literally "i'm against misogyny except when it benefits me"

Imperial_Forces · 2018-04-23T17:26:57+00:00

This part was quite fun to read:

But the economics of dating is a delicate balance, Scott noted. Case in point: Last week, Scott was having lunch at Morton’s in Midtown with a woman he’s been casually dating for about a year. He paid the check, as usual, but on the walk home they passed a hotel, and she impulsively asked him to book a room. “It was a sexy idea, but we both had places to be,” he told me. “And everyone knows a hotel in Manhattan is at least $300 a night, for a shoe-box room. So I asked her to go halves—I mean, it was her idea, after all—and she goes, ‘Ya know, that’s really your one vice—you’re very cheap.’ Meanwhile, I’d just spent $200 on lunch!” He rolled his eyes. “Herein lies the dilemma of the modern man: If you never let the woman pay, she thinks you’re sexist. But if you ask her to pay, she becomes hostile.”

AmbitiousPlankton · 2018-04-23T17:04:19+00:00

She's so dense she doesn't realize she's actually happy when she conforms to what she admittedly really wants, which is a male lead.

People want different things but holy shit lady if I was able to enjoy myself like you did I sure as hell wouldn't resist it.

gmanex · 2018-04-23T17:07:55+00:00

She misspelled "I'm a hypocrite"

JStheHammer · 2018-04-23T15:52:30+00:00

That is professional writing these days? Smh

Blutarg · 2018-04-23T17:38:03+00:00

Can I Be a Self-Sufficient, #Empowered Woman and Still Enjoy It When a Guy Picks Up the Check?

Beveridge's Law strikes again!

gardenlevelstudio · 2018-04-23T17:47:28+00:00

The article seems to be only half serious, so I'm not sure it's worth getting mad about. It does pretty much reinforce the theme of masculinity=evil when in the context of workplace and resource competition... masculinity=good when its a top %5 male you deem fuckable.

Asita3416 · 2018-04-23T21:13:46+00:00

or spanking me when I get too drunk.

Isn't that sexual assault?

SteelCrossx · 2018-04-24T01:55:55+00:00

And then I can reciprocate by buying him breakfast in the morning, or letting him fuck me in the ass or whatever.

I stopped reading right there for a number of reasons.

thrway_1000 · 2018-04-23T22:11:19+00:00

Feminists have no standards without double standards.

Archive -- https://archive.is/lNi5B

nanan00 · 2018-04-23T19:29:54+00:00

She comes off as such a stuck up bitch, she wants it her way and fuck everyone else.

revenueperadventure · 2018-04-23T19:40:29+00:00

I read about half the article. I don’t even know where to begin. I’ll just go with the low hanging fruit of “I don’t think she understands what ‘fascist’ means”.

starkfuture · 2018-04-23T18:10:22+00:00

That makes you at best a hypocrite and at worst a whore.

boisdevie · 2018-04-23T19:06:39+00:00

My GF describes herself as a feminist and she pays her share all the time. She actually believes in equality - which makes her a rare feminist

hatefulreason · 2018-04-23T21:02:37+00:00

this article is golden. someone please archive it and if God forbid, i become less of an asshole than i am now, print it 1000 times, put it in a bag and beat me with it

btw she loves it when she's not in control because responsibility is not her thing...wonder why...

also, "letting him do me in the ass" is something they say to beta males after their 1000th dinner if they are old women who can't get with a young thug

Nutinurgut · 2018-04-23T21:49:02+00:00

Hang on, lemme throw nine photos of myself at the top of this.

H-4350 · 2018-04-24T00:08:40+00:00

Here’s another article about our brave and misunderstood author.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/nypost.com/2018/02/03/this-dominatrix-kidnapped-and-humiliated-men-for-rent-money/amp/

Charming.

PIG_CUNT · 2018-04-24T05:05:37+00:00

This guy has no chick handling skills. He buys a $200 lunch for a woman who acts like that?? And talks to him like that? That’s just dumb.

It’s absolutely his fault. They’ve been fucking for a year yet he hasn’t made it clear that she won’t be getting any of his time, attention, validation, or $200 lunches, if she behaves like that. Instead he keeps dating her. That’s his fault.

Cest7 · 2018-04-23T16:21:16+00:00

The__Tren__Train · 2018-04-23T20:22:00+00:00

At 32

stopped reading right there

omg_so_many_hackers · 2018-04-23T20:34:12+00:00

Excrement.

McFeely_Smackup · 2018-04-23T22:04:14+00:00

a man would be professionally crucified for writing a similar article.

zachattch · 2018-04-23T22:21:04+00:00

This is just a blog isn’t it, like a personal blog right?

welfrkid · 2018-04-23T22:25:12+00:00

Naturally, I took this as a sign that he might murder me, but he’d parted his hair, and he looked like a bulimic Paul Ryan (aka my dream, at least in terms of looks), so I got in the car.

aka follow rules 1&2 and you get away with this shit

whats_up_doc · 2018-04-23T23:37:31+00:00

I'd be alright with buying her a bucket of oats.

jasonhoblin · 2018-04-23T23:54:13+00:00

ends with:

"But TBH, all this fighting-the-patriarchy stuff can get exhausting, and sometimes I just want my boyfriend to be my “daddy” for the night, ya know?"

stupid is as stupid does, ya know.

