Really pause and think if it’s even worth arguing about #kickhimout2020

greenappletw · 2020-01-12T20:42:25+00:00

Literally. God my ex would always talk about how BUSY he was and how he could not text me back. I get it. You don’t want to text 24/7. Neither did I. But you can text me back a few times a day. Sometimes men are fucking awful. And then he was constantly texting his friends/ playing games on his phone for the first part of our short relationship. He made me feel so fucking pathetic. So glad I will never be in a situation like that again because I will never put myself in that thanks to this sub!!!

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mariadoeseverything · 2020-01-13T11:10:59+00:00

Why are we promoting this? My ex pressured me into letting him go through my phone. I absolutely hated it. I never cheated on him, but it was like I was constantly suspect. He blew up at me once because I emptied my inbox. He somehow got the password to my Facebook and was monitoring everything I did on there. He was insanely jealous and controlling. This isn't normal behaviour. If you do it to him, he'll just use it as an excuse to do it to you. If you feel so insecure that you need to dig through his phone, then what does that say about the relationship?

kht777 · 2020-01-12T21:55:01+00:00

As a fan of the monarchy whos followed them like celebs, I know he was unhappy in it and preferred to fight and actually do real work. I love that he finally got a real reason to break away and I wish them the best. She still has money from Suits I bet and can get more acting work and he had his veterans stuff to run and I'm sure mental health charity will keep him busy. He has also personal family money.

Great advice to remember!

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-01-12T22:06:16+00:00

THANK YOU!!!!! I read so so many comments on different subs with women saying “ I saw his phone and I know it’s my fault so I didn’t confront him” NOOOOOOO NONO NO NO. Married women, women with children, long term relationships... ALL saying things like THEY feel so bad THEY violated HIS privacy. Please. If he’s not doing anything, he gives zero fucks if you look at his phone PERIODT

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stuffedtacos · 2020-01-13T00:06:13+00:00

Prince Harry set the bar for all men pretty damn high! Good luck out there fellas! Haha!

holobunni · 2020-01-12T20:30:05+00:00

Imo, you shouldn't have to have him unlock it for you, he should have told you the password. Any guy I've ever been serious with knows my password and I know his. Not bc we need to check up on each other but out of convenience. I cant find my phone, lemme grab yours to call it. My hands are full and I need to text my mom something? Hey, grab my phone and text her for me. If you cant trust me with your password, I dont trust you, period.

sterne_arctique · 2020-01-13T17:51:18+00:00

My now husband gave me his unlock code in the first week of our relationship, and he has mine. I never snooped around in 4 years - never had the desire to. We are 100% honest to each other anyway and love each other so much...

I decided many, many years ago that I wouldn’t settle for anything less than perfect, and here I am!
Keep it up ladies!! You are doing it right!!! ✊

saffyia247 · 2020-01-13T19:52:24+00:00

Hey, I just genuinely want to know (I am female, and you can see past posts and comments going back as far as my reddit account) why I need to see his phone? I guess I just always thought if I didn't trust someone enough that I had to go through their phone, that there were probably already issues. So why is looking through someone's phone so important?

needsomecoffeefirst · 2020-01-12T21:23:18+00:00

Well, yeah. That was quite a big measure. He's willing to do everything to protect his wife and son. I used to admire Meghan though. A strong talented woman going overseas to help people and children in challenging conditions, raising awareness on different issues. I think the media has given an undeserved hard time.

However, I saw some clips in which she claims to have worked hard to pay for college, plus sone scholarships she got. She made it seem she really struggled, but there are reports her dad paid for her whole education from early childhood until she finished college, always making sure she had no financial worries and attending the most expensive institutions.

I'm sure her dad is not perfect. No one is. But it was a bit disappointing, her disregarding the efforts his dad made in such a blatant way. There were also reports on how her dad was struggling with money a lot in his old age (she was already famous and with a better financial situation) and although she has no obligation to help him out financially, she didn't help him. It really made me a bit confused about her true character. I hope she is truly a kind person and is not using Harry.

I hope I don't offend anyone here. I just never thought about the possibility of her faking all that altruism and kindness, and only seeking to secure herself.

ExploradoFordralet · 2020-01-17T19:38:50+00:00

Why you datin someone who hides the phone in the first place? If you feel like you need to check his phone then you've already lost. Just go. No trust no fuss.

randomgirlimok · 2020-01-13T05:22:28+00:00

Really wonder if he has some deal in the background that says he can come back if/when he divorces her

Lakersrock111 · 2020-01-13T02:07:18+00:00

What happened with the Royals?

Loiacono3137 · 2020-01-13T07:22:55+00:00

Lmao

Title	Really pause and think if it’s even worth arguing about #kickhimout2020
Author	suaveagave
Upvotes	841
Comments	47
Date	January 12, 2020 7:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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