Gender roles was once a functioning dynamic. A man would be nice, chivalrous, respectful and providing. He'd open the door, pull out the chair, pay for dinner and stand when a women entered the room. These were valued characteristics in a man. In return for his chivalry, he'd get a women who was feminine, classy, polite, innocent and respectful. Both him and her would be flexing their potential as good long term partners, displaying a propensity to be great mothers and fathers and heads of a family unit. It was a transaction, traditional father for traditional mother.

The core of blue pill thinking is that you could still be this nice, chivalrous gentlemen and women would still value you for it. As so many here have learn't the hard way, this is no longer the case, the rules have changed. Chivalry and niceties only display your stellar providership potential. Unless she's post wall she's not looking for a father figure or head of the house, she's looking for Chad to plough her into next week. The transaction no longer functions

It's hard to rewire your conditioning and many men still long for these traditional girls of old. So when they meet a church girl, or a self confessed traditional girl, their ears perk up. They think she could be the special antidote in a sea of modernity. However, these girls are nothing more than a trojan horse, strolling through the gates to wreck you from the inside out.

She still wants you to open the door, pull out the chair, pay for dinner and stand when a women enters the room. She still expects all the benefits of old, but in return you won't get a classy, polite, innocent sweetheart. You'll get a common lass who dresses like a tart, screeches like banshee, has been railed by the football team and has zero respect for the masculine "role".

This is because women are a product of the time they exist in, therefore traditional girls can only exist in a traditional society. The culture, norms and most importantly consequences for not being traditional need to be firmly in place for a tradgirl to exist. In a modern world where none of that is in place, you'll only get a modern women. Except you'll get the worst, most toxic kind who on the surface appear to be all you're looking for, but at their core they're simply hand picking all the rules from the old and new world to so they can have it all.

In essence, they're not looking to make a trade, traditional for traditional, but rather looking for a servant. Society has allowed the feminine hivemind to reach a point where they feel they are entitled to have their cake and eat it. She is unable to conceive of the transactional nature that gender roles formerly used to operate upon. This is documented perfectly in a recent study suggesting women who expressed traditional gender role beliefs, were most likely to engage in a foodie call and find it acceptable. Your Russian, Asian, Greek, Italian girls in the west are prime examples of this.

Don't be fooled. AWALT.