Just curious

theactionisthejuice_ · 2021-09-29T20:21:19+00:00

Thread is pointless without pics, and you've got to be a dummy to associate your real identity with a forum like this.

Matt_Door · 2021-09-29T22:03:59+00:00

Hot body/ butter face

Playful_Art_5364 · 2021-09-30T01:44:41+00:00

7-8/10 depending if I work out that year or not.

I base it on what I’ve been able to get to like me

Freevoulous · 2021-09-30T12:36:51+00:00

Im 6/10, 35yo, reasonably fit, exactly average height, weight, and dick size. My face could be described as "DiCaprio's uglier brother". Style-wise im your stereotypical "urban lumberjack hipster", with a man-bun, beard, sleeve tattoo, gauged ears and alt-fa clothes.

My sex opposite would be a 6/10 washed out ex-scene chick with faded tattoos and piercings, slightly saggy but still not overweight, minor wrinkles.

Not a coincidence that these are the type of women I almost exclusively date, and im kinda specialised in that niche.

SoMuchForLongevity · 2021-09-29T20:18:04+00:00

No, I can't do either of those things.

It's not because I'm a bad writer - I'm actually pretty good - but like most people, I look in the mirror and I see something different from what everyone else sees. I truly have no idea how I look to others. I know I'm not exceptionally ugly and I know I'm not exceptionally pretty. I guess I'm just in that huge range of "Ah, there is a man."

And I don't really believe in the whole "looksmatch" concept. The woman I want to be with is one where we're mutually attracted to each other. How attractive other men find her is just so, so completely immaterial.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2021-09-29T20:10:38+00:00

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-29T20:32:55+00:00

Cute and average.

RafaFed · 2021-09-29T21:08:37+00:00

I would say someone like Kate Beckinsale.

AdmiralDickover · 2021-09-30T00:01:43+00:00

Natalia Dyer, because she's my celebrity crush and is dating Charlie Heaton. IMO, Charlie Heaton isn't all that attractive, but that's just my male gaze doing the talking so take it with a grain of salt.

I'm kidding, of course. Honestly, Natalia would probably be considered out of my league but the fact she's with Charlie is proof looks aren't all that matters. I'm more a believer of that women tend to have specific niche's they prefer when it comes to looks. I definitely fill out a niche for a certain type of women, and those women aren't unattractive per se, so I guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

alphafox823 · 2021-09-30T06:25:20+00:00

I'm a 5/10 but-his-face, so I guess a 5/10 butterface right? I'm pretty in shape, toned, decent features on my body but not like amazing. I also have long, beautiful hair; but none of the features on my face are good alone and they don't look great together either.

IOportA · 2021-09-30T18:37:42+00:00

Last weekend I was walking around the party district sometime around midnight. I turned a corner and a dude looked at me and said "fuck!"

So i guess my looksmatch would make the same dude say "damn!"

GridReXX · 2021-09-29T21:32:17+00:00

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AerieIll3707 · 2021-09-29T20:56:11+00:00

prettier than you

iamthemovie1992 · 2021-09-29T23:54:33+00:00

I’m 5’6, with pretty average facial features overall. So I’d probably say my looksmatch, if we’re going by a comparable women in physical attraction, is a woman who is 200lbs, a similar height, and maybe wears makeup. Essentially a woman that is ignored by most men and written off from a look alone.

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Kaisha001 · 2021-09-29T20:42:47+00:00

Can you describe the woman you consider your looksmatch

No clue, I've turned down stupidly gorgeous women, and in turn have been turned down by some pretty average looking one's. I've never been able to figure this one out.

then honestly, describe yourself

When I was younger I was told (quite often) that I looked like Matt Damon. So a young Matt Damon, 5'11, with muscles.

SuperSupremeKai · 2021-09-29T20:48:18+00:00

Uglier version of Amy Schumer, with a bigger noze and some crooked teeth.

trail22 · 2021-09-29T22:32:25+00:00

I would liek to say that someone who worked out half as much as me, but experience has told me that aint true as a 5'3" asian male.

Fridric_Magnus · 2021-09-30T00:07:17+00:00

No. It's kind of an "I'll know it when I see it" situation, in that I'll have an idea of what woman I might have a shot with when I see her (or more accurately, interact with her to gauge potential interest).

