It was college so it doesn't count

rellik13xx · 2020-04-04T18:17:37+00:00

Poor guy. He chose to marry the college slut.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-04-04T18:18:51+00:00

He'S jUsT iNsEcUrE! It DoEsN't MaTtER hOw MaNy PeOpLe YoU fUcK.

It never matters until it suddenly matters. I really hope he left to get his affairs in order so he can clean break from her.

Honest_Solution · 2020-04-04T18:27:36+00:00

I approach ALL women these days of them having a slutty past. Could have ended as recently as last week. Could be sluttier than I even could imagine. But I always look at them as they are hiding something because they are. All of them. Having this mindset will save you from going crazy and from doing something stupid like doing favors for them or marrying them.

Sake99 · 2020-04-04T18:53:27+00:00

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SoakMyBigCork · 2020-04-04T18:27:46+00:00

This is the shit right here young school girls need to read and burn into their brains. Choose your path very wisely if you want to be marriage material. Or, slut it up end up like this woman.

Ignat_Voronkov · 2020-04-04T19:08:05+00:00

Who wants to bet she was like I do not Do X on the first date and made him wait months, and was totally not into it and he had to initiate every thing.

Overkillengine · 2020-04-04T19:27:12+00:00

The real reason she won't describe how great he is? He is just the pay-pig she had lined up to support her after years of getting reamed out by the hawtest most degenerate men that she could find.

And she knows that talking too much about how great he is in detail would betray that fact. She has already had an issue with truth getting out and it affecting her negatively. So she glosses over it.

She's just sad that her future meal ticket is slipping out of the slaughter chute instead of dumbly chewing his cud like she had hoped.

RedLetterWord · 2020-04-04T19:06:49+00:00

... maybe I shoulda been more honest?

You think?

PlainTundra · 2020-04-04T19:31:16+00:00

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esepablo · 2020-04-04T19:47:19+00:00

i WaS iN coLLeGe.

i fUcKiNG HaTE my SiSTerS Bf rIghT nOw

why cant woman take responsibilty for their actions. always finding a way to blame it on something else.

Cavannah · 2020-04-04T18:40:17+00:00

Look at this ex post facto rationalization:

"I feel like garbage, I will blame everyone and everything except for myself for the consequences of my actions"

Spiderthing69 · 2020-04-04T19:24:12+00:00

this will be another bitter bitch writing in FDS in the future. "I'm high value"

Bugatti_Stacks · 2020-04-04T19:47:23+00:00

Any sane and logical person could never, ever remove the thought of your girl getting 'gangbanged'. Ever. This will eat you everytime a sexual thought or urge comes in your mind. Imagine when they're having sex?! All he could think about is how nasty this woman was!

Hell no! Dodge the bullet, jump ship or whatever the hell you need to do. Just get the fuck out!

Also, she's friends with those who did this to her? Who cares?! She was gangbanged!! That's all that matters!

silly_birb · 2020-04-04T19:57:08+00:00

Notice that she feels guilty of "not being honest about her past", not about "her past actions".

Ofc, first thing to blame is her sister bf for being honest...

SevehnSyth · 2020-04-04T18:39:10+00:00

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PlainTundra · 2020-04-04T18:46:29+00:00

"Biology-paternity and past don't matter, man up!"

MrMister2018 · 2020-04-04T19:12:54+00:00

'I can do whatever I want, and face no consequences'

DeakinFrost · 2020-04-04T22:18:33+00:00

Imagine those dudes scrolling through their social media feeds and coming up to her selfies with her fiance

Then imagine them tapping the buddy next to them on the shoulder and saying:

"yo dude, me, Chad, Tyrone, and Peter North gang banged the fuck out of her and now she's getting married...."

That's what he gets for putting a ring on it, thats what he bought

It's like saving up for your dream car to find out that between buying it and picking it up the car dealership floor staff spent an afternoon doing burnouts out the back in it, smoking weed in it, jizzed on it, then had the non-english speaking detailing staff cover it all up before picking it up, then smiling at you and waving goodbye as you drive out like a chump

Innovative_being · 2020-04-04T22:47:12+00:00

“With a lot of guys”

“Most of them I couldn’t even pick out of a lineup”

“Gang banged by 4 guys”

Shudders

I’m not even the fiancé and I’m feeling that horrible gross feeling in the pit of my stomach.

