This was shared by a coworker.. she has gotten divorced 3 times.

Nifteroni-and-Cheese · 2020-01-03T16:44:58+00:00

Oh don’t you be putting that BS on my girl Michelle. Here’s some actual Michelle Obama quotes:

“My husband is my teammate. If we are going to win this game together, he has to be strong and he has to be okay with me being strong. I do not want a weak player on my team, nor does he. But sometimes, we accept weak in one another because it feels easy. And be cautious of the man or woman who wants just the easy person.”

“High bar, ladies. High bar. Keep your bar high, because it’s hard enough with a high bar, it’s hard. So you don’t want to start making huge, huge compromises in who you are and how you want a man or a partner to show up in your life."

"Strong men, strong men, men who are truly role models, don’t need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful,"

And a few from her husband, the former president:

"The great thing about the girls is they've got a wonderful role model in their mom. They've seen how Michelle and I interact — not only the love but also the respect that I show to their mom. So I think they have pretty high expectations about how relationships should be, and that gives me some confidence about the future."

“Here’s the advice I give everyone about marriage—is she someone you find interesting? You will spend more time with this person than anyone else for the rest of your life, and there is nothing more important than always wanting to hear what she has to say about things.”

"Now women, I just want you to know; you are not perfect, but what I can say pretty indisputably is that you're better than us [men]. “

hilariouslystated · 2020-01-03T13:00:28+00:00

Barack obama was already "built up" when he met Michelle though. Any struggles he went through afterwards was after they had wealth. He never would have gotten a woman at her level if he didn't at least have his career as a lawyer. Michelle obama is not a pickmeisha Bob the builder chick. Take note!

shellshocked8 · 2020-01-03T15:28:03+00:00

What are his "hidden battles"? His porn addiction? GTFO here, this picture should be in reverse. Us women have far more battles in every day life to fight then men will EVER understand. Who will pick him up and VALUE him? Every damn person on this planet that's who! Men don't have a problem with people "valuing" them, it's us women who have to fight every fucking day to be be valued. It's us women who have to fight every day to be seen as fucking human beings and not just the sum of our body parts.

jewdy09 · 2020-01-03T09:44:34+00:00

Are those people supposed to be the Obamas?

Queencake504 · 2020-01-03T12:39:07+00:00

So.....you mean to tell me that after ,"Valuing ,crowning him and not being another one of his fights" it still didnt keep her from getting divorced?🙄#pickme

Annallve · 2020-01-03T09:45:39+00:00

Ew hotep bullshit

s_slayer · 2020-01-03T11:03:55+00:00

We all fight hidden battles. I’m not picking up one more gd man ever. They don’t even appreciate it. They are far too self-absorbed and getting something out of being victims. Complete wastes of time. Find a guy that doesn’t need picked up or just stay single.

CoolMelonade · 2020-01-03T10:06:53+00:00

Pick Mes make me sad

psychsense · 2020-01-03T17:02:55+00:00

I would rather build myself up from the damage men have caused to my psyche over the years than waste my time building them up so they can leave me when they are successful. NAH SIS is right lol

teeteereads · 2020-01-03T10:57:40+00:00

Well if you shouldn’t take financial advice from a perpetually broke person, then when it comes to relationships...

2020-01-03T16:54:53+00:00

Cringe

Scotsburd · 2020-01-03T10:28:05+00:00

Off you fuck, dear...

jmaydizzle · 2020-01-03T17:46:36+00:00

LOLOLOL no thanks

rerererereeees · 2020-01-03T20:12:11+00:00

Oh honey but there ARE other pickme’s that will take his loser-ass and try to build him... Unfortunately.

SslimReaperr · 2020-01-04T06:26:18+00:00

B A R F

blackopium777 · 2020-01-03T12:56:44+00:00

I am the only fight he should be fighting every single day. If he doesnt make me love him every single day, I will rather stay alone and leave his ass.

Smooth_Purchase · 2020-01-05T06:11:28+00:00

Hopefully his mother

Lordperuchan · 2020-01-23T07:20:25+00:00

No men ever tried to stick with me when I'm fighting my hidden battles, let alone building me up, so hard pass

Sewud · 2020-01-04T01:03:20+00:00

Men with hidden battles should not try to date. They get her womb and dna and having a smart and loving mother is very important for his children. The least he can do is not have hidden battles.

Title	This was shared by a coworker.. she has gotten divorced 3 times.
Author	TheWordLilliputian
Upvotes	157
Comments	27
Date	January 3, 2020 9:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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