Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will Too

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-09-11T08:38:38+00:00

While this post is outside our normal focus as outlined in rule 5 and rule 9, I'm authorizing it as it's important info for any young man to be able to guard himself.

KidPowered17 · 2021-09-11T06:55:17+00:00

Very insightful. The only thing I’d like to add, is to watch out for the women that are in their early to mid 30s as well, even if they don’t have children already. They know their window is closing, so they can be desperate and conniving. They will act as if you are soulmates, and try to rush you along to the altar or into fatherhood.

yoman076 · 2021-09-11T06:15:33+00:00

Nice stuff. Its not really a stretch to say this is pretty accurate but you got one thing wrong. This behaviour is not reserved to single moms. Its shared by every manipulative, conniving, characterless and incompetent woman out there. (Not all women obvio thats why i mentioned these traits. But the percentage of these women is growing).

If you want to marry someone, date them for 2 or 3 years atleast. You have to be through every situation good and bad. Its easy to act for 6 months to get the wedding. Not so much to do it for 3 years especially if you have a good BS and red flag detector.

ArchDemonKerensky · 2021-09-11T07:32:46+00:00

Supply your own condoms, keep them under your control at all times. As fun as it is for her to put it on you during foreplay, it just gives her a chance to damage it.

AlinYBN1 · 2021-09-11T07:18:33+00:00

For me, a single mother is an immediate deal-breaker no matter the circumstances (excepting widows maybe if they're still attractive and feminine, confrontational attitude puts me off instantly, be it a 10, a single mom or no).

However, your exposition is incredibly insightful and i learned a few things from it, so thank you.

_Shinjitsu_ · 2021-09-11T08:52:56+00:00

Even simpler: avoid single moms.

evil-doraemon · 2021-09-11T08:39:55+00:00

Red flags: anything that comes with legal responsibility.

Dating should be like camping. When you leave, it should be like you were never there.

Divine-Nemesis · 2021-09-11T09:56:31+00:00

TLDR: Fuck That, Read It!

Well spoken and 💯. I’ve had that knee thing to the chest happen a multiple number of times. Lol, my weapon was I’m infertile. Thank God for the drugs or whatever because I had a couple girls do the knee to the head thing. This is why I came up with the 4-6 month rule in dating because that is when the mask comes off with any girl. That whole The NFL and Video games that she was into at first, she will show you that was not the case is done by women in general. That’s what gave me the equivalent of tingles when I was young and dating is finding someone with similar interests. Someone that wasn’t gonna bitch at me for doing what I love and still be in a relationship? Sign me up. After about 3 months, she (the particular ex in this story) grew tired of the video games and music (I was a Dj in Vinyl days). She started yelling at me, in my own apartment, to turn down the music and actually would break my vinyl and even attack me physically when she got angry (the fun drunk changed to a violent drunk). I always wondered why after Crazy sex, she would hug her knees. We were young and on drugs and I just thought that was just her post orgasm thing (she hug her knees rocking and teeth chattering at the same time). After a night of Djing a friends house party after 8 months, the true person came out after a lot of drinks. Let’s just say I had to show up at my friends wedding rehearsal the next with my face practically in stitches. I was taught never to lay a hand on women but this woman made me get as physical as I ever got at a woman. After That night of being beaten by this woman I had taken into My Nice Apartment right across the street where the Cowboys played, hell one was my neighbor, and the cops came and everything, she still woke up screaming and abusive. She walked out cussing and hitting me outside on a Sunday as every neighbor watched. I picked that bitch up with one arm by her shoulder and threw her 5 feet back inside my apartment on the ground and said “you’ve now brought our personal issues to all my neighbors. Get your shit and go now”. She saw my eyes and knew that was the last gentle step I was going to take. She tried to claim abuse but I had All the scars, the police came the night before and saw the scars and fresh blood on Me, and now that my neighbors saw, her words were invalid. Even with that all happening being MY place that I paid for and let her live, the cops almost took me to jail but the dumb drunk bitch opened her mouth and started jumping on my new car and they realized I was completely sober. I later found out she went through a traumatic marriage and she is barren, that was my blessing! I still see her from time to time because she gets green from my best friend. One day my Godson found out she was my ex. He looked up at me and said, “Wow, she’s really broken. I’m glad you didn’t end up with her”. Lol, even my 15 year old Godson was way ahead of me when I was 25 (I’m 43 now). This read hits too close to home for All men. Single mother’s tried to pull that knee thing on me later and I would laugh and play ignorant. I am 💯 MGTOW today but I am enjoying seeing the younger generations wake up. Sorry for sporadic quotation marks. Writing this made me relive it. Be safe out there guys!!

Edit: the TLDR was from OP’s post, not saying read mine.

Griever114 · 2021-09-11T09:59:41+00:00

While this is all so true, I can summarize all of this into one point:

If she is a single mother, THERE IS A REASON FOR THAT. If two people are willing to have sex, the possibility of pregnancy is statistically ALWAYS present. That means she is either: 100% shit at spotting a good partner or she is the problem.

