While drunk, my old oneitis basically admitted she misses when I was her little beta bitch.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-02-22T15:19:41+00:00

So what are you doing about it?

What are you doing to ensure that you aren't just giving away your time and attention, rewarding failure, and accepting sub par performance from those around you?

Are you willing to embrace your masculine nature and accept that you are walking this path alone and that you need to find comfort in the discomfort of looking at the world through the Red Lens?

Cool, this girl confirmed your suspicions that TRP was legit (like we needed another example) but I get it, you wanted a story about you. Now you have it, you have a post that secures your belief that women are women and men are men.

You have an opportunity here to use that knowledge for your personal gain.

Now, you can use this pain as an anchor which leads to depression and suicide (repressed masculinity)

OR

You can use it as Fuel for growth and personal advancement (Expressing your masculinity).

You choose, weak or strong?

Just remember, there's no reason to be mad at women for being women. Be mad at yourself for being weaksauce for so long

MelodyMyst · 2016-02-22T15:45:30+00:00

She is not your OLD oneitis if you are still talking to her, then posting what she said here. She is still in your head and that is very bad.

Next her, stop talking to her(no benefit to you) and move on.

MyLittleAtomBomb · 2016-02-22T15:52:28+00:00

Yeah. I had the same.

I found trp and did a month long monk.

She asked me my opinion on this guy and my response was basically "fuck off I'm busy".

She's like..."no, do the pro and con thing you normally do"

"I said busy"

Conversation immediately switched to her taking an interest in me.

AWalt Disney

sir_wankalot_here · 2016-02-22T15:16:05+00:00

It's funny how women sometimes slip up.

And she says "ya hahaha like my slave."

Better to learn the facts early in life.

Stythe · 2016-02-22T15:33:30+00:00

If I'm gonna be honest here, the women I knew had been telling me these things for years and I was just too ignorant to listen and see it for what it was. As soon as I manned up most if the women I knee dissappeared from my life, got more distant, or started trying to get closer.

On a similar note, my ex emailed me recently telling me how she missed how sweet I was, still using the same examples of a few nice things I did. Apparently she doesn't remember the contact fighting, screaming, anger, drugs abuse and general shit the relationship was. Go figure.

finitely_eclectic · 2016-02-22T16:56:46+00:00

Something to remember that my grandmother taught me years ago:

Drunken words are sober thoughts.

Something to keep in mind.

Suravira · 2016-02-22T16:06:53+00:00

I don't agree with everything this sub says

The biggest part of the blue pill is not understanding the difference between a group and an individual.

phibetared · 2016-02-22T16:51:14+00:00

Maybe it's just me, but my response to her would be something like:

"Tell you what, since you miss me so much, you come over here Friday night and you will be my slave for the evening. Be here at 10pm and wear something I'll like".

What do you have to lose? You can play it off like it's a joke, if you wish. But maybe she'll show up. Be ready to be in control and have her do whatever you want if she does.

verify_account · 2016-02-22T15:48:15+00:00

she'd send me a few revealing pics here and there to keep me obsessed, always making me feel like maybe there was a chance we'd end up together.

Sweet baby jesus in a car-seat, women are fucking good at manipulation.

Edit: Hit the gym hard today fatty. No excuse for being fat. Also remember women hate skinny dudes too. You have to be ripped.

LCSullaF · 2016-02-22T16:05:26+00:00

I'm sorry but did I miss something? In this rant, you never mentioned whether or not you actually told her that you wanted to get intimate/have sex. Did you ever make a move?

0kool74 · 2016-02-22T16:19:14+00:00

It hurt a little bit to realize I was never anything more than her little fat beta bitch who gave her an unlimited supply of attention and validation and all she had to do was send a few pictures here and there.

yea it usually sucks choad when you're on the outside looking in and realize how you USED to be.

PedroIsWatching · 2016-02-22T18:16:24+00:00

You're definitely right about a lot

Meanwhile, on SRS

TurduckenII · 2016-02-22T15:26:41+00:00

Hey, you don't have to agree with everything you see here. A lot of this sub has an incoherent message to it. It's like you're trying to learn how to be a doctor by going to a conference for doctors, and they also let in naturopaths and chiropractors too. Meanwhile, the sidebar tools are good "medical schools" for getting straightforward theory behind what we say.

Anyway, I'd like to ask you a few questions. A good friendship is mutual, where people enjoy each other's company and help each other out when they can. When was the last time she did anything for you? Some titillating pictures that she sent you seem like they're only there to keep her supply of validation on the line and in place. If they were truly meant to promise sex or a deeper relationship, wouldn't it escalate? It shouldn't take that long. Women choose who they want to bang and then escalate very quickly if the guy knows what he's doing and doesn't fuck it up.

