How do relationship dynamics changes when the woman is taller and physically stronger than the man in a couple?

ExcelsiorState718 · 2025-03-10T21:21:05+00:00

Would you expect her to physically protect you?

From who? I don't really have enemies like that and if it's the case of a home invasion, "God made men. Sam Colt made them equal."

I will never understand this from women. "I feel so safe when I'm with you" - safe from WHAT? Who is after you babe? What the fuck did you do?!

dailydose20 · 2025-03-10T22:51:14+00:00

Me and the homies with tall muscle mommies

Puzzleheaded-Gap-238 · 2025-03-11T22:20:47+00:00

I don't care what other couples do, or who dates who. It's none of my business.

That being said- I wouldn't get involved with a man who either can't, or won't protect me. I did this once when I was much younger, and I was completely turned-off by his wimpy ass. As far as I know the dude is still alone to this day. Shocker.

Downvote away.

CrowLegitimate2789 · 2025-03-11T00:12:31+00:00

Im 5"6 and barely 50kg with a waist size of like 23 inches.

Its a completely achievable life goal for me to get bridal carried and i would absolutely swoon.

idk if being small makes me wanna be protected by someone big or i just always would and i got lucky- but ig i dont have much to complain about. my ex seemed to think it was great too-

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2025-03-11T02:07:45+00:00

Dunno about stronger, but I have been taller than some of my previous partners. It was a mixed bag. One dude had no problem with it, two were definitely bothered by it. I imagine they would have felt even worse if I was also stronger than them.

-Blatherskite · 2025-03-11T14:14:11+00:00

Every short man I've dated has been significantly stronger than me. My husband is the same height as me, and he's got to have quadruple the strength. Probably significantly more.

I dated a guy who was like 5'3" and played rugby. He'd take down dudes that were double his size. I wouldn't have stood a chance against him.

Independent-Mail-227 · 2025-03-10T22:13:54+00:00

if a woman is taller and physically stronger with better athletic performance than the man in a couple how different would the relationship be compared to the average couple

The chances of it happening are basically none

GGMcThroway · 2025-03-10T22:34:32+00:00

If a woman is taller and physically stronger with better athletic performance than the man in a couple how different would the relationship be compared to the average couple( the man being taller and stronger than the woman)?

Aside from the height part, this would only be the case if the man was disabled in some relevant way.

Would you expect her to physically protect you? Woman would you protect and/or carry him? Would you be the one to open jars and repair things in the house?

Men don't actually protect their partners (they're a deterrent at best). You can buy tools to help open jars. Everyone should know how to do minor repairs.

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Blue__Ronin · 2025-03-10T21:48:55+00:00

doesn't really change much unless the woman joins the man in the provider role, or the man takes the homemaker role

cast-away-ramadi06 · 2025-03-11T17:37:26+00:00

It entirely depends on the maturity of the people involved. I've been in relationships with a couple of women over 6ft and they didn't belittle me (pun intended) for being 2 inches shorter than them. There was one woman who was like .5 inches taller than me who thought it was OK. The second time she started ragging on me I broke it off and mentioned that I never brought up that I'm objectively better looking, certainly smarter, stronger, and make considerably more than her. But I was the bad guy for pointing out that I never ragged on her for her shortcomings? Bye Felicia 👋

Maleficent-Toe1374 · 2025-03-12T14:23:17+00:00

For the record I'm 6'3, over 200 lbs and a former amateur fighter that nearly went pro so I feel like if I found a woman who's bigger and stronger than me, that's a unicorn.

HOWEVER, I don't think much would change, I feel like the bigger stronger person in a relationship does have the responsibility to not be physically aggressive towards the weaker person and I feel like most women could do that.

As for the rest, I mean I'd try to protect her, She could try to protect me. Again very few jars I can't open but I'd let her have a crack at it. Overall I don't think my ego would be too badly hurt.

Now that I think about it. Bigger ladies feel free to hit me up

iPlayedHockeInHS · 2025-03-12T18:24:37+00:00

She fucks your face more often

Disastrous-Chart-928 · 2025-03-13T13:34:35+00:00

If you're 100kg and want to be feel safe/protected or be carried by a woman it's very possible you have a hormonal imbalance, fat is estrogenic. Obviously if you enjoy it, more power to you though.

That being said a 4'11 man is probably multitudes stronger than a 6ft woman. I was always a pretty heavy girl, Grandfather was a mechanic so I was always helping him out and spent most my life around men so I'm a bit on the masculine side for a woman and I know just how insanely big the strength gap is, I learnt the hard way trying to play fight with my brothers.

After they entered puberty I was still much taller than them but they could easily throw me across the room if they really wanted to, it's kind of sweet just how gentle men are with Women and children

Hell even now my Grandfather is still scary strong, he's pushing 70, he's 5'8 and has pot belly but he may as well be superhuman in comparison to me

nonquitt · 2025-03-11T05:58:16+00:00

I would never want to be in such a relationship, even when I was not as strong as I am today. Fortunately not really a rampant issue. I don’t care about height really. I dated a girl that was 2 inches taller than me and it was fine.

Title	How do relationship dynamics changes when the woman is taller and physically stronger than the man in a couple?
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Date	March 10, 2025 2:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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