Hypergamy Is Your Friend

PlanB_pedofile · 2014-07-14T13:35:29+00:00

It's very advantageous for getting sex, sure, but ultimately it creates a world where it's very difficult to find a genuine, loving partner. I don't know about you guys, but in my heart I want a woman who truly loves me for who I am.

I know that's unrealistic now that I've swallowed the redpill, and I'm no longer looking for that woman. It's just a desire that I've had for the longest time. The more narcissistic and hypergamous female nature becomes, the further away that goal becomes as well.

Ultimately the whole system of hypergamy leads to men stepping on each other to peacock for the affection of women, and that is not the type of society I want to live in.

edit: Thanks for the many replies. A lot of people are seemingly missing my point though. My second paragraph is there to clarify that I am no longer looking for that NAWALT/unicorn of a woman. I recognize that it was too idealistic, a result of my natural desire for women combined with an overly feminine upbringing. I've moved past that desire and I no longer need to have it corrected or fixed.

subcover · 2014-07-14T14:38:05+00:00

Yes, men over-complain about the Friendzone. A woman puts there because she is not sexually attracted, and there you will stay if she never feels sexually attracted. Since guys don't often change, they stay in the same condition and say "the friendzone is forever".

But it's not. All you have to do is change to become attractive (not physically but in the ways that count) and she'll realize "you've changed". I had a girl tell me that once.

But on the other hand, once you escape the FZ, the woman probably resents you because of the cognitive dissonance -- she does remember the dismissive feelings she had about you earlier, so why the hell is she getting those tingles now, this isn't right -- so she's probably not right for a ltr, just pnd.

elysius · 2014-07-14T18:02:36+00:00

I'm sitting here as a guy in his 40s who's been married twice and have been with the same woman now for a decade and I'm just laughing my ass off at the naivete contained in this post.

women are emotional creatures surging on hormones.

And men aren't?

You can be the biggest alpha in your town but the minutes a movie star walks in the room, all women will lose interest in you immediately.

Yeah no, that doesn't happen. The woman you're with may turn her head, but if she runs off to hang around some other guy, well, you never had her anyway (and don't want her because she's a shallow POS).

For them, it is all about the NOW.

Holy shit, do you honestly believe this? Do you honestly believe that women, who have potentially long-term results from ONS, think only about the "NOW"? That is so completely backwards it's laughable.

They don't "keep score" the way that men do.

In terms of numbers of partners? No. But would you want them to?

If your SMV value raises, they will immediately forgive and forget past failures and humiliations.

Only women with zero self-worth act this way, and they're only good for ONS so who cares what they think? Incidentally, beta males think this way, too.

They don't brood

Ha!

they don't remember

HA!

they don't hold it against you

OMFG hahaha! Dude, have you ever been in a relationship with a woman? Because they all brood, remember, and hold shit against you forever. It's what they're best at.

soskk · 2014-07-14T17:33:33+00:00

Understand that modern society has women transfixed with the notion of instant gratification and forgiveness rivaling that of royalty(princess complex). Because they are constantly validated and rarely have to own up to their own mistakes it's easy for them to rationalize attraction reversal in males who raise their SMV; males they would have ignored otherwise. They generally do not hold relationships built on virtue and morality in high regard as men do until later in life, if ever. Most women thrive on a risk vs reward system. The exception being land whales and ham beasts. They instead live in the gravitational pull of high value women they orbit and feast on the unworthy betas that follow.

2014-07-14T19:45:27+00:00

This is good advice for life in general. It's interesting how people choose to forgive themselves and others or not.

Occams_Shiv · 2014-07-14T19:54:56+00:00

In fact, your past failures can help you, as they create contrast with your new current SMV.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-07-14T21:30:34+00:00

I can always tell the difference between those that have fully ingested TRP and those that just nibble at it and pretend to swallow. It's this: do you view hypergamy as a feature or as a bug? Hypergamy is reality. TRP is about accepting, no, EMBRACING reality.

As an aside, ones mindset (read the book, Mindset, by Carolyn S. Dweck) has an overwhelming impact on the results one gets. Politicians at the highest levels utilize this daily. Anything that happens, and I mean ANYTHING gets used to their advantage. The Clintons (may they burn forever) are absolute masters at this. They find the advantage in literally every situation, however unpleasant, or catastrophic.

