Never let your guard down

Technusgirl · 2021-11-05T00:08:34+00:00

Words are just words, he has to prove how he feels about you through how he treats you and what he does for you, always

idiosyncraticg1 · 2021-11-04T22:37:12+00:00

If a man writes you one poem, he’s in love with you. If he writes you 1000 poems, he’s in love with poetry.

xfelugirlx · 2021-11-05T04:34:07+00:00

Don’t believe the words just the actions, almost all the men i dated told me they wanted to marry me and etc (future faking) old me would be so happy and sensitive buy nowadays i just laugh about it

springtulip475 · 2021-11-04T22:24:11+00:00

4 hand written love letters in the first 3 months? classic love bombing.

Japanese-Spaghetti · 2021-11-04T22:53:12+00:00

I felt so sad learning that in a romantic relationship, EVEN after marriage, you have to be careful about getting comfortable, letting your guard down, and sharing vulnerable parts of yourself. It helps to learn to spot red flags early on and avoid emotionally unstable people, but idk if it’s just me, but being in a romantic relationship married or not just appears to be a job. You have to keep at a certain level and not get too comfortable or else they’ll get bored and leave. Maybe this is me just exaggerating or that I had to deal with guys in the past that expected me to look and act perfect at all times (but they also didn’t like fake hair, makeup, fake nails, etc….?) and they were not even healthy, classy, or well kept

Xirimirii · 2021-11-05T03:43:27+00:00

Seems like the more a relationship is on social media the more often he does this

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-11-04T22:15:27+00:00

I’m sorry that happened.

Men never mean the things they say 🤷🏻‍♀️. It’s just better to judge their actions until the end of time.

saint-jezebel · 2021-11-05T00:53:13+00:00

He did what he needed to do to let her guard slip, cheat and figured he’s a nice guy, so she would give him another chance. She should have asked for jewelry, not poems. At least she’d have something of value. Now, she has to give constant side eyes if the next guy she meets is a writer like wtf 😂

TikiTikiTata-chalala · 2021-11-05T13:31:10+00:00

I bet he just copied some victorian potty down and just recites it to every woman he wants to impress

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-05T15:21:04+00:00

Nice touch with the “dying on the inside :)” and by nice, I wan I want to give her a hug.

Title	Never let your guard down
Author	denimbastard
Upvotes	771
Comments	26
Date	November 4, 2021 9:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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