Why is there nowhere left to vent about how horrendous dating has become for men?

aerial_coitus · 2023-12-03T00:19:49+00:00

Nowhere left? Like there was originally some place we could vent about it back when?

Radiant_glow_23 · 2023-12-03T00:49:47+00:00

I’m a woman and I will admit nowadays men are having to settle for some fat 3’s while women want them to be 8+ in appearance, 6 ft tall, financially advantaged while also expecting men to act as a provider and protector (stereotypical male gender roles). Then a lot of women that cut off sex immediately once they have a ring.. don’t believe me? Go check out dead bedrooms sub; this is becoming sooo common. Also a lot have kids now and are single moms expecting the man to take on the role as step father which has literally no advantage for the man whatsoever. I agree that men are so disadvantaged in dating.

Ithrewallofitaway · 2023-12-03T01:16:59+00:00

That is true. I am actually surprised that this subreddit exists.

napacaifornia707 · 2023-12-02T23:59:06+00:00

Vent here !

webernicke · 2023-12-03T00:22:19+00:00

Because deep down people understand that the only likely solutions to this problem are either traditionalist or throwing the status of women as perpetually oppressed victims into question, both of which are antithetical to the left as currently configured.

goodmod · 2023-12-02T23:49:56+00:00

Try X/Twitter. It's pretty open to men's issues now.

sharedisaster · 2023-12-03T02:01:15+00:00

The top 1% of men have no problem. Therefore, men are fine /s

Sir_Spectacular · 2023-12-03T00:22:41+00:00

It's sort of funny... wasn't reddit literally the origin of the redpill and incel communities? Yet now male dating woes have nearly been pushed off the platform.

denvercaniac · 2023-12-03T04:03:47+00:00

I've said it before, I'll say it again.

Make male friends.

They're pretty much the reason I'm alive.

Support each other, have each other's backs.

Diligent_Divide_4978 · 2023-12-03T00:30:59+00:00

We had braincels, allpilldebate, and inkwellswithouthate. All have since vanished into the Inkwell Cinematic Universe.

Meanwhile, subs like twox and fds stay up despite being much more sexist than any of the above 3.

I was a mod of allpilldebate. We were strict about following reddit TOS and would go over all reports several times a day. After allpill was nuked, 3 of us mods tried to find the content that triggered the ban. We couldn’t. I had done a check that very morning and had deleted one comment that used the word f01d very passively and offhandedly. Besides that, I saw nothing else that was even offensive, let alone in violation of reddit TOS.

By the way, "moid" and "scroat" are constantly used in twox and fds as we speak; yet somehow, those words aren't hateful or sexist at all according to bluepill logic.

It’s yet another case of male issues being silenced for no real reason. But normies don’t get it, even when you show them the stats collected at the world’s leading universities and research institutions about male neurodivergence, face, race, and height and how just a comparative bit of “deficiency” in any one can render you an inkwell.

Meanwhile, none of those attributes markedly influence female dating success.

I truly believe this is why you see normies go “oh my god 6’3 jacked Chad, your gf Stacy’s so pretty bro, you’re so lucky to have her bro” when “Stacy” in fact has a recessed chin, massive upper eyelid exposure, a beer gut, and sufficiently little hair on her balding head to have a thinning norwood 3 hairline despite being a woman.

I’ve seen it way too many times, even in men’s circles, so it actually is no surprise that these men’s subs are nuked, now that I think about it.

Just more proof of the “women are more wonderful than men” effect and the hypocrisy of normies in today’s society.

Anyway, don’t be a free agent in life. Let the blackpill guide you.

AntiFeminismAU · 2023-12-03T02:15:17+00:00

Reddit used to be good but feminists took it over. They banned subs like /r/MGTOW and r/TheRedPill and /r/TheDonald

Now the rest of Reddit is a feminist cesspit. Everytime I comment on a thread I get downvoted to hell. This sub is the only place left for men - it’s literally the only place I still get upvotes. I fear that soon it will be cancelled too because the feminists don’t like it.

Basically whenever a platform gets too popular it always goes to shit and feminists take over.

karn39393939 · 2023-12-03T00:42:11+00:00

What do you expect when men are considered second class citizens?

Dizzirron · 2023-12-03T01:46:46+00:00

And it wasn’t like this for many years. The question to ask is why is every platform and media space silencing/censoring men and wiping clean anywhere that men can have a place online for just themselves? There are some things on Reddit you really can’t talk about without getting a ban, like the lack of jewish women as a category on porn tube sites. (Or who owns and operates those sites) While I continue to tighten my tinfoil hat, it really does seem to come back to this forced behavior stuff regarding DEI initiatives and WEF’s focus on not only destroying the family unit, but straight up orchestrating population control. Stay healthy guys, these are no doubt very strange times.

gigachud1337 · 2023-12-03T01:33:19+00:00

On reddit sorta yeah some subs r still ok

Apart from that:

twitter/X is decent

4chan obv

also a good number of forums prob can't name

AntiFeminismAU · 2023-12-03T02:08:23+00:00

I miss the days of IRC in the 90’s. IRC was like the Wild West of the internet, you could say whatever you wanted without censorship. Dating was so much easier on IRC because a woman had to talk to you over text first before she even knew what you looked like.

gabriel-kornilov · 2023-12-03T03:59:11+00:00

Just to comment here basically puts a target on your back. I started a thread yesterday with simple, innocuous questions in a sub related to aviation, got downvoted from the get-go and didn't receive any answer. [shrug] Ok.