And you should, too.

tallwheel · 2014-07-15T02:21:14+00:00

The same woman that mocks you and rejects you today will be kissing your feet tomorrow if your SMV value rises.

Yeah. I totally want to hate fuck that hot bitch who is mocking and disrespecting me. /s

Either that, or she can just go fuck herself.

blind_venetian · 2014-07-15T03:20:55+00:00

You can be the biggest alpha in your town but the minutes a movie star walks in the room, all women will lose interest in you immediately.

What kind of women are you hanging with, OP?

2014-07-14T18:00:15+00:00

i dont think this works for ex girlfriends

aazav · 2014-07-14T22:38:31+00:00

With regards to anxiety & fear of rejection, if you don't care, it doesn't matter.

Think about that.

Learn not to place too much importance on something that has not earned it. Learn not to care about acceptance or rejection.

This means you need to not want someone, or feel better when "she is next to you". This is just you being a pussy. Stop being a fucking pussy. Fuck the pussy; don't be the pussy.

no_face · 2014-07-15T05:25:07+00:00

When women love us, they forgive us everything, even our crimes; when they do not love us, they give us credit for nothing, not even our virtues.

--Honore de Balzac

P.S: Any one named ballsack probably knows what he's talking about in these matters

Ktigers · 2014-07-15T05:38:08+00:00

Is subpost seems to view people as objects. SMV value increase does increase attraction but the key question is, is this factor alone ,isolated make hypergamous attitudes favourable to males?

THe primary assumption that women are emotional creatures, when applied to the repill makes sense. This idea almost seems illusonary to the concept of reality- an objectification of women and men as a merely a score. Another question, is there scientific studies to back up the reference of "alpha" and "beta" males. In the context of primates, monkeys yes, however our society itsellf has become more civilised. Therefore do these assumption in a modern society, concluding a deficiency in aggression in males conclude the analytical truth of the theredpill?

Most quys here want to get laid. More guys want to get a girlfriend. Thse sporadic ideologies of the Theredpill parallel pick up material, - I hope we can discuss more long term strategies giving us foresight of whats to come.

cooltrip · 2014-07-15T13:46:06+00:00

"For them, it is all about the NOW"

To be honest, that was just fun.

JGH8763 · 2014-07-14T18:47:46+00:00

It makes me dislike women, though, even if they're attracted to me. Being hypergamous makes you a bad person, in my opinion.

I would prefer it if it women just went on looks, like men do. That would be more understandable and respectable.

Bottled_Void · 2014-07-14T20:58:31+00:00

Summary: Fuck lots of women to overcome your own social anxiety. Women don't have anything to offer a men other than sex.

Doesn't seem very red pill to me. Deal with your problems yourself.

M1zuNo_ · 2014-07-14T21:17:10+00:00

I`m new here, sorry for asking... what is SMV?

rpkarma · 2014-07-14T19:56:26+00:00

More theory that doesn't fit reality. I have dated many, many women in my life, and this was never the case. I have observed friends with many, many women and this is never been the case. In one case, my friend's hot girlfriend left him for some dorky, poor British guy simply because my friend was not paying enough attention to her. He literally swept her off her feet just by chatting with her online and giving her the attention and emotional attachment she wanted. On the other hand, my friend is formal model who was working at a successful ad agency who paid her little attention because he was so ambitious in his career. But if you put the two guys side by side at a bar or on paper, according to your "theory" women are supposed to want my friend. So either bluepill guys have more SMV than you admit, or you're full of it.

In addition, women are emotional creatures, true, but this also means that they become very attached emotionally to you regardless of what your SMV is, which is just a theoretical construct that certain men have made up to compensate for their insecurities.

My advice: Discover what you want and then go out there and live your fucking life. You will learn more about women, men, and relationships than you will ever learn by understanding stupid concepts like "hypergamy", "SMV", the dichotomy between feminine/masculine, etc., these things crush rather than raise your awareness of what is actually right in front of your face.

Title	Hypergamy Is Your Friend
Author	2chronicles34
Upvotes	252
Comments	148
Date	July 14, 2014 1:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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