What has this friendship with her done for you? Do you feel better about yourself? Do you think she's really cool? Does she listen to indie music and watch old movies, with lots of witty comments? Is she a manic pixie dream girl?

How many other girls are there who would be nicer to you? Do you think you have a "thing" for unavailable women or that this is a phase?

I'd recommend not talking with her and talking to different women instead. How does that make you feel?

chrisindub · 2016-02-22T17:51:07+00:00

She hit you up drunk and your response was to express resentment?

I asked "oh like your personal slave?"

Has it occurred to you that this is why women aren't attracted to you.

You don't even pretend that you have value. You openly admit you are easily manipulated.

Honestly use every interaction as a learning opportunity. You already know you were being used. Why further display your lack of self esteem? You should have given her something to work with.

You should have said, "I'm sorry but I just can't see you anymore. The conversation was OK, but our sex life was terrible."

Shown her you don't care, display your goals in a joking manner that she can work with.

Allow her the opportunity to say, "What sex life?"

So you can say, "Exactly." lol.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-02-22T15:39:18+00:00

Just remember this is in no way reflective of who you are. She treats you this way because you allowed it. You held no frame, showed no alpha. She's not looking down on you, this is simply the "role" she attributed for her. Soft next.

twatbutter · 2016-02-22T17:20:58+00:00

I noticed that most feminists or overprivileged women who know about RP basically drop their BP act once they know what you believe in. They know they cannot cajole you with the same tricks/manipulations, so they just drop it and look for other prey entirely.

paceyboy · 2016-02-22T18:13:07+00:00

Same thing happened to me the other night. Old plate who I had embarassing onenitus with for 3 months, (pre-trp), confessed she never liked me, was bored and needed someone to sleep with while she was getting over someone. Old me would have crumbled inside or got rude which would have provided her ammunition, but I just added a quick, "I know.", deuced and ended contact. Her hamster spun like mad followed by random "fuck you blah blah" texts @3am for the following two nights. Never responded, walked away feeling awesome. AWALT.

EnlightenedViking · 2016-02-22T18:27:27+00:00

My new motto is something like this:

Unless she is trying to put herself in position to get fucked by me. She''ll use minimal effort to extract something else from me. Time, validation, $$$.

carnold03 · 2016-02-22T19:18:13+00:00

Put in the time to navigate your phone and find the call/text block function. Time is without question the most valuable thing you will have in life. Make the most of your brief life and do a better effort to keep time wasting attention whores out of it.

pcadrian · 2016-02-22T19:29:18+00:00

she misses when I talked to her all day, and she wants me to be there to listen to her problems, and she misses when id compliment her, and she wants me to be around whenever she needs me

When women lose their beta emotional cushion, it's a serious thing. Good for you for getting out of that "relationship" mate.

RedPillDan · 2016-02-22T19:46:36+00:00

Brother, now that you've heard the truth right from the source, you can confidently stop wasting your time without regret. You know how she is. You know how they all are. You've seen it first hand.

All of us have stumbled and hit speed bumps along the way. It's how we ended up here. It's okay that it happens but don't dwell. Move on. Now that you know the rules of the game, you can start winning. Once you start winning the game becomes fun.

It takes time brother. You will be alright.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-02-22T16:32:54+00:00

So you are saying a girl misses being a pampered princess? Welcome to real life. All women feel like this. At least she is able to openly talk about it, as if she is willing to set aside the past. She needs to be aware that there is a balance between reality and being a princess. Self indulgence is ok, as long as it is moderate and well within your constrains.

Sdom1 · 2016-02-22T16:41:19+00:00

You should have just said, "Yeah, but what do I get out of it? You're not that great of a conversationalist, so you'd have to fuck me to be worth my time."

It's harsh, yet indisputably true and pithy to boot.

Verlier · 2016-02-22T17:53:22+00:00

Let our cocks clash head on and united yell at the top of our lungs, AMEN, ALELUYA.

Our brother has awoken, thank our Dark Lord.

max_peenor · 2016-02-22T18:40:14+00:00

To get your certificate of graduation for swallowing the pill, I truly believe the final test is that you can delete toxic people from your life. Mastery is the ability to ignore them when they keep clawing at you.

Small and relevant story. Almost two decades ago, I deliberately orbited this HB9 for the explicit purpose of shaking off a couple stalkers. Truly beautiful and capable women are the last line of defense against lunatic alpha widows and otherwise unhinged nutbars. No, I did not bang this gal, but she was sufficiently entertaining to be around and she did cure my problem like a champ. It lasted about a year and when it seemed all clear, I just stopped talking to her. This was two decades ago. She still tries to get my attention about every thee months. TWO DECADES AGO. Wtf. And I have been ignoring her the entire time.

anonymousapple111 · 2016-02-22T18:42:41+00:00

What I would do is tell her that my girlfriend gets mad when she sees her messages and I can't let that happen. On the surface, it seems like beta behavior but you're comparing her to your girlfriend and tossing her away because she doesn't measure up which triggers her feelings of inadequacy.