AirplaneNote · 2018-04-24T00:04:22+00:00

She needs to go Dutch

Sasha_ · 2018-04-24T00:25:26+00:00

Jesus, so this whore basically wrights for Voque about her slutting about? Dear God women,

McFeely_Smackup · 2018-04-24T03:10:43+00:00

She's one of those women who think being extremely crude and vulgar about her sexual excesses is empowering, and makes her a strong woman.

It just makes her sleazy, same as a man who does the same. Nobody wants to hear this shit... From anyone.

Roastedchickpeas · 2018-04-24T03:36:54+00:00

“Money is part of the sexual dynamic,” said Scott, fiddling with the button on his sports coat. “Paying for a date is absolutely a form of erotic pleasure, especially if you have even the slightest dominant tendencies.... "

This is the garbage that women are told as absolutes and that young girls brought up on? No wonder the world's fucked. How fucking pathetic this guy is.

azazelcrowley · 2018-04-24T12:28:23+00:00

"I'm struggling with the cognitive dissonance of using insincere and superficial arguments and principles I don't actually believe in to bully men into giving me what I want and then later having to argue the opposite, and am trying to rationalize a way for this to make sense so I can avoid even a modicum of self-awareness about how much of a repulsive and self-centered human being I am thanks to feminism, which has made me somebody with no principles or ethical thoughts, someone solely concerned with what benefits me in each situation, and sold this sociopathy to me as justice."

revenueperadventure · 2018-04-23T20:15:11+00:00

I think what this woman is failing to understand is that dating and love were never meant to be transactional. Splitting a check 50/50 as a demonstration of equality is asinine. Taking someone you are dating out to a meal should be an act of kindness or a gift of love.

This author views dating as transactional, meaning it is about - he blows money, I allow him to engage in sexual activity with me - fair trade. True equality in the dating scene would suggest that both parties communicate love and affection by acts of service (non-sexual), quality time, gifts, etc., without it being a transactional or a 50/50 exchange. However, to the feminist, an act of love is too easily construed as participating in traditional gender roles, and thus worthy of the title of "honorary fascist".

Enjoy your human relationships based on splitting the check 50/50, let me know how that turned out for you when you're looking back on the days of your youth from your life's twilight.

Lethn · 2018-04-23T23:32:23+00:00

I can’t help getting wet whenever a willowy, beaked artiste pulls out his wallet and says, “Babe, I got this one.” Now, I’m not saying that I’m looking for a sugar daddy to bankroll my leisurely life of masturbation and blogging. But I want to know: Can I be a self-sufficient, #empowered woman and still enjoy it when a guy plays “the man”?

'Babe', that's exactly what you're wanting, except the difference between you as a feminist and a woman who's willing to be a gold digger for that man is that you know that it's a transaction and an unspoken contract where you give sex in return for whatever he gives you.

It's fascinating, deep down I think she knows, yes, she has nothing to do in her life beyond masturbating and blogging by her own if sarcastic admission to try and make herself sound edgy but like most feminists she puts on an act of being an amazing independent woman but she clearly either wants a relationship with a man even if it may be extremely parasitic in nature even by most peoples' standards. Thanks to feminism though, she doesn't know what to do with herself and what she really wants because she's grown up with this ideology telling her what she wants all her life.

Should we be perhaps grateful that even women who would be blatantly considered gold diggers have been so brainwashed by feminism they're paralysed as to whether it's right or not to con them by flirting with them for expensive meals?

Just a shame that otherwise normal women have been taken in by this bullshit cult as well.

chambertlo · 2018-04-24T01:04:27+00:00

Women only want equality when it benefits them.

Vapodaca17 · 2018-04-24T02:52:12+00:00

I didnt see really any problems with this

You guys seem to really overreact to an opinion piece that isnt saying anything other than this girl proving why she feels she can be independent and still have a "daddy" every now and then

Do you not want the same thing? I love to not have to be the "a real man" and be the sole provider and get fucked over while working my ass off BUT that doesnt mean there arent plenty of times i DO want to be "a real man" because its cool, it makes me feel good. You dont like it? Cool then dont do it but it seems insanely ridiculous to drag her through the mud like this

bortalizer93 · 2018-04-24T06:51:46+00:00

I don't see why everyone is so upset by this. People can and should do whatever they want to enhance their personal lives.

It's possible to be against rape and enjoy rape fantasies.

It's possible to be against domestic abuse and enjoy spanking or slapping or whipping.

It's possible to be against traditional gender norms and enjoy some exception.

As long as all parties are consenting, what's your problem?

Title	literally "i'm against misogyny except when it benefits me"
Author	bortalizer93
Upvotes	242
Comments	108
Date	April 23, 2018 3:29 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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