You start with 5 points in both cases, male or female, when creating yourself. When making yourself use the numbers as they are. When making your dream partner multiply the values by -1.

Physical:

-shorter than the average -2 (woman: taller than you/the average)

-average 0

-taller than the average +2 (woman: shorter than you/the average)

-obese -5

-overweight -3

-average on the skinny or chubby side -1 (woman: skinny with zero tits/ass, or slightly overweight with no curves or definition)

-slim +1

-lean with some muscles +2 (woman: slim with small ass and boobs)

-very muscly +5 (woman: perfect hourglass figure, boobs/ass exactly the size you want)

-ugly -3

-below average face -1

-average/plain looking face +1

-above average +2

-very handsome/beautiful +4

-very bad style, puts on whatever -3

-plain/boring but not terribly dressed 0

-basic style but looks nice more often than not +1

-very great sense of style +3

-terrible hygiene that is evident (smell, greasy hair etc.) -5

-not well groomed but not uncomfortable to be around -1

-ok hygiene, not very interested in grooming or smelling nice +1

-great hygiene, nicely groomed, great smell +3

Finances, education, social skills:

-lot of debt -4 (more thank 100K debt)

-just getting by/broke -1 (some student loans, no savings, close to minimum wage job)

-doing just ok 0 (average annual income, 40K-100K range)

-comfortable +2 (100K-250K range)

-rich +3 (250K-1M)

-very rich +5 (1M+)

-high school dropout -4

-high school degree, no other qualifications -1

-knows a trade or some other qualifications (not a college degree) +1

-college educated +2

-bachelor’s + masters +3

-bachelor’s + masters + phd or graduate in a specialized field (medical doctors, lawyers, architects etc.) +5

-loner, 0 real life friends, finds it impossible to socialize or hold a conversation -5

-introvert, but not a complete recluse, has social anxiety, 1-2 friends -1

-an ok communicator, has some close friends 0

-nice to be around, some friends, not many problems with socializing +2

-social butterfly, a lot of friends, can form meaningful relationships and communicate very easily +4

Gender neutral traits:

-slob -4

-loyal +4

-caring, empathetic +4

-easy to anger, many outbursts -4

-good listener, cares about their partner’s problems +4

-very controlling -4

-very affectionate +4

-easily prone to jealousy, especially without a motive -4

-single parent -2

-children from 2 or more different people -4

-has previously cheated -4

-range of your desired body count -4

-if you are also in the range of the desired bodycount or willing to go above yours +4

-drug addict -4

-smoker -2

-gambler -4

-misogynist -4 (woman: misandrist)

-young +4

-middle aged or older -4

-flirts with others, but doesn’t cheat -2

-doesn’t ever entertain people from the opposite gender more than necessary +2

-porn addict -4

-very insecure -4

-phone addiction -2

Here we could go on and I will add others if you suggest it in the comments.

After you create yourself, you have to use the points you are left with. So if you have +5, congrats, you can start creating your dream woman with 5 points. However, if you have -5, you will be starting from that number or any other. You can’t have negative points after creating your partner.

Edit: added ranges for the income levels as suggested.