For anyone who has self-proclaimed extremely low standards, what are those standards?

WilliamWyattD · 2022-12-13T10:09:58+00:00

A lot of men think they have low standards, but are also unaware of how low their RMV/SMV really is, and thus what even their female rank equivalent would actually look like/be like, even without factoring in that women mate upwards.

Yes, these men are aware they are somewhat below average, but don't really understand how far below. Typically, they don't comprehend just how many points they lose for their autistic adjacent personality and behavior. This is a sad truth.

auteurfantastique · 2022-12-13T00:23:54+00:00

I think I have pretty low standards but maybe they are high 😅

No STDs. I have none and would like to keep it that way.
No drug/alcohol usage. I do not use these substances and I think it's fair to want that from a partner
Kindness. I just can't see myself happy with someone who is cruel to me or others.
Health (physical, mental) This is an iffy one, but ideally my partner would be healthy in all aspects. I am pretty flexible with this and my opinion may change, but I don't want to be a caretaker. At least not in these stage of my life.
Intellectualism. Reading, writing etc. is something I like to do and would like to do with a partner.

That's about it. I don't really care about weight, although I'd prefer a fat woman to an overly skinny woman. Her being financially well off would be nice but it's not important.

SmilesLikeMardiGras · 2022-12-12T23:54:40+00:00

well my low standards involve class/income/employment. i prefer lower class and blue collar men and dont care if they have jobs or education. i dont have some checklist of bullshit requirements, i choose for chemistry

2022-12-13T02:04:27+00:00

I just want someone who is similar to me honestly

DryOutcome3407 · 2022-12-13T03:15:09+00:00

Not deformed, willing to lose weight, able to bear children, agreeable.

neetykeeno · 2022-12-13T10:19:02+00:00

Don't make my life worse, make it better.

I've long since given up on men. The bar is literally on the floor and they can't jump it.

AstuteBlackMan · 2022-12-13T00:40:02+00:00

What’s considered a low standard?

Me personally, if she’s attractive had a good personality and comes from a good background she’s already a prime choice as someone I want to date. But there’s a lot that goes into all of those categories

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-12-13T00:35:54+00:00

They’re alive.

Historical-System972 · 2022-12-13T14:17:07+00:00

Don't be a single mom.

Have a personality that's compatible with mine. That's actually a pretty tall ask now that I think of it.

fastingbear12 · 2022-12-14T03:00:35+00:00

Check out: 1) https://realitycalc.com/ (male standards) 2) https://igotstandardsbro.com/ (female standards)

Both sites will tell you how “reasonable” your standards are

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Fancy-Respect8729 · 2022-12-13T09:38:41+00:00

Standards in past are variable. Today I'd go for 5ft 5 or taller, not massively overweight and a kind person. She'd have a job or career or a business and likely be university educated or at least intelligent.

2022-12-13T12:11:23+00:00

hot
not a slut
smart

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-12-13T01:12:33+00:00

similar values.
no bad past in terms of dating. (304 phase, hotgirl summers, concerning ex boyfriends, etc.) and no party girls.
no overweight.
between 5’2 and 5’10.
has her own job. Doesn’t matter if she earns 20k a year, she can’t be fully dependent on me.
no single moms. If i were 35 I wouldn’t care but I’m 20 so now I just can’t.
no drug use smoking and no excessive alcohol usage.
for the love of god no astrology obsessions.

I feel like these are all very basic things which would rule out most red flags in girls or are just my preferences.

MachiNarci · 2022-12-13T00:07:25+00:00

[Edit: lol, I really went off on a tangent here]

As someone who's discovered how international dating can serve as a cheat code for an average man to achieve larger/better dating pools, I've developed 2 sets of standards.

For dating local women

Must be a 4/10, have no drug issues, be clingy, have a low n-count (or at least not with chads), be the least bit interesting, and make 30k+ yearly.