Mgtow_savage · 2023-12-03T02:20:53+00:00

The sex gap is growing even larger than the wealth gap. In 2023 you’re either a virgin with nobody or you’re a fuckboy with 100+ partners it seems there is no in between anymore. And women are perfectly ok with that and continue to make that gap larger

lostatlifecoach · 2023-12-03T00:34:28+00:00

r/purplepilldebate seems like the go to for a lot of guys on here. You check a few of the profiles I'm sure there are better ones they also post in.

Dizzirron · 2023-12-03T01:42:44+00:00

And it wasn’t like this for many years. The question to ask is why is every platform and media space silencing/censoring men and wiping clean anywhere that men can have a place online for just themselves. There are some things on Reddit you really can’t talk about without getting a ban, like the lack of jewish women as a category on porn tube sites. (Or who owns and operates those sites) While I continue to tighten my tinfoil hat, it really does seem to come back to this forced behavior stuff regarding DEI initiatives and WEF’s focus on not only destroying the family unit, but straight up orchestrating population control. Stay healthy guys, these are no doubt very strange times.

gabriel-kornilov · 2023-12-03T03:55:47+00:00

Just to have a few comments here puts you in odd situations. I started a thread with simple innocuous questions in a sub related to aviation yesterday and got downvoted from the get-go without receiving any answer.

2pacalypso · 2023-12-05T20:42:52+00:00

After looking at your post history for thirty seconds, have you considered the possibility that maybe you kind of suck?

Terrible-Quote-3561 · 2023-12-03T00:20:33+00:00

I don’t think it used to be as easy as people make it seem. There are just new challenges today. Online dating can be extremely superficial (anything could mean a swipe left), and women in public are extra-aware/scrutinizing of men due to the patterns of actions of men in the past/a sadly still large amount of men now. You can discuss these things in a lot of circles, as long as the conversation doesn’t cross over into harmful generalizations about women.

Extreme_Spread9636 · 2023-12-03T02:11:46+00:00

I think you underestimate how bad it is on the other side as well. Yes, our side is terrible, but have you considered that the other side is playing against time? Now, that is a position I wouldn't want to be in.

throwaway0408800 · 2023-12-03T02:16:57+00:00

Because it's profitable. I see a future where men pay for monthly subscriptions (and plenty of microtransactions) to AI girlfriends.

noone_thing · 2023-12-03T02:28:52+00:00

nope, nothing is ever their fault

SleeplessSeaTac · 2023-12-03T03:13:15+00:00

on Reddit

Think you've answered your question. In broader stokes, most IT is going to be more on the blue-haired, hate men side of the fence. I work IT and everyone I work with are same folks I went to college with. Yet our company is inundated with Safe-Space training, Drag-Queen Bingo Fridays, and a ton of other one-sided political views. And the funny part is that EVERYONE I know rolls their eyes at the stuff. If everyone thinks it is ridiculous, why does it persist? I have no idea.

Since I work in tech, and I'm not customer facing, most of my cloths are cargo-shorts, flipflops and T-Shirts. And of course all my T-shirts were free with some event or another. So this means that about 25% of my T-shirts are from Church, or other Christian charities I volunteer for. I actually had one my friends at work whisper to me

^{"so you're a Christian?!?!"}

I mean seriously.... hasn't been since 100 AD that you had to whisper that stuff between people... but yet he felt the need to keep it on the low-down.

Crazy

AntiFeminismAU · 2023-12-03T03:41:47+00:00

I run an antifeminist group on facebook if you want to check it out. https://www.facebook.com/groups/AntiFeminismAU

rpujoe · 2023-12-03T05:53:33+00:00

I've debated this topic on Twitter a number of times. The OP is right in that there is a war on all of the classic ways men and women used to meet and form relationships.

School. Work. Gym. Hobbies

All will get you ostracized, fired, or even arrested in rare instances If you try to talk to women.

It's slowly moving towards being online in some way shape or form. You can still do well approaching women in person but it's going to have to be on the street and you're going to have to hope that she doesn't complain about you trying to fort with her or whatever.

Title	Why is there nowhere left to vent about how horrendous dating has become for men?
Author	Eurythmetics
Upvotes	142
Comments	77
Date	December 2, 2023 11:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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