Absolutely abhorrent. She’s a cum dumpster, nothing more. Definitely not wife material, not LTR material either.

mimiczx · 2020-04-04T20:47:15+00:00

It was all a blur

That selective memory is strong with this one.

Westernhagen · 2020-04-04T20:51:46+00:00

College? Ha. She didn't start being "excessive" in college.

🎵 When I look back on all the cock I took in high school,

It's a wonder I can think at all,

And I know my sordid past won't hurt me none,

If my boyfriend can't read the writing on the wall 🎵

🎵 Mama don't take my carousel awayyyyyy.... 🎵

7even10en69 · 2020-04-04T20:51:53+00:00

Here's what I told my ex:

I can't love what I don't respect and how could I respect anyone who didn't respect themselves?

x6x6x61982 · 2020-04-04T21:39:01+00:00

If she doesn't know the actual number, then it's triple digits.

sootlord · 2020-04-04T21:59:52+00:00

This shit breaks my heart for him but this is how the dating climate is for men.

DeakinFrost · 2020-04-04T22:11:50+00:00

One second she can't remember who or how many, the next minute they're on her facebook friends list?

Four dudes at one time? That is filth. Also, what is with these dudes all willing to get their boners out and throw them in the same hole, its practically rubbing each others bell-ends together which used to be a rather homo-sexual act if I'm not mistaken?

ZealousMaths · 2020-04-04T19:59:41+00:00

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WereNotGonnaFakeIt · 2020-04-04T22:45:30+00:00

"Are you still in touch with any of them?" "Yeah sometimes they send me dick pics and I flirt with them a little"

Seagram7 · 2020-04-05T00:18:35+00:00

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rayedward363 · 2020-04-04T21:06:18+00:00

This hurt to read, damn. I mean maybe he would have been okay if she had been honest (big maybe), but then she instead kept it a secret to have it come out later on. "I'm in college" is not an excuse, and if he leaves then good for him. If she lied about that stuff, she's likely lying about other things.

Also, friends with all of them on facebook? Come on, even she has to know that's a red flag.

downwardlyspiraling · 2020-04-04T22:44:44+00:00

Dear women. We men live to fuck sluts. We do not love to date/marry/be friends with/or care about sluts or even former sluts.

Remember girls. If you want to have any chance if happiness don’t be a slut.

A good rule to follow is: if you want to be happy, lose your virginity to your husband.

houseoftolstoy · 2020-04-04T23:56:44+00:00

Just so everyone knows...idk the actual #

If you do not know the number of sex partners you had, then it is too high.

He told me details I'm not even sure are 100% true bc again...blur.

So she was having sex with men that she was either too drunk and/or high to remember the details, or she simply has had too many and too wild encounters for her to distinguish what actually happened. Either way, not a good reflection on her.

I fucking hate my sisters bf right now but maybe it's not even his fault, maybe I shoulda been more honest?

Some self awareness, hooray! Although she probably still thinks badly of that guy for simply revealing her deceit. Here's a pro life tip, if being honest about something is a cause for concern, you should not be doing or did any of the things you were lying about. That should be a sign that there is something wrong with doing what is shameful for you to do.

Being in college is not an excuse to be a slut, despite how college is portrayed to be a place where anything goes. While I personally draw the line at marriage in regards to sexual activity, I understand that the fiance and this woman are not of that mindset. However, she did not fully disclose how she was in the past, which was probably presented as "I only had sex in a relationship!" By their standards, she acted out of line with what is acceptable. If she truly believed that her actions were not wrong, she would not have lied about it. Also, had she been actually concerned with her future, she would not have acted as she did during her college days. Having to lie about your past and hoping that it is never revealed are the consequences for only "living in the moment."

NickTesla2018 · 2020-04-04T20:13:01+00:00

And still Facebook friends? Good grief.

