We forget that gender are 50/50 split and this view wraps reality into a delusion

Safinated · 2023-03-27T16:47:30+00:00

It’s not delusion or forgetting. It’s selfishness and self interest. Very common, and also the most basic type of motivation

AntiHypergamist · 2023-03-27T16:53:38+00:00

We don’t think there’s a young woman for each of us, we just don’t think post wall women have any lower standards than a virgin

NeutrinoParticle · 2023-03-27T22:23:58+00:00

"Men act as if there was an infinite supply of younger women to date soon or later."
I mean... Technically correct? As long as people keep having kids, this remains true.

Soloandthewookiee · 2023-03-27T16:59:07+00:00

But all these delusions exist solely from a red pill/incel/manosphere point of view.

Most women are not exclusively seeking rich men.

Most men are not exclusively seeking high school/college age women.

Most women are not "miraculously" expecting to get a good man at 40.

The warping of reality is caused by believing what red pillers say is true.

DoinIt989 · 2023-03-28T10:32:31+00:00

Gender is not 50/50 split. In most countries in the "West", men age 18-35 outnumber women by 5-10%.

Chemical_Major_1403 · 2023-03-27T16:51:58+00:00

_why it seems like your opinion about men actually do not make a sense, men on tinder swap on technically any women , so they actually invest in women that are on their level or below with no problem.Most men do not approach attractive women because of the high chance of rejection .

_ Men do not date younger women all the times , also why did you dismissed the point that women do not date men their own ages when they are young so when men get older ,richer.. they have every right to peruse the women they want without caring about people's opinion

_I still don't know why you drag men in this , It's like I want to hold women accountable but I'm afraid of the reaction so let's add men too

TurtleDickSlap · 2023-03-27T18:51:29+00:00

I get what you're saying, but you've got some issues here.

Plenty of women act as if there was a rich successful man for each of them.

I see no problem with this assertion.

Men act as if there was an infinite supply of younger women to date soon or later.

Until women stop being born, there will be a new batch turning 18 every day. As a man, if my value is sufficiently high, I can fuck them until my dick breaks.

Women believe they can wait to have children up to their 40 with no issues and miraculously get a good man exactly the time they decide to have children.

I see no problem with this assertion either.

Men believe that there is a woman for them but don't really look or invest in women at their level.

Men usually date and marry down, because women date and marry up. Very few relationships have a dynamic where the woman has a higher SMV/MMV than her partner.

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CombinationUsed7938 · 2023-03-27T19:36:54+00:00

In most western countries, fortunately, there are more women than men.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-03-28T04:21:03+00:00

It's not clear that even if women understood their realistic chances of getting a man who meets their standards they would lower those standards. Women disabused of such delusions might well just cry a lot, get depressed, and then eventually move on to a life without men. Maybe happily enough.

I think it is men who feel it is axiomatic that despite female emancipation, we are all in this together and somehow we have to make society work, in terms of mating, roughly the same way it did when women were coerced. One man for every woman. Nuclear families. Men and women matching with their rough mate value equivalent. Etc.

I am now starting to think that emancipated women are like "Wait. Hold on. We are free for the first time ever. This is the first combination of sentience and female freedom and equality. Why assume anything? Why assume male and female interests coincide? Why assume that it is in women's interests to replicate the old mating system? Let's see how it goes and how we feel. We have things to try, test and learn before we decide anything."

Title	We forget that gender are 50/50 split and this view wraps reality into a delusion
Author	CommunicationNo9896
Upvotes	12
Comments	79
Date	March 27, 2023 4:36 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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