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Progressive Feminism and Conservative Traditionalism are two sides of the same coin when it comes to their views of male behaviour.

Itrusttheinternett

October 31, 2021
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Title Progressive Feminism and Conservative Traditionalism are two sides of the same coin when it comes to their views of male behaviour.
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Itrusttheinternett

Upvotes 153
Comments 25
Date October 31, 2021 9:02 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
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[–]TheLWMA 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm very disappointed in Christina Hoff-Sommers.

[–]Redpants_McBoatshoe 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

It's a very ancient theme. Enkidu in the Epic of Gilgamesh is a wild man who becomes civilized by this temple prostitute called Shamhat through sex, basically. Later he curses her because it led to him being trapped in the underworld, but then is convinced to change his mind and he says that all men will desire her and shower her with gifts.

And civilization is feminine in a way, because that taming can only happen through a social contract. It's more beneficial for women than men, to some degree. A pretty big theme in feminism by the way is the idea that under patriarchy nature is seen as a feminine that is tamed by man. But you can easily flip that around like this article does, it just doesn't get talked or written about as much.

[–]SoundProofHead 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

nature is seen as a feminine that is tamed by man

But man needs to escape his natural instincts and be civilized. That's paradoxical.

[–]heretik 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I guess it's all in how you frame it.

It's bizarre how the frontier mentality will frame unexplored or unused land as "virgin" and the tropes of "Mother Earth" or "Mother Nature" persist in the vernacular but the forces of nature that actually defeat the settlers/pioneers/refugees and cause death and suffering are almost always deemed as "masculine" forces that only bow to more masculine (or strong) people.

[–]FormerAfro 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

But that's not bizarre at all. It's totally self consistent, here nature isn't some fixed person with a real identity, it's some external unknowable other, a force with a changing character.

[–]heretik 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree with half of that point. To me, a simplification of the theme would be the safe/not-safe dichotomy:

Masculine = Not Safe

Feminine = Safe

[–]FormerAfro 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean sure. But that's not poetic or fun at all.

[–]Carkudo -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Metaphors don't really have to be consistent with other metaphors

[–]Skirt_Douglas 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The idea of Men being closer to nature (much like Enkidu), is very also ancient. At least since the early Bronze Age, young boys were sent into the wild to learn survival, hunting, foraging, and endurance to suffering and starvation as a part of their warrior training. Nature itself makes warriors out of men, thus it was thought of that nature makes men out of boys, and that manliness is animalistic like forests. These associations are really what’s behind the myths of the werewolf, the shapeshifter, and even the Germanic berserker.

So first boys are sent to the wilds to be trained by a feral upbringing, like the agoge for the Spartans, so they can become warriors, and then they have to be retrained all over again so they can be socialized into society, if they actually survive the wars. So it was never the case that maleness is naturally feral, it’s just that the ancient world prioritized preparing boys for war first and foremost at the expense of preparing boys for civilized society, that only happens after they are married off.

Ps: I’m not disagreeing with anything you said. You said something interesting so I wanted to tack on to it.

[–]Intermediate-Domino 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Every civilization have had to channel male energy into positive endeavours instead of destructive ones, they capture this by giving men women. If a man has got a wife and kid he is tied into the system (and so more willing to not challenge it and even put positive effort into it), if he is left outside it he at best doesn't add into it, or might even seek to harm it. It's why having a population of single men is often seen as a prelude for troubled times and even revolution.

"The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth"

I'm sure you can see familiar fears by politicians and larger society in modern times with gangs and radical groups recruiting boys because it is not a new 'problem'.


Don't think its a perfect metaphor (perhaps we can workshop it?), but think of it as a cultural watermill, men are the water, women the wheel and the grain the benefits of the machine.

It's no coincidence that men make up 95ish percent of every country's prison population, nor that every building is 95ish percent a manifestation of male labour.

[–]SchalaZeal01 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's no coincidence that men make up 95ish percent of every country's prison population, nor that every building is 95ish percent a manifestation of male labour.

When we know how police, lawyers and judges are biased, we come to the conclusion that if it would be normalized (everyone, suspected the same, arrested the same, given the same deal, sentenced for as long), women would represent ~40% of prisoners, not 5%.

[–]SoundProofHead 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Every civilization have had to channel male energy into positive endeavours

Opposite to that I'm wondering what untamed "female energy" ends up causing?

[–]CheesecakeAgitated731 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Hypergamy and society full of lonely geneticaly/economicaly undesirable men that get radicalized thus creating revolution

[–]Juhnthedevil -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It led to Hell according to Taliban researchers

[–]Nath43673 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think this is an important point to respond to, but I don't have time for a long reply today.

It seems to me that the problems come in because of 2 things:

One is the way individual boys and men are often treated by being put through these systems of protecting civilisation. Basically it sucks for a lot of, even most, men. I also think skirt_douglas' point about warfare comes into it.

The other is that women are no longer able to be used as the "graduation prize" in this system, not least because many women are now refusing that role.

[–]Itrusttheinternett[S] 56 points57 points58 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This article talks about historical contracts between the sexes and how they influence modern day opinion.

It illustrates how modern feminism and conservative traditionalism can be linked in wanting service from men as their goal for the benefit of society and women.

[–]mushysandwich121 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's quite interesting. Modern day conservatism is usually stereotyped as the complete opposite.

[–]Douglas0327 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Really the only difference is conservatives want men to retain societal power and keep the female gender role intact. Feminists want the best of both worlds.

[–]mushysandwich121 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm unsure how I feel about the former. We should all have the best of the world. Dealing with the will of others is generally a stressful and anxious existence.

[–]Douglas0327 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The former is as toxic as the latter. Gender roles are a crap deal for both parties.

[–]mushysandwich121 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

fair call

[–]DorgeGorn 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

“Chivalry is grounded in a fundamental reality that defines the relationship between the sexes,” explained Sommers, “and given that most men are physically stronger than most women, men can overpower women at any time to get what they want.” “If women give up on chivalry, it will be gone,” continued Sommers. “If boys can get away with being boorish, they will, happily. Women will pay the price.” Oh I have to agree, and I think in a way women sort of undid the social contract with men and released them from all the constraints. And we pay the price.

Besides the tired misandrist trope contained in "if boys can get away with being boorish, they will happily do so".. Even if things were like that, what price would the women pay, really? Do these people think we live in a world where the government doesn't exist? How is the fact that men are stronger than women an issue at all, when the police is stronger than any individual, regardless of their strength? This is just groundless nonsense.. Chivalry existed exactly because women weren't protected by the laws of government as much as they are today, and it's the same reason why it died: there's no reason to put up a facade of goodwill and servitude when there isn't any violent/predatory intention to hide behind it.

[–]AskingToFeminists 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I guess it's time to repost my old post, "Feminism, traditionalism, double standards. One cause : malagency"

[–]redgarnetamaranth 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Both fight to maintain the status quo, both are reactionary by definition

[–]YesAmAThrowaway 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tradconnery is the original source of sexism

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