Pick-me defending her "HVM" 💀

LaBaronessa · 2020-09-15T05:15:03+00:00

Someone clearly struck a nerve. Sorry babe, if you feel like you got "picked" instead of being the one doing the choosing, he's already got you down lock and wrapped around his finger. I've yet to meet anyone on here with a superiority complex. She's hella projecting with that one lmao

Layla-bg · 2020-09-15T05:26:05+00:00

They are going to wake up one day, and it is going to be brutal.

elainejay82 · 2020-09-15T06:10:24+00:00

All I hear is "I like my low standards."

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-15T05:29:52+00:00

Ouch! There is nothing quite like a triggered pickme. I would expect her to try to grab your hair any second here if this were happening in person.

Can you give any details on this supposed "high value man" she was defending so vehemently? I bet the details are tasty!

daisy_0720 · 2020-09-15T07:22:22+00:00

The irony is that women with genuinely HV partners come to this sub and say things like "This sub confirmed how HV my husband is" or "I feel so lucky to have met my boyfriend". They don't get butthurt and triggered over the content; they're actually glad that other women have the opportunity to find a relationship as positive and healthy as theirs.

The lady doth protest too much, methinks.

super_thinker_ · 2020-09-15T14:31:38+00:00

I love that she knows all of the official FDS terminology 😂

Like others have said here, being "picked" or "chosen" isn't something to be proud of.

I never want to be thrown into the arena with my fellow women, my allies, my queens, my sisters, ever again.

If a man in my future ever tries to pit me against another woman, I'll wave my white flag, wish the other woman the best, and take myself out of the equation.

Hhjjuuy · 2020-09-15T15:35:04+00:00

Funny how she says our ideals are trash then lists a whole bunch of our ideals as her ideals in that tirade.

"Knowing I am an equal to my man" - Finding a man as valuable as you are is kinda the whole point. Keep the bar high and accept nothing less than your standards. Level up and hold yourself to a high standard as well because youll be happier for it whether single or in a relationship. That's very FDS.

"mutual respect in relationships" - definitely something we support, though it isn't all we need, more like the bare minimum.

"more to love and relationships than an arbitrary value system put on people" - if by arbitrary value system put on people you mean the patriarchy....

"no one gender is the enemy" - again we are very anti-patriarchy, a system that portrays women as inherently destructive on a personal and societal level

"not all men are trash" - hence why we have the term high value man which she is clearly aware of

"not all women in relationships are mothers, "bangmaids" and housekeepers" - yes exactly! Women should strive to avoid being in a position of constant sacrifice and servitude to their partner. FDS provides the tools for relationships without these awful dynamics to flourish

"I love myself enough to not have to pretend I'm better than everyone else to feel superior" - spot on again! Level up and love yourself with complete honesty so that you don't have to pretend ever again because you really are the amazing woman that you've worked to be.

It's almost like she didn't even actually read anything here before drawing her bizarre conclusions through the lens of toxic, male dominated communities that are threatened by women realising our worth...

Lavender_flow · 2020-09-15T11:32:40+00:00

Who wants to bet her man watches potn and hits women up in their dms on instagram? 😂 "hvm". I am pretty sure your partner is trash sis. But enjoy your trash.

theawkwardalli · 2020-09-15T04:31:09+00:00

I’d comment “*your “ because I’m petty as fuck :)

7Cuervos · 2020-09-15T04:23:32+00:00

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not_a_femme · 2020-09-15T13:13:58+00:00

Lot of words to say you're salty

Maisiebr · 2020-09-15T07:33:44+00:00

I always just ask... Can they read?

creamtart_ · 2020-09-15T09:20:38+00:00

Triggered much? 😂

7Cuervos · 2020-09-15T10:23:53+00:00

she doesn't even know the difference between you're and your. bruh.

7Cuervos · 2020-09-15T04:22:04+00:00

For context: I commented on a post about how men get more out of relationships than women do, therefore it will never be as 50/50 as they claim it to be. All pick-mes and NLOGs came for my throat because they got picked by 'HVM'. 🥴

Champagne_bitch · 2020-09-15T10:13:02+00:00

She will look back on this text one day after they are married and have several children and the baby father said "oh, I were never serious with you." Only then she will realized she is in the wrong

7Cuervos · 2020-09-15T14:13:34+00:00

Can I have more context? Why is she so triggered lmao

alkovimus · 2020-09-15T04:54:35+00:00

Let her learn the hard way until she's a few decades older by letting trash abuse her and waste her precious time. Maybe by then she will get her wake up call and see the harsh reality.

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-15T17:33:06+00:00

There's a host I listen to that has a podcast and married for 20 years let it slip that she "wishes she married someone wealthy when she had the chance". Even though likes to pretend her marriage is fine.

Hahane · 2020-09-15T23:05:14+00:00

wow for a person who is in such a loving relationship, is she spiteful

7Cuervos · 2020-09-16T14:42:07+00:00

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Title	Pick-me defending her "HVM" 💀
Author	7Cuervos
Upvotes	65
Comments	58
Date	September 15, 2020 4:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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