When a woman gets older, she doesn't settle! She just, uh... changes her priorities! Yeah, that's it.

Cyralea · 2014-05-09T16:41:23+00:00

AFBB, yep. Not even mad.

The thing that does get me is that chicks genuinely think they're doing beta guys a favour with this set up. "I'm finally giving you a chance! Lucky you!!!"

Yeah, no. If you're a successful, good-looking guy in your early 30's you can easily take your pick of early 20-something hotties. No guy wants a washed up spinster except the omega that can't find another.

toysjoe · 2014-05-09T17:21:03+00:00

So if as a kid my priority was to drink beer and smoke weed, but I grow up and "change my priorities", does the world still owe me a high-income job?

jobs33ker · 2014-05-09T16:53:11+00:00

Someone should PM him and direct him here. He seems like the type who's slowly figuring shit out. I think he just needs a push in the right direction and his eyes could be opened..

gekkozorz · 2014-05-09T15:54:02+00:00

Oh my gosh, this top comment is priceless.

I will chime in as the woman's point of view. It is not settling at all. It is really just growing the fuck up. Bad boys are fun and exciting. They make you feel alive. In your younger years this is the goal you feel alive. You mistakenly think all these women are madly in love with these men and that is rarely the case. It is fun. In your younger years that's the goal to have fun and live it up. To go to parties, travel meet people. It isn't the time to start the rest of your life. You aren't looking for the one.

Then you get your real job. You get a house you start accumilating responsibilities. You begin looking for that individual you will love forever. Not just for the week. You want not only physic attraction at this point but a real connection. Someone who makes you smile. Who brighten a your day. Who you can tell anything to. That ONE person that completes you. You spread your horizons bringing into the possibility of different men. After all you aren't looking for fun an excitement anymore you're looking for the rest of your life.

So you see they aren't settling. It isn't your wallets or your stability it is genuine attraction and want. The bad boys get the girl for a minute but guys that are good that are kind gentle responsible loving? They get them for life. Now if you're a cruel ugly asshole. You just lose. And BTW men spend their entire youths chasing the easy party girls. Then they grow up and search for the girl that completes them. It isn't an unbalanced gender thing. It really is just youth.

http://i.imgur.com/a1zDQWb.gif

You know how it is how every time a celebrity, athlete, or politician fucks up, they'll wait a few days then give a press conference which was obviously written by a PR firm and is full of sugarcoated doublespeak?

Women have that PR firm in their heads. Just listen to the way they talk.

She meets a simple looking but rich guy -> "I'm so attracted to the way he's driven and motivated by success." It has nothing to do with the BMW, the jewelry, the lavish vacations, or the jealousy of her friends.

She gets used as a cumrag by a drug dealer with prison tattoos and giant muscles -> "He's a fascinating character once you really get to know him." It's that secret underlying nice guy deep down that attracts her, not the dark triad gina tingles she gets when he pins her down and fucks her.

She gets used as a cumrag by the same guy while she's in a committed relationship with the rich guy -> "It just happened, it wasn't emotionally at all, it was purely physical, you have nothing to be jealous of." It has nothing to do with the fact that she's getting her bux but still needs her fux.

And, of course, this. She gets old and those dark triad drug dealers just don't want to fuck her anymore -> "I've matured. I'm ready to give up on all the partying and bad boys, and settle for my One True Love ^TM who will love me and treat me right." This was totally my choice guys, and totally not something I was forced into because of my beer gut, sagging tits, and child she's stuck with from the drug dealer.

Take the things women say with a grain of salt.

Blitz13 · 2014-05-09T16:50:26+00:00

I was with a FEMALE for 9 years.

I am 100% female I promise you. So far? I am pretty sure my man the fuck up level surpasses yours.

Are even lesbians pushing the AF/BB agenda?

needsomehelp3211 · 2014-05-09T15:36:12+00:00

Take-home point: This is basically the cliffnotes of hamstering. In a few paragraphs, she illustrates exactly how the female mind works and how girls will try offering any justification possible for why they try to grab a beta male later in life. Her "priorities" changed.

How does the man feel about this arrangement? LOL! Who gives a shit, right?

hashtagpound2point2 · 2014-05-09T17:41:05+00:00

In a woman's world, slutting it up with guys that don't give a shit about them = living.

Dragontitz · 2014-05-09T16:36:46+00:00

I hate how older women (25+) shame men for liking young women that are 18-21.