For dating women abroad

Must be a 7/10, 5'10 (I prefer tall women as a 6'0 man), work a skilled profession, speak basic English, be agreeable, be apolitical or conservative (moderate liberal at most), sexual past consists of LTR's or very minimal hookups, be outgoing and confident (even a bit aggressive [in the right way]), be loyal, no drug problems, be somewhat clingy, and be romance-oriented lover.

I have very low expectations for western women, but higher standards for foreign women. Indeed, international dating is driven by poverty. However, people tend to underestimate how many educated women you'll find. One thing that comes as a shocker for many of the passport men I know is that when you date in Latin America, you don't just attract slum hoes: you attract doctors, lawyers, etc. The only difference is that career women in America have a dating mentality of "why should I settle when dating isn't a necessity? Hell, I don't even want to date since all men are trash! Maybe if the right guy comes along, but I'd rather party with friends and cats and enjoy the single life!"

Career women in places like Africa, Latin America, Eastern Europe, and Southeast Asia haven't adopted this mentality yet. Most of them still view romance with men as a necessity, and come from cultures where sociosexuality is restricted. This is significant as women from low-sociosexuality nations like India have been proven not to exhibit AFBB, which means they sexualize and romanticize the stable nice guy rather than giving the unstable douchebag her best.

Just look at the tinder of this fat white neckbeard who got 1,000 matches in the Philippines. Despite bluepillers suggesting that some of the women may have been trafficked, nearly all the women in that image seem to be college-educated or come from UMC families. I don't even care for trad women as much as some may think, I just say trad shit to hype passport men up. The reason I observe international dating is because educated liberal women from abroad aren't messed up like they are in the west.

ReaITylerDurden · 2022-12-13T03:31:20+00:00

4+/10, agreeable, not fat, not a super high n count

RottingVillain666 · 2022-12-13T10:31:37+00:00

No STD Have a job. Im not a sugar daddy Have a dick, or at least have top surgery and be on T Don't be fat ( i don't like bears ) Have a very high libido and be into BDSM

Admiral_Gecko · 2022-12-13T11:25:06+00:00

Don’t weight more than me and no fear of heights(Pilot’s life lol)

cast-away-ramadi06 · 2022-12-13T13:13:34+00:00

Physically, my standards are low but my standards elsewhere are extremely high.

I've slept with very average women to, at the other extreme, a couple runway and print models and a couple of porn stars. As long as I don't find a woman unattractive, good dex for me isn't based on looks🤷‍♂️. And no, never in a million years would I tell a gf about some of the hotter women I've had spent time with. That's just going to cause unnecessary pain.

Be in good physical shape
Don't have a severely recessed chin (just a hangup I have, I don't know why)
Have good hygiene and decent style

I have preferences, sure. But I'm far more worried about other things. For example, I never raise my voice and it's an immediate EOR if she does, no second chances. I catch her lieing, immediate EOR, no second chances.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2022-12-13T14:07:49+00:00

Since almost all of my crushes were the ones that are conventionally considered unattractive:

If the chemistry is there, just don't be overweight and be younger than 35

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-12-13T15:00:18+00:00

My physical standards are low. You just have to be attractive to me.

Other standards are another thing.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2022-12-13T22:28:14+00:00

For marriage? Equal partner or compensate for lacking traits with other solid ones.

For dating...they are rock bottom. My standards are not so insane that you drive me crazy by being around you....and that's it. Single moms, obese, 14 years older, Bipolar, Lesbian (she found out during relationship), cripply emotional traumatized, deep in debt, dated them all. Why? because hey they will have positive traits too right? Well maybe, certainly not enough to compensate I've found.

SkookumTree · 2022-12-13T23:51:18+00:00

Be legal: able to consent under US law.
Don't be morbidly obese.
Don't be a danger to yourself or others.
Be able to manage your own affairs and live independently: be theoretically able to hold down a full-time job, any job, and live in a house without doing shit like stripping all the copper out of it or pulling the toilet off its mountings for the fuck of it.

Title	For anyone who has self-proclaimed extremely low standards, what are those standards?
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Date	December 12, 2022 11:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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