As for describing myself: nah.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-09-30T07:43:49+00:00

The woman i consider my looksmatch would be a tall, slim woman, with an above average but not model tier face, nice hair, wide hips with a small waist, not a flat butt but not a top tier butt, average sized boobs, who's got a graduate degree of some sort and is medium-high sociosexuality. Maybe someone like Anna Kendrick, Amanda Righetti, or Kyrsten Ritter. Ritter might be above me after looking at her pic. I guess it depends on your type. Apparently i have a thing for angular faced girls too as someone (you know who you are) recently told me after looking at my ex and one of my recent hookups.

I am a tall man with 14.5% ish bodyfat, with a nice but not model tier face (the comparison I've gotten is lucas till. Or younger diego klattenhoff). I have a graduate degree and nice hair. I fit a type very strictly and alt women do not like me whereas basic white chicks like me a LOT.

Mark_Freed · 2021-09-30T09:29:28+00:00

hmmm I never really understood the looksmatch concept. I find a large group of women satisfactory when it comes to looks. I call them 8, 9, and 10. I even talk to 7's with the hope that maybe after getting to know her she will look more attractive. Looks can be heavily dependent on how much you like that person, trust them, find their company enjoyable.

So if I sort men and women according to my culture's beauty standard, a women who lies around the same percentile as I do only on looks will be like a 7 or maybe 8. I think she would be slim, fair, low body fat percentage. Damn this is hard, how can I describe this girl.

A wide range of types of girls would lie in that percentile because I am above avg. There is also a lot of "types" so the beauty standard of my culture is not that robust. But my best guess would be - taller than 5 feet, the weight would be lower than 70 kg, fair skin color, angular face, button nose, slim arms. Maybe a few of these won't be there... but this is my best attempt.

Define looksmatch and I can do better.

Coming to my looks that is way easier,

85 kg, 5 feet 10 inches in height. I can do 100 pushups in 15 mins or so. 5 pull-ups. I have a big wide frame, 63 kg muscle. I need to lose belly fat and love handles. I think I would be a 8 in my community.

I have a decent beard, I keep it near stubble-like. I wear glasses. I am fair-skinned but only recently started taking care of my skin so I have a few blackheads but overall it's fine. I am balding at class 2 on Norwood scale. It has not gotten worse for the past year since I am using soft water, taking vitamins, biotin, kera growth serum. Bushy eye browd

I mean it is hard to describe your looks with words haha. I have a weak jawline and I use the beard to cover that up, right now I am 21% body fat and it should look better if I fix that.

michael1962-01 · 2021-09-30T09:56:50+00:00

Me - like a older version of chris pratt during bulk and approx little more dry mass in my best

275lbs 6'3" 18% bodyfat 59yo dark hair dark eyes - northern type - absolute symetric perfect genes, big package.

She - like the younger version of irina antonenko. Tall, slim waist, natural multistranded long hair, perfect skin and looks even without makeup, sporty, intelligent and young 22yo

We both are rich. Both dominant.

So - does this help?

What does it teach you?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-09-30T20:16:27+00:00

Let me think:

Probably an average face that some people would find ugly but others would find attractive. Possibly a few "cute" features matched with some unfortunate ones
- For instance, I have dimples and freckles, both of which have been considered cute, but I also have a gap in my teeth and I have a slightly chubby face.
  So she might have traits mirroring those, for example she might have beautiful eyes but also an acne problem, or she might have nice lips but slightly too much space between her eyes
Body is nothing too special but not terrible. She's decently in-shape; you don't exactly look at her and think "Damn she's got curves", but you also wouldn't think "damn she's a little toothpick" or "She needs to drop some weight"
However, her hair is absolutely gorgeous and luscious. To the point of frequent unsolicited compliments solely about her hair from strangers (this is the reality I live in when it comes to hair, mind you)

chdvtt · 2021-10-01T02:48:13+00:00

I don’t attract any women. I am also a steaming pile of donkey shit.

Title	Just curious
Author	spinsterchachkies
Upvotes	5
Comments	93
Date	September 29, 2021 8:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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