Science and Dating

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2024-03-10T08:31:42+00:00

Personality traits both preventing you from getting into relationship and making you feel worse about it when you don't.

Nature is Metal

The_Forgotten001 · 2024-03-10T09:03:23+00:00

I read through the studies, and for those who didn't read it, they basically(super summary) said if your an introvert(they use introvert but they are describing anti-social) you have higher levels of stress due to being lonely which leads to unsatisfactory life because you are lacking in social engagements when compared to extroverts, who are happier because they have more opportunities to find someone due to being able to meet more people.

They basically are saying that if you are feeling lonely and want a relationship you have to exhibit the qualities of an extrovert to be liked, and find someone.

I agree that the more engagements you have the more opportunities you have to meet some one you like. I think they didn't account for outside life stuff that could have affected the participants disposition into what they deem to be introverted. In the study they admitted that they know it's more than introversion that's causing unhappiness they just don't know what.

Suspicious-Tax-5947 · 2024-03-10T13:48:27+00:00

Here is an interesting article--check it out:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cultural-animal/202201/how-sexual-desire-changes-after-marriage

Key part:

Over the first four or five years of marriage, the wife’s sexual desire declined steadily, while the husband’s showed no change. The same pattern was found for the questions that asked about desire specifically for sex with one’s spouse and for sex with anybody in general. Five years into the marriage, the average husband’s desire for sex is the same as when he walked down the aisle, but his wife’s desire has dwindled.

What’s more, we found that marital satisfaction for both husband and wife deteriorated in step with the wife’s loss of sexual desire. (The husband’s sexual desire was irrelevant to anybody’s marital happiness.) Might wives lose sexual desire because the marriage is turning bad? No: Time-lag analyses indicated that her loss of desire came first, leading to lower satisfaction later. Early levels of (dis)satisfaction did not predict how rapidly the wives lost interest in sex.

Moral of the story--women might be incapable of maintaining long term sexual attraction to one guy. Also, often when they lose attraction to the guy, they don't realize that it is an internal change in emotional state. They assume that it was due to something that the guy did, and take it out on the guy.

throwaway164_3 · 2024-03-10T16:25:06+00:00

I just wanted to say that the science subreddit is ironically anti-science because it’s overrun by woke

They refuse to accept the empirical data and scientific evidence about sex differences in behavior because of their woke political ideology.

It’s not a good place for science or scientists. Much better is actual peer-reviewed scientific journals

Alas, every popular science outlet (e.g. Scientific American) has been overrun by the far left woke nutjobs.

It’s a huge problem with Reddit in general. It lacks diversity of ideas.

shonenhikada · 2024-03-10T12:21:58+00:00

certain studies from r/science often get censored here if it makes women look bad.

LittleRainSiaoYu · 2024-03-10T08:29:18+00:00

Not a surprise. Probably tracks with general inhibition as well.

rma5690 · 2024-03-10T14:14:40+00:00

It's just one of the many areas where the pareto distribution applies. Success increases the odds of future success. Failure increases the odds of future failure. You can reach a point where you can't possibly lose everything or can't possibly gain anything on either extreme of the distribution

"to those that have everything, more will be given; from those that have nothing, everything will be taken."

triple_skyfall · 2024-03-10T11:28:55+00:00

You blue pillers are hilarious! Of course you love studies on "personality". But all the studies that show the 80/20 rule, of course, are all wrong right?

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OptimistInHell · 2024-03-10T15:01:28+00:00

I bet a bunch of you made inferences that would make most scratch our heads.

TomorrowEither4185 · 2024-03-10T17:25:24+00:00

Do people truly believe in these "studies" and "research"? Obviously the results are whatever the person conducting or financing them wants it to be.

Title	Science and Dating
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