Sour_J · 2016-02-22T17:55:12+00:00

Make a move the next time you see her. Quit being a little bitch. If she turns you down, she was using you anyway. Then you can cut her off

Sir_Distic · 2016-02-22T20:43:08+00:00

I say "I'm sorry." in a sarcastic way. That was a mistake.

She heard "I'm sorry" and fondly remembered the old you.

Next time you talk to her flip the script. "I'm not your little slave anymore. If anything I'd made you my slave." etc.

Noble_Sovereignty · 2016-02-22T21:18:47+00:00

It's a shit test. Do NOT revert.

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-02-22T21:21:35+00:00

and she wants me to be there to listen to her problems

You can either be the guy whose shoulder she puts her head on to cry or the guy whose lap she puts her head in to suck off. Be the latter. Let some other chump be a shoulder.

masnera · 2016-02-22T21:31:45+00:00

It hurt a little bit to realize I was never anything more than her little fat beta bitch

she's not responsible for you being a "fat beta bitch"...after this rant...you know now what to do, that's if..you have read the side bar.

Weedwin31 · 2016-02-22T22:58:17+00:00

Something good about the red pill, is that u get to know how bizarre and beautiful things are in the real game, the media shows you something that is not there, so when u crash with the wall of reality like this, thats when the red pill makes clicks, sometimes i just want to be sharing this knowledge with everybody like mormon missionaries but people need to experience things like this to know what is this ideology about

RichieFinn · 2016-02-22T23:49:43+00:00

Another thing this shit will drill into your head is that females dont give a shit, neither about you or other females no matter how close they claim they are.

Do you not think if her female friends actually pretended they gave a shit like hardcore betas do then she would just text/call those up and talk it out with them, she knows they dont.

ArkAngelEV · 2016-02-22T16:21:55+00:00

"It's just weird. I don't agree with everything this sub says, but you're definitely right about a lot."

It's right about a great many things. Read the side bar you fat fuck and learn

AndrewWaynePost · 2016-02-22T19:35:33+00:00

Chuckles*

It is good that you have figured this out, but I am going to advise you to do something, if you have not done it already.

Sever all ties with your mother. She will do nothing but prevent you from moving forward with your life. As long as you have a woman in your life you maybe kind of respect (like your mother), you will never be able to see what women are at the core.

Every man who loses the game with women has a relationship with his mother. I am not saying all men should cut ties. Some men have mothers who know their place in the world, and give them a good example for which they aim for. A couple of my friends have mothers just like that. But according to what you have mentioned right here, your mother is NOT that kind of mother.

Accept her for what she is, a stupid, self-centered whore who gave you the worst sack of shit cards to start life with.

Now, I know what you may be wondering. "What the fuck does my mother have anything to do with my case of oneitis." Everything. Literally everything. This may be one of those "I do not agree with everything this sub says" moments, but trust me on this. The best thing I ever did was finally see my mother for what she is, and move on with my life. I have not had one ounce of regret since that moment.

NPK5667 · 2016-02-22T20:23:05+00:00

Just stop talking to her. I have a feeling youre going to fuck up and lose any ground gained if you continue to talk to her.

Zachar1a · 2016-02-22T17:47:11+00:00

She then goes on to say in a "joking way" that she misses when I talked to her all day, and she wants me to be there to listen to her problems, and she misses when id compliment her, and she wants me to be around whenever she needs me.

At that point you should have said, "Yeah, I miss how we used to fuck all night long, and how in the morning you couldn't walk straight, and my dick would be sore." And then hang up on her. Maybe it would have clicked for her after that.

notevenatthestart · 2016-02-22T15:25:25+00:00

I just needed to vent and talk to some dudes about this.

I definitely appreciate the need to vent, but I'm not sure this is adding all that much value to the sub.

There isn't really anything there to discuss and it doesn't add anything to our understanding. All in all, it's just a common confirmation that girls actively encourage guys to orbit. We all know that and we all have a thousand examples of it.

I know it's hard not to crow "BUT IT ALL MAKES SO MUCH SENSE" after the world starts to swim into focus for the first time through the lens of the Red Pill, but you're a bit like a man who has just read a birdwatching book and is now shouting at the top of his lungs about having spotted a pigeon.

My advice would be to keep it to yourself in a private journal if you find recording your thoughts is helpful, or post it to asktrp if you're after advice and feedback.

Beyond that, read the sidebar and hit the gym. We've all still got a way to go.

Title	While drunk, my old oneitis basically admitted she misses when I was her little beta bitch.
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Date	February 22, 2016 3:13 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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