There the hottest and easiest women, but somehow that's wrong that it's easy for me. if women don't have all the power then it's immoral & perverted

JP_Whoregan · 2014-05-09T16:20:10+00:00

stop chasing the hot guys they really want and settle for me because I'm a safe bet/practical guy.

stop chasing the hot guys they really want and settle for me because I'm a safe beta/practical guy.

FTFY.

Mintaka7 · 2014-05-09T23:18:55+00:00

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SariaLystra · 2014-05-09T22:47:49+00:00

Toysjoe pretty much hit the nail on the head. The woman spent a lot of years of her life being a hypocritical slut and now, reality clubs her across the face. Suddenly, every nice guy she's made fun of and humiliated is supposed to sweep her off her feet? She spent years not improving herself and wasted away. What value does she have?

through_a_ways · 2014-05-10T03:04:26+00:00

Two fundamental variables at work here.

1) How hot the woman is. This determines how successful she is in attaining sex partners.

2) How worthy the woman is. Determines how successful she is in attaining relationship partners.

As a woman ages, she always becomes less hot, and almost always becomes less worthy.

I say almost always because there are an exceedingly small number of women who hold onto their virginity.

Anyway, the only real solution is a return to gender norms, where women were married in their early 20s, and casual sex and divorce were frowned upon.

lagspike · 2014-05-10T14:49:54+00:00

"after im done fucking all these random people, i'm going to settle down with you. aren't you lucky?"

"it's ok to be a slut, everyone does it when they are young."

but when a 30 year old guy wants to date a 22 year old girl...

"have some standards, you cant look at a girl as a piece of meat!"

right, you fuck guys casually till you are 30 then have the nerve to call someone else a slut? do you know what a hypocrite is?

jacobman · 2014-05-09T18:01:35+00:00

Women want safety and a guy who will provide that safety and comfort for them and their kids. That makes sense. It's logical. However, many women mistakenly believe that because they want that, that their brain will go along with it and they will be able to love any man as long as he's a good nice guy who provides that. Amazingly they think that their attraction will be different once their priorities change. They think later they will love the dependable provider that they're not attracted to right now, and that they won't be drawn to the person that they are attracted to now. It's crazy I know, but this is what they think will happen.

gopher88 · 2014-05-09T22:42:51+00:00

Even in my bluepill days I went nuts at girls who told me I was good for them in 10-20 years.

How is that not an insult... The only thing about me that I plan on changing in that time is where I am at in my job...

duckducklandwhale · 2014-05-09T19:20:41+00:00

Literal LOL. The way they try to re-word it is some funny shit. "We've just grown up". Aka "We've just been tired of not committment and being used by bad douchebros who are going nowhere in life, therefore we must now turn our attention toward the good, stable, less exciting men we ignored". I dont know how that idiot thought that was suppose to make the OP feel good at fucking all.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T17:28:58+00:00

When a woman gets older she actually does change her priorities. Nothing blue pill about it. On average as women get older their priority will shift towards getting commitment over sex.

And as the woman ages and her value goes down, she will have to bring down her expectations in partners. This isn't settling, because settling is when a high value person gets with a lower value person. In this case the woman actually is low value, so when she chooses a low value male she isn't settling, she simply had to adjust her priorities to reflect her now lower value.

I think men are the ones who actually settle more often than women, because men are more likely to misjudge (underestimate) their own value these days.

hashtagpound2point2 · 2014-05-09T18:01:07+00:00

/u/idontfit just deleted this comment from the thread. Imgur

First of all..you're most likely alone because you're a bitter asshat. Second of all? I explained the thinking I NEVER stated that all that was me. Thanks.

I was with a FEMALE for 9 years. We had two kids together and I busted my fucking ass for this girl. She was fucking beautiful intelligent witty perfect in my eyes.

She left me when my son was two weeks old. Two fucking weeks old. How do you abandon a goddamn two week old?! The daughter I raised for six years. Who's hair I brushed? Who I walked into her first day of kindergarten? Tummy aches and scraped knees? She was snatched away by her fathers family. So here I have a son. Who doesnt know his sister. A daughter who doesn't understand why she can't come home to her mama ( me). And a woman I trusted ..who was clean the entirety of our relationship out smoking dope fucking around.

So you didn't get the hot girl in highschool. Quit being a bitter asshole or you will NEVER get the girl. You can sit behind your computer complaining how evil woman are ( and look as a woman I will give you that. Most woman are conniving self centered bitches) OE you can grow a fucking pair of balls and go find the woman of your dreams. I am 100% female I promise you. So far? I am pretty sure my man the fuck up level surpasses yours.

I was gonna ask her how most guys are going to find their dream girl when most girls are self centered bitches (her words, not mine), but it seems like she's running away from the thread.

