Don't ask regular people for dating advice. Here we have relationshits convincing some poor SOB to marry an ex prostitute.....can't make this stuff up

ace_valentine · 2017-01-05T19:59:56+00:00

That's what he gets for listening to dumb advice. If you're having second thoughts about marrying someone, then that's your sign not to marry them at all.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-01-05T19:52:00+00:00

The lesson that should be learned here is abundance mentality.

I was arguing with some guys online because he was asking for relationship advice and the woman had tons of red flags, which included drug use and a high partner count, as well as being a single mother, but the guy had oneitis for her and wanted to marry her.

I said those red flags should disqualify her from being an option to have a relationship with, let alone marry. Of course the white knight flood gates opened and I was attacked from all sides. The main argument they were using was "Well, that just means more for me! Women can change, you know!".

Yes, perhaps they can change. At the same time, its NOT guaranteed, and with 3.5 billion women on this planet, surely I can be patient and hold out for having an LTR with a woman who doesn't have said red flags.

Just because a woman may "not be like that anymore" or "is different, I swear!" doesn't mean that is actually the case. As a man, you shouldn't have to roll the dice on a woman hoping that is the case. That's the core of abundance mentality - not compromising your standards, or settling for anything, or having to accept a worse deal than what you were looking for.

And even if she did change - so the fuck what? You still are getting her past her prime, and she was still a cum dumpster for many other men, and she won't be giving you her best, and you will still have to invest way more into her to get her legs to open than what other men had to invest in the past. Damaged goods. It's like buying a rental car that has been driven 100k miles at full retail price.

[deleted] · 2017-01-05T22:04:21+00:00

The issue isn't her hooker past, she was honest about it. Some guys won't have a problem with it, and for all we know, maybe it's exactly as she says, and has no sexual hangups, or saving the best because of it. He would know better than us

The issue isn't the guy having second thoughts, you're allowed to have a comfort level

The issue isn't even the large projection of other people. Women can't help but pretend they are the only woman who exists, and treat other women as a shell to input their own self

The issue is shaming the man into going against his own gut feeling. See a therapist? Maybe the hooker needs to talk therapy the cocks out. His only problem here is aversion and indecision, not mental health.

BestSC86 · 2017-01-05T22:53:00+00:00

Who in hades thinks that the women on relationshits are normal?

They are mostly broken, damaged pumped and dumped trolls with long histories of questionable decisions behind them.

I got banned from there once by disagreeing with the nitwits who told a guy that he should NEVER, EVER APPROACH any woman except in a bar or club. That cafes, libraries, school, parks, beaches were off limits and that otherwise he was sexually harassing women.

When I pointed out the simply reality that 98% of relationships happened outside of meeting in darken bars, these jaded dolts went berserk. I pointed out that at the time the last 3 women I fucked were met on the beach, at a gym and waiting in line at a deli....they doubled down on the sexual harassment claim. The end of the story was that the prime harpy that got me reported was a post-wall CC rider who it turned out had 3 failed marriages by her early 30s until she found her loser beta at a some reclaiming your virginity new age church function....

After listening to her prattle for a while and a threatened banning from her fellow troll moderator, I guess the final straw was me telling her that perhaps if she not made a habit of making her mating decisions in dimly lite bars while fueled on booze and drugs and lord knows what, maybe she would not have a long line of losers, drug addicts and failures in her love life. That didn't go over very well.

mainer343 · 2017-01-05T19:29:43+00:00

the world is blue! this rings true!

SirGaetanDugas · 2017-01-05T23:08:53+00:00

Most betas starving for pussy would think wifing up a ho has its benefits (great sex).

Truth is, any whore who dupes a man into marriage despite her checkered past will lose respect. She wont be attracted and fuck him. She will cheat. She will leave him and take everything she can.

Because in her mind she deserves it. And she can.

Returnofthemack3 · 2017-01-05T20:45:26+00:00

Relationships is hilarious lol. They'll just act like any past life or actions are irrelevant if it's a woman in question. I've seen them defend strippers before, and it's like they think most strippers are the ideal of a nice college girl who just wants to pay her bills. Anyone with experience with strippers knows the type of girl they usually are, and the poor decisions they make that are enabled in such an unhealthy environment. But nope, gotta think about that one unicorn stripper you heard of or thought you knew, because by god she's representative of yoru average stripper

Ian702907 · 2017-01-06T08:12:29+00:00

Look at it this way, if the bedroom goes dead you can just wad up a couple $20's and throw them at her. She'll revert to her whoreish ways and everything will be right in the world again.

TrumpRules2016 · 2017-01-05T19:39:36+00:00

Dear lord, I found that thread and it's so ridiculous. They are calling him irrational for having second thoughts (which he should be having) about marrying a woman who used to be a stripper. Then they try to normalize it. I saw this gem of a comment.

Take some time to think really long and hard about how you view other strippers that aren't Laura. What kinds of ideas do you have about them? You need to shed yourself of any pre-conceived ideas you have of strippers and their personalities. It's a job like any other job, and they are people like the rest of us. Their job doesn't define who they are and not all strippers are the same. Would you say all programmers are the same? That they're all nerds or geeks or something? Try to see past the stripper part and look at them as people.

How the fuck is a programmer who could very well be making loads of money, the same as a woman who takes her clothes off and maybe does more for cash?

canyoustopp · 2017-01-06T03:24:24+00:00

If he's stupid enough to ask that question, he's dumb enough to marry her.

