Red flags in men

TheStumblingWolf · 2022-01-21T14:10:34+00:00

Bad relationship with parents | obsessive about his mom

You just can't win XD

TracyMorganFreeman · 2022-01-21T15:20:14+00:00

Maybe he only has 5 dollars in his pocket because of a previous gold digger that took advantage of him.

"Doesn't believe in holidays/bdays" and "scared of gold diggers" also seems to suggest a connection of being wary of women wanting to be spoiled on days they designate to be spoiled on.

Super_Solver · 2022-01-21T13:54:10+00:00

You’d think having a lot of female friends would be a green flag because it shows you as a man see women as whole people worth having platonic relationships with, but I guess women like this just get jealous of other women in men’s lives.

AdAcademic4290 · 2022-01-21T16:02:09+00:00

Confused...what's wrong with calling females females?! (f)

Liberal_On_Guns · 2022-01-21T15:00:12+00:00

Some of these are fine, and some are what you'd expect from a woman's list of "red flags."

Most of the time if you ask a woman what a red flag would be, it's going to be extreme or ambiguous, or a personal preference. I.e. not useful. Personal preferences aren't red flags.

A red flag is going to be relatively specific and true for almost everyone across the board. You can tell that her "red flags" list is really just her bitching about her ex/exes.

aigars2 · 2022-01-21T14:16:56+00:00

A lot of this is just not anyone's else's business. My friends are my friends for example.

ABBucsfan · 2022-01-21T14:43:54+00:00

Tbh this one doesn't seem that unreasonable... Especially compared to some out there. Being told to calm down tells me they're probably hyper sensitive though. The $5 in account sounds like an exaggeration it I eeve heard one. Golf diggers are soemthing guys always need to be on the look for

TAPriceCTR · 2022-01-21T15:34:02+00:00

They forgot "has a penis".

TheSoviet_Onion · 2022-01-21T16:33:28+00:00

At least some of these are understandable

Algiz56 · 2022-01-21T14:24:29+00:00

Well, atleast she did not mentioned "not being 666".

trgrngr · 2022-01-21T16:04:55+00:00

This entire rant is a red flag.

bonegrrl · 2022-01-21T17:05:21+00:00

Who the fuck wrote this? A female with zero life experience? I say female as a “female” because I’m non binary and hate the word “woman”. And having a lot of female friends isn’t a red flag. That shit needs to stop. Men and women are allowed to have female/male friends. And a lot of people don’t believe in marriage. And…and…and…I could break this down all day. Even the valid ones where it’s like, “tell you to shut up/chill/calm down,” women do that too. Like…ugh. So dumb. Just be and a healthy relationship will follow. Bumps in the road should be smoothed with communication. That’s that.

sgt_oddball_17 · 2022-01-21T14:04:11+00:00

"Hates Animals"

LOL

"I need a man who will take care of the pet that will I insist on getting, that way I don't have to"

scrumbum1 · 2022-01-21T13:54:47+00:00

I hate the term red flags. Over used and super abused . If you look for red flags you will always be able to make them exist in even the smallest of situations.

Reaper621 · 2022-01-21T16:25:17+00:00

I hate cats because I'm allergic. Does that make me a bad person?

Puscifer10 · 2022-01-21T15:52:30+00:00

Tells you to chill out was my favourite. So, you're an anoyying bitch, then?

Starforce2005 · 2022-01-21T15:18:09+00:00

Hmm I wonder had many red flag this fellow woman had...

NexLevelIntactivsm · 2022-01-21T15:38:23+00:00

"I'm circumcised and I'm fine"

Big red flag

This man will perpetuate the cycle on his own children

psychological harm of child genital cutting

Parzival_007 · 2022-01-21T16:15:26+00:00

calls "women/girls females?

Well bois time to call em "not male". That will fix it.

Maffioze · 2022-01-21T17:12:47+00:00

What I hate most is the "calling his ex crazy, he probably made her that way"

I'm a man and I had a toxic relationship and I can't tell how many times I self-blamed me because this is the publicly accepted narrative (atleast in western media).

HyperJCT · 2022-01-21T16:02:14+00:00

The funniest in my opinion is calling women females. Isn’t that the only term that still means you’re a real women? So it’s wrong for guys to not want to date ‘women’ with dicks now?

Rockbottom503 · 2022-01-21T16:08:10+00:00

Red flags in this POS

-her list of red flags.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2022-01-21T16:10:18+00:00

Good thing I only game 9 hours a day. Close call!

Cheap_Steel · 2022-01-21T16:13:13+00:00

"Has a female best friend". later it says... "calls women/girls, female"

AzureVoltic · 2022-01-21T16:18:48+00:00

I see this as an absolute win because there's no way in hell people who think like that are going to be reproducing.

CheetahOfDeath · 2022-01-21T16:51:39+00:00

She’s surprisingly lenient when it comes to gaming.

ISpeakControversial · 2022-01-21T17:04:45+00:00

"tells you to calm down" 🤨

wanthonio31 · 2022-01-21T17:05:57+00:00

I have 5 red flags according to this list but I only care about improving one of them (need cooking skills). Some of these make sense, some of these are terrible examples for red flags.

East-Tailor-3470 · 2022-01-21T17:15:17+00:00

Ask her if she likes quiet time because with this list she will be having it a lot

Machomuk89 · 2022-01-21T17:21:11+00:00

This list:🚩

Deni-Conquer · 2022-01-21T16:04:41+00:00

I scored 13/20

JijoViale · 2022-01-21T16:09:47+00:00

I'm happy being single

Fortunately a red flag for such women

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2022-01-21T16:12:42+00:00

One thing about dating older women is that red flags pile up. Next thing you know any little thing you say confirms your conformity to what she's got on her list.

Intelligent-Algae930 · 2022-01-21T16:22:00+00:00

Hey Siri play Superman by Eminem

whalemilkisathing · 2022-01-21T16:36:43+00:00

Obsessive relationship with his mom? Just because those beaches have daddy issues they get to poke at guys relationship with their moms....ಠ_ಠ

RealSyloz · 2022-01-21T16:45:58+00:00

I actually agree with a lot of the first page besides the ones about female friends. The second page it starts going on the insanity side.

Important_Market2512 · 2022-01-21T16:54:44+00:00

I know Eva doesnt have friends

barnagotte · 2022-01-21T16:57:01+00:00

It's actually a pretty excellent list.

63daddy · 2022-01-21T17:04:38+00:00

It’s nice she’s publicly announced her misandrist attitudes, so now men know to avoid her.

Title	Red flags in men
Author	pickileblue
Upvotes	73
Comments	91
Date	January 21, 2022 1:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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