_FatFist_ · 2021-09-11T07:14:25+00:00

I don't date them or bareback if they're 'on the pill'. There's better methods and they chose the easiest to forget and get pregnant one.

houseforever · 2021-09-11T07:39:14+00:00

Pro-tip: Don't into single mon.

Miggymoggy · 2021-09-11T11:45:58+00:00

All men are outright brainwashed from birth, through school, college, university, the workplace, movies, tv shows and everywhere else that single mothers are the real strong heroes that are the backbone in society and a man would be lucky to be with a single mother.

All young males should be told that single mothers are to be completely avoided regardless of their circumstances as all men deserve better than settling for the dregs of society.

EmceeHammer1 · 2021-09-11T12:43:54+00:00

My ex totally tried to get pregnant without me realizing. I was really naive at the time. She wasn't a single mom but she did almost everything on this list. She was also really manipulative when I'd ask her basic questions like "are you still taking your birth control?" she'd say "How come you don't trust me?!?" She'd guilt trip me hard and it was only after we broke up I realized I had every right not to trust her. She started dating this other guy immediately after me and was pregnant roughly a month after we broke up. Dodged a major bullet.

Aurelian1960 · 2021-09-11T09:22:34+00:00

Don't let your dick make you abandon your brain. What are you doing fucking with a single mother anyway?

melonmagellan · 2021-09-11T16:53:20+00:00

From the perspective of a 30-something, CF, married woman...

Being a stepmother was literally the most thankless, hellish job of my life. I'm glad I escaped with my sanity.

The ex-wife is likely fatter, older, less successful, and less attractive than you. She will hate you for this and make every effort to turn her unwanted brat(s) against you. I'm CF and for some reason she felt she was depriving me with a bond with her precious daughter by slandering me🙄

It will be very difficult for her to understand that you don't give a shit about her child and it's not a prize. It is an unwanted burden on its father and society. She will too stupid to understand this and/or too delusional to admit it. Even after her baby-trapping attempt failed for exactly this reason. NEVER assume they aren't baby trapping you. They are.

My husband, much later, came across ovulation test kits in her office when she claimed to have been taking BC.

Money will be going out of your bank account and into hers every month. In our case, sickeningly, it was for a child my husband did not consent to have. The lazier and stupider she is the more infuriating this will be. Because our household income was literally 8x higher than hers, child support was insane.

The kid, in my case, looked identical to her mother. So it was like I had to see her mother's smug, greasy face even when I managed to avoid her totally. It was inevitable that this unwashed little monster would be quizzed by her slob mother for literally hours per week about myself and my home. It's like have your life infiltrated by a gaggle of human-shaped societal burdens.

The court will not give a shit no matter what "mom" does to the fucking kid even if it constitutes felony neglect. So good luck cutting her out entirely. That and her life is so empty she will stalk you anyway. Invariably she will be too dimwitted to understand how fucking pathetic she looks. These women have no shame.

No matter how well you parent this child you can't stand, its mother promptly fucks up all your hard work. Why eat a home cooked dinner when you can eat boxed mac & cheese? Why go to school when you can stay home, sit on your ass, and watch TV with your mother? You know, training for your future life as a pregnant high school dropout.

No one will ever marry this woman so her attention will never be diverted to her life vs yours. She has no life but smothering her bastard child with attention it doesn't deserve, in the most unhealthy way possible, and stalking you. She will never just go the fuck away.

It is 99% likely that every time you see her face you will find it highly upsetting. That part only got worse for me over time.

Edit: Also, this busted mess will NEVER leave you alone. I had to change my phone number FOUR fucking times and she still tries to contact me.

For the record, men can be equally awful. One of the reasons I'm CF if that I would never shackle myself to a man for the rest of my natural life. It's insane.

TLDR; Do not date single parents. Remember that all single mothers are out to baby trap you. If you are CF, wear a condom and get a vasectomy. Do not cohabitate with single mothers. Even "acting in a fatherly role" can fuck up your life totally. Avoid these women like a literal plague. They will ruin your life.

Also remember, these women resent these children far more than they love them and will ALWAYS be willing to make them suffer for their personal gain. They will also ruthlessly try to ruin any new romantic relationship you may have.

After all, why should another woman have your wallet?

TheSilverShade · 2021-09-11T18:04:01+00:00

Can't wait to see how the people from MGTOWBan and againstHateSubreddits, hamster spin their way to explain how a bunch of guys, who don't want to raise another man's child or get baby trapped are mysogynist incels...

PS2Errol · 2021-09-11T10:51:16+00:00

ALWAYS use protection. Never believe them if they say they 'Can't have children' for a medical reason or if they say they are on the pill. ALWAYS use a condom. Or get the snip.

AngryCockOfJustice · 2021-09-11T09:14:53+00:00

This should be taught in schools in social studies/civics class.

Skittil · 2021-09-11T09:10:24+00:00

Some solid advice OP, be careful out there men.