2014-05-10T05:18:29+00:00

Sorry, guurl. We've changed our priorities, too.

MisterMisogyny · 2014-05-09T19:57:03+00:00

This is due to hamstering around different uses of the verb "settle."

The woman in the top comment is saying that it's not "settling for: to accept in spite of incomplete satisfaction" (which I think is debatable since she'll probably still want to try SC and ride the CC if opportunity presents itself), but her hamstering prevents her from seeing that it is "settling down: to begin living a stable and orderly life."

through_a_ways · 2014-05-09T23:28:05+00:00

They make you feel alive. In your younger years this is the goal you feel alive. You mistakenly think all these women are madly in love with these men and that is rarely the case. It is fun. In your younger years that's the goal to have fun and live it up.

As if anyone needed further proof of social proof.

niceguy_gone_cad · 2014-05-10T13:59:47+00:00

Sad thing there are stil so many desperate guys that will wife up one os those ex-carousel riders the first chance they get. That sub is bursting with them.

TheYellowPill · 2014-05-10T09:56:02+00:00

It is not settling at all.

She's absolutely right. Because she rode the cock carousel and approaching/past the wall, her SMV dictates she can only receive commitment from beta chumps. If she could get commitment from a higher value man, she would. But she can't, so it is not settling. SMV != MMV.

It is really just growing the fuck up.

No, you've been thrown off the cock carousel by younger girls. Now you must try to land whoever will take you before your SMV plummets to 0 and nobody will commit except for Mr. Cat.

Bad boys are fun and exciting. They make you feel alive. In your younger years this is the goal you feel alive. You mistakenly think all these women are madly in love with these men and that is rarely the case. It is fun. In your younger years that's the goal to have fun and live it up. To go to parties, travel meet people.

This is absolutely true in modern society. Young girls just want to have fun--have their cake (alpha fucks) and eat it too (beta bucks). It's a shame these women were so short sighted with instant gratification/validation. TRP knowledge of AFBB ruins their beta bucks strategy and will result in them being only worthy of being a plate, not LTR.

You begin looking for that individual you will love forever. Not just for the week. You want not only physic attraction at this point but a real connection.

OP, her priorities do change. It went from 1. fun 2. stability --> 1. stability 2. fun. This can be due to a combination of reasons, alpha fucks don't want her anymore, declining SMV, biological clock (pregnancy), meaningless sex not as enjoyable after the 100th cock, etc.

It isn't your wallets or your stability it is genuine attraction and want.

Hamster level just went over 9000.

The bad boys get the girl for a minute but guys that are good that are kind gentle responsible loving? They get them for life.

/u/Cyralea makes a good analogy with "The same way that someone who buys a 10 year old car on Craigslist keeps it for life. Real draw." Who the hell wants to own a beat up rental car that everyone has ridden in over a brand new car? People who can't afford a new or low mileage car.

PlusGoody · 2014-05-09T23:44:38+00:00

There is no magic solution that can make you a happy beta. Obtain status, and abjure behavior that obscure your status. Let low quality women do what they want; they don't exist in your world.

AuctionSniper · 2014-05-09T21:34:47+00:00

Since when does being a bad boy mean you're an alpha?

sdfio230 · 2014-05-09T21:24:36+00:00

That woman herself is redpilled, she just doesn't know it.

Goupidan · 2014-05-10T21:01:53+00:00

Do guys do it as she claims guys do?

And if so, is it more morally acceptable for guys to sleep around?

2014-05-10T03:32:51+00:00

You can't expect a woman to see her behavior as toxic. Its like asking a fish how it breathes under water. It just does.

They call it growing up, and they're only growing up because they're getting older. Ask them, if they were forever young, would they stop chasing hot ass? Fuck no. Cuz being forever young is like being a guy.

I'm not even sorry anymore. I deserve every last piece of ass I get. And if a woman whom I am married to, doesn't see beyond her own nose, doesn't see that I'm giving up everything for her, then fuck it. I don't need her.

The way to controlling women, is to tell them, you don't need them. [Don't be a fucking moron and tell them that in my exact words, you simpletons.]

mighty_mogomra · 2014-05-09T18:01:16+00:00

Sent him a PM about the RP. Time will only tell if he takes my advice or not. (Could have been trolling for all I know.)

They don't call me Mighty Mogomra for nothing.

BrassBody · 2014-05-09T20:12:47+00:00

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Title	When a woman gets older, she doesn't settle! She just, uh... changes her priorities! Yeah, that's it.
Author	needsomehelp3211
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Date	May 9, 2014 3:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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