Don't take Reddit too seriously. Everyone likes to think they're above it all and too enlightened to judge people.

Its all bullshit. Nobody actually buys this shit.

I don't know why we instantly assume the dude is a catch. He probably isn't a white collar professional. He's a chump who clearly thinks he can't do any better and for all we know, he might be right.

Luce_Bree · 2017-01-06T03:56:49+00:00

I don't think anyone can really help you until you've done some more digging into where these feelings have come from and what's prompting them, but I think it's safe to say this isn't about Laura or her past. It's about you, so find the insecurity or double standard this is triggering and root it out.

This legit made me angry.

He's "insecure" for having very understandable reservations about committing, for the rest of his life, to a woman who was a sex worker?

Oh, and she "had no choice"? What, she couldn't do any temping? Bagging groceries? Take a shitty retail job? She absolutely HAD to go into sex work? A woman who had the capacity to put herself through school couldn't figure out another path to take?

And I'm not even trying to shame the girl for doing what she did--I really don't care, honestly. But coming at homeboy as if he's DAMAGED in some way is complete fucking bullshit.

Stop the planet and let me off, sometimes this shit is just too much.

redpillnexus · 2017-01-05T23:43:05+00:00

Any guy who is actually considering marrying a whore honestly just deserves that kind of life tbh.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-01-06T01:18:09+00:00

Another thing is don't take dating advice from women. They set you up for the friendzone every time.

gorgamin · 2017-01-05T22:36:15+00:00

I'm scared of kissing lips that sucked 70 year old penis, especially if they paid for it.

RPtruthe · 2017-01-06T02:02:56+00:00

Prostitution is a matter of willpower. I know many women in college who could drop out at any moment and make $100K a year being exotic dancers. It's a choice she made.

2comment · 2017-01-06T02:44:32+00:00

Talk to a therapist.

Someone should tell him "Listen to your gut." Evolved Senses > Educated Mental Hamstering.

raisins3142 · 2017-01-05T20:19:38+00:00

It sucks she did that but she had other options and it isn't other people's responsibility to be with her despite their own misgivings.

stephcurryftw · 2017-01-05T21:04:36+00:00

This is so unbelievable and believable at the same time.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2017-01-05T22:30:35+00:00

The simplest way I can put it is, have you ever heard of a marriage with a stripper going well?

Conceited-Monkey · 2017-01-06T02:32:47+00:00

Getting banned from the relationships subreddit is pretty easy to do, even if you make pretty innocuous comments. I would be really nervous about the quality of advice you get, based on the posters who frequent the sub and survive. Generally speaking, women are allowed to have a past, but men are not.

NoFapShare · 2017-01-06T03:04:22+00:00

Point him to that other thread of the girl that slept with 50 guys and settled for her boyfriend.

Unabummer80 · 2017-01-06T04:54:10+00:00

Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

RedPillandNoFap · 2017-01-05T23:13:44+00:00

"Think for yourself. Question authority." - Some guy on acid

sickofallofyou · 2017-01-05T22:58:50+00:00

I rented a room off a chick like that. she was a 'sex slave' slaved out on heroin. Got her kid taken away. Told me this after she dumped her beta no bux bf for not putting out. After she tried getting with me she tried to get with a friend, he didn't (asfik). She ended up with some 400lbs loser. Got married and divorced two years later. Nows shes fat.

RedSwami · 2017-01-05T23:34:37+00:00

Quality post mate. It is stories like these that bring me so much joy that I found the Red Pill. Never been more excited for the future.

legizelle · 2017-01-06T09:44:37+00:00

You shouldn't assume r / relationships to be regular people in the first place.

drrootnsnoot · 2017-01-06T13:21:22+00:00

Reddit relationships is not the regular world. That sub consists of tumblrinas who need to feel less guilty about being gigantic whores so everything is sex positive and even asking partner count is taboo. Don't base your view of the world on that sub, it's not real. In the real world where people actually live, nobody wants to turn a ho into a housewife except beta cucks who ultimately get what they deserve for being giant faggots.

thebrandedman · 2017-01-06T17:04:27+00:00

Stares in horrified fascination

csqr · 2017-01-08T20:16:24+00:00

Whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hnhvWKMqm4

JustinDX · 2017-01-12T03:35:13+00:00

I can't read these replies without wanting to nuke the female race - but then who will I fuck? no homo here

Its cringe after cringe.. I was waiting for some bitch to say "she didn't have a choice".. there are many jobs, MANY FUCKING JOBS!

In other words... "Hey beta billy, i took it up the ass by 1/4 hard 70yo D's and had more MMF 3ways than Asa Akira but will you be my cuck, till hypergamy do us part"

Girl you best never tell another soul about your little resume because no guy will rationally marry a ho..

There is a song - "You can't turn a ho into a housewife"

Loving and hating the hamstering with this one.

jarjarbrooks · 2017-01-05T21:36:56+00:00

I don't honestly understand how any of that has relevance.

Yea, she has a high partner count, most chicks do.

The only difference is she got paid for it instead of jumping on a mountain of cocks for no reason at all.

I think there are a million reasons to decline pursuing an LTR with a high-count women (or any woman). The distinction of whether she was paid in drinks or dollars seems petty and pointless.

Title	Don't ask regular people for dating advice. Here we have relationshits convincing some poor SOB to marry an ex prostitute.....can't make this stuff up
Author	flying-gogoplata
Upvotes	204
Comments	78
Date	January 5, 2017 7:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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