shuaiya has passed away.

FLFTW16 · 2016-06-05T21:38:25+00:00

This is my favorite comment from shuaiya, posted 9 months ago in TRP:

Missing the forest for the trees. Everything is a waste of time. Beautiful women are a waste of time. Making money is a waste of time. Rock climbing is a waste of time. Because experiences aren't permanent. Unless you are religious, then it's all a waste of time, and people cope with atheism/death/void in different ways. Most TRPs don't have a god to worship and believe in, and the idea of romance and marriage was completely ripped out from them, so instead they worship idols such as masculinity, progeneration, their father figures, brothers in arms, Darwin, and plenty of other abstracts such as the noble savage. Real men do whatever the fuck they want with their life. Sports can be included. Or not. TRP is about seeing truth and getting down to the blurry axioms and principles of society, not delegating schedules and hobbies. It's not about getting more women, it's about understanding why the techniques for getting more women work and applying it in whatever aspects of your life that you choose to. The cockup with praising, say, learning how to play an instrument over watching a sport is it implicitly means that person irrationally values production and enterprise. To the extent it has become a pagan god for them. I think what most of these people want to say is "sports is a waste of time if you want to get laid" "sports is a waste of time if you want to make more money" "sports is a waste of time if you want to read more books" But if you've personally gone through your own checklist and feel satisfied with your situation as is, then you should probably go spend your precious hours on whatever activity gives you the most enjoyment.

He lived his life how he wanted to. In the end there is no greater measure of a man than this.

thewrightstuff88 · 2016-06-05T20:02:58+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. Any form of passing of a loved one is always something that we could do without. I would imagine that instead of mourning, your brother would appreciate us celebrating the life he lived.

I see in his post history that he wrote 6 months ago about how TRP improved his marriage. Although I don't know him in any capacity, I'm personally glad he was able to find a way to improve his quality of life and glad that this community contributed to that during his last few months.

deepthrill · 2016-06-05T20:27:10+00:00

This could have been any one of us, and eventually Thanatos will catch up to all of us. There will be a last post on the red pill for every single one of us.

For me and my journey, my father passing away always looking for happiness in the future was what opened my eyes to trp and started me on my journey here.

It's important to remember that our time is limited.

Do not spend one more second in a relationship which doesn't fulfill you.

Do not spend one more second living by society's rules if you don't want to.

Do not spend one more second bitching about women on the Internet instead of furthering your fitness or finances.

Do not wait till tomorrow to work on your health.

Losses are devastating and the only true silver lining of another's death, is to make you live your life a little better. That's how you honor another. You can't change the past but you can use it to not wait to truly live your own life.

It's easy to put things off to tomorrow. The challenge is to take action today.

Old Chinese proverb: "The best time to plant a tree is 50 years ago. The second best time is today."

Sorry for your loss.

FruitAndNutDelight · 2016-06-05T22:33:41+00:00

his name is u/shuaiya, HIS name is u/shuaiya

TheJunkieMonk · 2016-06-05T21:01:37+00:00

Very sorry for your loss brother, if you need any help coping with the pain, PM me.

I really want to ask something, did his wife take care of him after he was diagnosed?

It looks he stopped posting about 3 months ago, around when he discovered the cancer probably.

I'm sorry if this isn't the right time to ask but I'm very curious nonetheless.

Yourmamasmama · 2016-06-06T01:53:34+00:00

Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

EuronPacificus · 2016-06-05T23:29:35+00:00

Valhalla awaits you brother.

JanLul · 2016-06-05T21:31:28+00:00

To Noah! Who worked hard to understand himself and others and his mission to make positive changes in his life.

AnOldSouI · 2016-06-06T00:13:17+00:00

Remember him well and live by his example.

aDrunkenWhaler · 2016-06-06T01:49:54+00:00

RIP. I don't know him, but your love and tearful words speak volumes about who he was. Condolences

ransay3277 · 2016-06-05T20:19:23+00:00

I'm very sorry to hear of his passing and your loss. I too read his past posts. Your brother was a good man and he will be missed by many I am sure. Pass our condolences to your family.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-06-05T21:22:27+00:00

Our conscious minds are simply electricity flowing through our physical bodies.

The death of any of us doesn't change how electricity functions.

The fact he was Red Pill means that his conscious mind (when alive) was at a higher level than others.

Realize this.

He saw the true reality better than the beta.

(so celebrate a wise man)

LuvBeer · 2016-06-05T21:49:11+00:00

Condolences for your loss, thank you for letting people know.

marinewannabee97 · 2016-06-06T01:05:24+00:00

Terribly sorry for you and your family's loss. We have lost a friend and member of our community. I think I speak for all of us when I say that our wishes are with you.

It is always very painful when we lose a loved one. I fear the day that I may have to bury my brother.

