME HOME, GOD I'M TELLING MOM HOW AWFUL YOU WERE

Zitrone77 · 2022-03-27T10:30:24+00:00

Scooter 🤣.

KitKat1705 · 2022-03-27T10:28:30+00:00

I stop explaining things to men since my last heartbreak in 2020. Men know.

ndf250 · 2022-03-27T09:34:18+00:00

All I can say to this is what the fuck? Like, what are men turning to these days??

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-03-27T09:13:51+00:00

I always do the "you must be really poor" sad face 😞 which makes them so angry. "If I knew you were so poor, I would have texted you some coupons" 😔😔 "I think you are too poor to be dating, if a couple of drinks might send you into bankruptcy." And "I don't date people going through a crisis. I think you should concentrate on getting out of poverty. Best of luck!"

Any of these comments will be like a punch to the guts.

The giving a stranger a lift home thing - I would cause a huge scene with that if he had really pissed me off and I felt like causing some hell. "Are you trying to MURDER me?" And just escalate it from there.

c_a_t_lady · 2022-03-27T10:12:30+00:00

"I behaved with basic decency without you even asking. Where's my gratitude cookie?"

intergalacticanon44 · 2022-03-27T09:53:14+00:00

Yikes

Do people not do nice things for their friends too? Is this how they treat them????? Very weird behaviour

caromaro23 · 2022-03-27T10:37:51+00:00

This makes me wanna throw up in my mouth. Like what is he even talking about… he must be broke or something

PrincessBeefloof · 2022-03-27T09:27:13+00:00

Why are these people drinking and driving??

liberal_queen21 · 2022-03-27T12:22:41+00:00

It sounds word for word like he’s been watching those youtube videos made by the dudes who never get dates who complain about how “women expect everything to be paid for on dates.” The ones who encourage men to basically ask the women to pay for half or all of the date.

notallowed2havepizza · 2022-03-27T11:44:53+00:00

You could have avoided this mess if you only go on a dinner date. Don’t go for drinks. It attracts cheap LVM. If a man wants to impress you and really wants you so bad, he would make it into a dinner date. Trust me. My experience proved this to be true.

zorua · 2022-03-27T12:04:09+00:00

Sounds like a man I just ended something with, the whining entitlement... how tiring.

turkeyisdelicious · 2022-03-27T11:50:35+00:00

He is so so mad he went home on his scooter instead of with her. Maybe he should’ve sprung for dinner too. See ya never, Trevor.

almostalice64 · 2022-03-27T12:18:03+00:00

I totally get the "don't waste your time explaining" sentiment -- but honestly, the joy of telling someone exactly what you think without censoring yourself to save their feelings? *chef's kiss*

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Title	Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.
Author	Mediocre_Principle
Upvotes	256
Comments	36
Date	March 27, 2022 9:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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