Katowice_to_gdansk · 2021-09-11T19:40:11+00:00

Lol my best friend dated a girl back in 2018 who was a complete and utter slag. He only dated her for a few months before he was telling me 'shes the one' and that they were going to start renting a place together, making a shared bank account, having a kid etc. i couldn't help but laugh at him. He had no idea he was being bamboozled. Then all of that came crashing down when he found out she had cheated on him with her ex when she was out of town for a funeral in her home town 2 hours away.

I feel bad for whoever that bitch is dating today

Original_Dankster · 2021-09-11T11:55:28+00:00

Get a vasectomy.

If you think you'll want kids eventually, hire a fertility clinic to freeze your own sperm beforehand.

alldaycray · 2021-09-11T15:57:42+00:00

Haha well I've gotten pretty good at knowing when people are being fake. I mean it gets pretty obvious when people try to pretend they share the same interests as you.

peguy2000 · 2021-09-11T16:54:29+00:00

He just described most women lol. All women i had dated were narcs. This is cluster b personality disorder behaviour

Google “3 stages with a narcissts“ and everything will click

Roblox838 · 2021-09-11T17:06:18+00:00

I don't know wtf the "knees to the shoulders" technique is, can any of you explain?

leopmarques · 2021-09-11T10:01:46+00:00

Thanks man. I was afraid to lost that comment and never read It again.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-09-11T13:09:21+00:00

And this gents is why you never ever date a single mother.

TheSilverShade · 2021-09-11T16:05:19+00:00

Nice points !

And I knew your name seemed familiar. Glad to see you here man.

DoDo_01 · 2021-09-11T19:03:18+00:00

Remember gentlemen: the only valid contraception method is the one you use.

ChosenUndead92 · 2021-09-11T11:45:44+00:00

Ah yes, happy to see this comment as a stand alone post so more people can be aware!

Itburns12345 · 2021-09-11T13:25:44+00:00

This should be stickied and possibly taught in schools!

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-09-11T13:41:33+00:00

Thanks for the advice, feels good to have the knowledge to filter this kind of stuff, though I will never approach a single mom even for sex.

vizualdesperado88 · 2021-09-11T13:54:28+00:00

jokes on her, i have a vasectomy. She would waste a lot of years trying to trap me

PopularBug5 · 2021-09-12T06:14:11+00:00

How to know she is daddy-baiting you? She plays house with you - stays in your house or you in hers, fornicates with you, relegates you to responsibilities regarding taking care of her kids.

How to prevent getting daddy-baited? Don't fornicate with single moms.

GundamZero83 · 2021-09-11T13:03:58+00:00

Great write up.

Walkofroses06 · 2021-09-11T14:57:55+00:00

🤣🤣😂😂

Ok-Ad-3579 · 2021-09-12T12:58:43+00:00

Love that tldr

places0 · 2021-09-12T22:22:08+00:00

When his TL;DR said fuck that read it, i knew the man was writing scriptures.

Stahlboden · 2021-09-13T15:16:04+00:00

A man can ruin a life of a woman, but a woman can and may ruin a life of a man entirely legally. Sad but true.

Harry_Teak · 2021-09-11T21:06:25+00:00

Hell, I thought this was going to be about chicks with daddy issues. I like chicks with daddy issues.

Grand_Influence_177 · 2021-09-15T04:26:20+00:00

Don't take your guard down when you are dealing with a widow. Married men suicide rate is sky high in every country. Chances are that's how she became a widow. You don't wanna end up with something so sinister that drive people to suicide. Don't play with fire if you don't want to get burned.

AlmostTomcruisee · 2021-09-14T12:21:56+00:00

This shouldn’t even be a problem for most men that respect themselves not to get involved with a single mother in the first place

LateralThinker13 · 2021-09-14T16:21:31+00:00

Jayzus. There's a reason RP-aware forums all scream, "DON'T DATE SINGLE MOTHERS." Doesn't help with the first-timers trying to get pregnant, but...wow.

principledbeast1 · 2021-09-17T13:25:09+00:00

This is literally a playbook of how my ex-wife suckered me. Should add in Damseling behavior as well. They love to project weakness to pull Captain save-a-hos in. Could be an "abusive" ex-boyfriend, or a job where she isn't treated well. I was so stupid.

Hunk_Maggot · 2021-09-14T21:16:04+00:00

Pure knowledge, thanks for sharing your experiences.

randomroxks · 2021-09-19T15:08:59+00:00

Yes, I got daddy baited

EasternToe3824 · 2021-10-01T20:36:13+00:00

If you do not trust the woman, wrap it or do not have sex with her at all. If you can not trust her on birth control habits, why do you trust on her promise of exclusivity? Primary STI risk. If she wants to get pregnant by you, she will also lie if she already has an STI. Secondary STI risk. If you need to control her, something is wrong already. It is a wasted effort.

Building attraction and intimacy slowly counteracts most hysteric bonding strategies and is not only healthy but also allows for a good screening process.

Title	Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will Too
Author	OwenWentFullMGTOW
Upvotes	556
Comments	171
Date	September 11, 2021 5:24 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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