I choose to celebrate your brothers life by remembering the advice he gave and the life he lived.

theHangedGod · 2016-06-06T01:08:41+00:00

May he rest in peace.

I feel for you, losing someone close is always hard. Know that he was witnessed.

vagbutters · 2016-06-06T04:07:17+00:00

Sorry for you loss; hope you can carry on your brother's will to live a good life by applying the same principles here that he advocated and used in his own life.

TomFoo · 2016-06-06T04:07:31+00:00

OP, you're a good man. We are all sorry for your loss. Thank you for doing this.

For TRPers without kids and considering to stay that way, you may find yourself pondering about your own mortality and legacy. After all the lifting, alpha-ing, shit-test busting, not giving a fuck, and generally living a badass life, what are you leaving behind?

Words. Stories. Actions. Boldness. Truth. At best this is what you leave behind. Dig a little deeper there isn't much. But that's okay.

Sometimes I think about how my old man sees me. He probably isn't thrilled about me to say the least. But he keeps his hopes up some day I'll come around, that I'll find faith again, that I'll marry again, that I'll settle down and have kids this time, that I'll stop chasing dreams and be a real man and struggle like the rest of the world. As his only son I am probably not the kind of legacy he probably wants to leave behind in this world. Could this just be the angst against my father speaking? Sure. But I don't care. We all need to find our own peace, our path. I'm finding it. My father needs to.

Point is: leaving a legacy is bull. Life is struggle, life is absurd. Occasionally I pull away from being like the Dark Knight, the World's Greatest Detective, trying to solve the question, "Why?" Instead I push myself to be Joker, simply laughing and yelling, "Why not?!" Live in the moment, smile at the struggle, and shrug off the absurdity.

Like u/FLFTW16 said:

He lived his life how he wanted to. In the end there is no greater measure of a man than this.

Noah didn't try to leave a legacy. His life IS his legacy. He just did stuff, probably even before he knew he was going to go.

Alpha is a mindset and lifestyle of freedom. Live a fucking interesting life.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-06-06T04:17:41+00:00

Carry on fellow traveler. We're still at it here. You do it there. Thanks for sharing.

Luckyluke23 · 2016-06-06T04:41:17+00:00

may his memory live on in all our hearts. may he R.I.P

MagicGainbow · 2016-06-06T06:11:12+00:00

My condolences in this difficult time.

Jakei34 · 2016-06-05T20:47:48+00:00

He has his condolences from a fellow Red Piller.

jmg83 · 2016-06-05T21:24:26+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this, man. My thoughts are with your family.

trancedj · 2016-06-05T21:12:58+00:00

TRP changed my life as well. Glad to hear he lived his final days to the fullest.

aRedThought · 2016-06-05T21:09:14+00:00

There are arguments over what happens after you die, but one thing is for sure. Life is short.

Sir_Distic · 2016-06-05T21:26:17+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. Although I don't know him he sounds like someone who touched people's lives.

RIP Noah

gghavoc · 2016-06-05T21:51:08+00:00

Sorry for your loss, I just had someone close to me pass recently. What surprised me was the suddenness of it all, like one day it all ends in the blink of an eye. All that we leave are the memories we created with those close to us, friends and family. Cherish the everyday experiences, and most of all do what makes you happy.

eccentricrealist · 2016-06-05T22:10:41+00:00

Your brother was the rare sort of person who actually adapted the mindset he needed to his life without all the bullshit about blindly following TRP maxims just because. May he rest in peace.

refusewool · 2016-06-05T22:38:57+00:00

I didn't know your brother but after browsing through his post history it becomes apparent that he was intelligent and insightful and lived his life to the fullest and without limits. A true inspiration. I'm sorry for your loss.

2016-06-05T22:46:20+00:00

May the redpill be with shuaiya.

ForeskinLamp · 2016-06-06T00:08:01+00:00

My condolences for your family's loss. I had a read through your brother's post history, and it's obvious that he was a bright spark who lived his life the way that he wanted. I hope that -- as well as mourning for your loss -- your family can celebrate a life that was well lived.

invaderdim325 · 2016-06-05T22:25:04+00:00

Off to play the greatest game of all. I'm sorry for your loss

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-06-05T22:30:56+00:00

Shit damn, those cancers are the worst. It takes everything you've ever build up away with a whim. Nothing you can do, shit bad luck. Hopefully this guy enjoyed the time he had left.

smum · 2016-06-05T23:45:41+00:00

Hey my condolences for your loss, but this is the beauty in life and what makes every one special

jumpingdonkey · 2016-06-05T22:09:54+00:00

"plunges sword into the earth, gets on 1 knee, head bowed down" "a brother passed away, we salute you"

Title	shuaiya has passed away.
Author	shuaiya
Upvotes	759
Comments	76
Date	June 5, 2016 7:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4moyz6/shuaiya_has_passed_away/
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