Cmv high N count doesn't exist

hammerhaunts · 2018-09-23T05:01:42+00:00

Do low ceilings exist? A 4'10 woman says that a low ceiling is lower than a 5'10 man does.

angels_fan · 2018-09-23T05:20:29+00:00

I can't tell you exactly when a stream becomes a river, but I know there are streams and I know there are rivers.

Just like I can't say EXACTLY when a woman has a low N count vs a high N count, but I know low and high N counts exist.

boundarychimps · 2018-09-23T05:42:36+00:00

Congratulations, you've discovered the heap paradox.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sorites_paradox

A typical formulation involves a heap of sand, from which grains are individually removed. Under the assumption that removing a single grain does not turn a heap into a non-heap, the paradox is to consider what happens when the process is repeated enough times: is a single remaining grain still a heap? If not, when did it change from a heap to a non-heap?[3]

Just because an idea is fuzzy around the edges, doesn't have to mean that it isn't real.

Young_Oryx · 2018-09-23T05:17:23+00:00

Well that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. That just means it's subjective. Take away the subjective qualifier "high" and you're still left with a measurable, extant n-count.

Is your argument then that subjective measures have no value? Because if it is, we're going to have a lot of trouble communicating with one another. Most of what we talk about on this subreddit is highly subjective.

Willow-girl · 2018-09-23T12:36:58+00:00

Anyone who has had fewer partners than you is a prude, while anyone who has had more is a slut. lol

NalkaNalka · 2018-09-23T05:08:57+00:00

There is no disagreement that a high n count exists. I'm sure everyone here would agree that 5000 is high n. The only subjective part is where the crossover point is.

iLLprincipLeS · 2018-09-23T10:00:08+00:00

One guy says it's 1. The other says it's 5-7. then others say double digits

Most guys can agree that if a female is under 18 and had more than 10 partners, she is a high N count whore.

Ercole_ · 2018-09-23T10:53:54+00:00

There's many different opinions on all kinds of things. One of these guys is right and it's probably me.

NeedingAdvice86 · 2018-09-23T17:08:32+00:00

High N count is a result not a cause and many people mistakenly blame the result.

Yes, the women <and yes men> that I have found have a very high N-count are indeed very, very bad at relationships, commitment or etc...but it isn't because of the n-count. The high n-count was just the result of their personality which got validation\worth by the number of the opposite sex which fucked them. Talking with them or socializing with them it becomes quickly apparently that any "relationship" they have is all about dick size, is a dude a good fuck, comparison with previous dick, etc and they hardly mention or consider any relationship things. These people usually are usually pretty disdainful of the romance\relationship things which people who are successful at LTRs find important or the focus of their "relationships".

Different people have different "needs" in relationships and if you are trying to LTR a woman or man who is laser focused of the fucking\sex act then you are very likely not going to get a person who values the relationship type things.

MMDT · 2018-09-23T23:29:13+00:00

When does a fetus become a baby?

When does a boy become a man?

When does someone become old?

Uncommon_Sense_12345 · 2018-09-23T11:32:47+00:00

Whenever the number goes above the average number of sex partners for your age group as indicated by researcher.

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Whodunnit88 · 2018-09-23T05:24:48+00:00

How people view a high n count isn't about numbers, it's about a person's own beliefs and values relating to sex. So one person might think that sex to them is very special so they'll look for a partner with a very low count. Maybe even a virgin.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2018-09-23T09:23:30+00:00

Sure I agree with you, you have a point. But I have a question to ask you.

Why are you asking this question in the first place? Based on your post you seem to be a little insecure about this topic but hilariously when I talked to you in the past you claimed you had a low count (10 I think) which is practically a virgin lol.

The biggest insecurity that men (like myself) have with partner count is not being able to compare to her past and then her getting bored and branching. But it doesn't matter if she's fucked 1 or 1000 guys, if her past is better you're doomed from the get go. But then again it's not something to worry about tbh, if you can't compete with the hot guys of her past your relationship is doomed from the start so you should just move on with your life. Many redpillers just want an illusion of security (which doesn't exist).

[deleted] · 2018-09-23T14:24:07+00:00

Its up to the person judging to decide. Obviously.

DebatesNotBans · 2018-09-23T14:58:43+00:00

You're never going to get a definitive answer because the definition of "high N count" is inherently subjective to each person's preference.

Some guys dont care, and are perfectly fine with a woman having slept with 100+ guys by 18, while some guys will prefer a woman who has never had a boyfriend, or is a virgin.

Additionally, you'll also get people saying something like "Men who prefer women with a 0 N count are just incel creeps", but these same people completely miss the point that the equivalent same thing could be said of their "high N count is okay" preference. That being, that "they only like whores".

darksoldierk · 2018-09-23T15:17:46+00:00

What? you want all men to come together and say, "okay 3 people is high n-count". That would be like asking all women to come together and give men an exact height to be classified as "too short". There isn't an exact number, but we all know that there is a number. For women, I think of it as a function of age. Her age divided by 7. is she 21? then more than 3 is too high. Other men just have a number.

Title	Cmv high N count doesn't exist
Author	i_have_a_semicolon
Upvotes	0
Comments	195
Date	September 23, 2018 4:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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