ShakerAndMover · 2020-04-04T21:06:37+00:00

This isn't rocket science there's consequences for your actions shes thinks that if she went to "college" she can do whatever she wants? lmao, she should just get back on the carousel too late for her now. Play stupid games get stupid prizes. The stupidity of this airhead is off the charts she went to college to do all those things on purpose and she probably majored in gender studies with no intention of getting a job afterwards, looks like she got exactly what she ordered.

LS_CS · 2020-04-05T02:20:39+00:00

Guys, always remember:

Don't let her trick you with some bullshit excuse like "but it was college!" If she says it was "a blur" then she was riding the carousel at 200mph, they were cumming and going as fast as they could move. They were sprinting in and out of her Batcave faster than Batman seeing the Batsignal.

Women, always remember:

Just as you probably won't be happy having a boyfriend with a crazy high body count, neither are men. Most people, men included, are rather vanilla and have their desires in check. If your SO had a gangbang where it was 4+ women jumping off the turnbuckle and doing back flip Stone Cold Stunners on his dick, you'd be upset to and wouldn't be interested.

palika138 · 2020-04-04T22:39:33+00:00

doesnt know how many guys she fucked, hmmm🤔she most likely reached Triple digits already in college. And the sad thing is that most woman are Like this.

Sake99 · 2020-04-04T19:36:44+00:00

She says, she was calling cops. Poor guy, getting slapped with a false rape accusation.

xfallenxwolfx · 2020-04-05T03:10:25+00:00

It baffles me how women expect us, men, to not judge them based on their slutty past.

Seagram7 · 2020-04-05T07:53:55+00:00

This is what bothers me the most about women like her. She damn well knows what she did was dead wrong. But rather than exercise some kind of judgement and impulse control and NOT DO a gang bang in the first place, she would rather go ahead and do something so slutty. That's what bothers me, they know that what they do is wrong but go ahead and do it anyway. Any normal guy would be repulsed by it and they know it. So it's easier to go ahead and do a gang bang and LIE about it rather than putting a leash on their tingles and not do that in the first place.

That's what blows my mind, all that being a slut is cool feminism crap is wrong and deep down in the recess of their brain, they really knew that. All that crap they have spoon fed us they deep down know it's wrong and it goes against our very basic biological instincts. That guys basically don't want to give their commitment, resources, and protection to the village bicycle and I have suspected for years that they know that too.

As much RP posts and theory I have read, this is the one big thing I could never understand, I just accept it: her vag tingles are everything to her. It's like that movie Eyes Wide Shut when the main guy's wife confessed in a drug induced haze that she saw two men in uniform in the lobby of a hotel and the desire to fuck them was so bad, that she was willing to destroy her marriage, her kid, everything just to fuck those two guys.

They would rather change the narrative then exercise impulse control and good judgement. That's why you see cuck porn, poly relationships being pushed out now and added to their "the past is the past" and I'm a different person now" narrative.

HikageBurner · 2020-04-04T23:28:02+00:00

Found the thread. Funny, cause it's locked.

"I told him a lot of stuff that I did. I happen to leave the worst part out. Does everyone’s husband/wife know every single partner they each had???"

Yes. I know everything and my GF knows everything. I have squeezed things out of her that she hasn't wanted to tell me, but it's nothing like this dumb hoe's bullshit. If you can't be honest, you don't deserve an honest partner.

Edit: The account is a throwaway, so I hope it's not a problem that I found the thread, mods. Archived it on removeddit.

It's incredible how much more most of reddit would be like r/watgm if not for feminist mods deleting highly rated comments that slut shame and tell it like it is. Maybe things will change, and an equalizing is in order.

redditthrow32 · 2020-04-04T22:09:06+00:00

I hope this is a wakeup call to women that if youre interested in shit like gang bangs, make sure your family and friends dont know, and how about not being a whore and doing it at all

She hates sisters bf for telling truths she wouldn't

RRFdev · 2020-04-05T01:37:28+00:00

My fiance is handsome as fuck and I know for a fact that he's been with several women.

Sluts love mansluts. No surprise here. Both of them are post-wall, both of them are trying to chameleon themselves as good, chaste individuals with a potential for maintaining a stable relationship now that they are past their prime, until...

The college slutting horror stories come. The gangbang experience comes. The evidence of emotional cheating comes.

It's like looking at yourself in the mirror, isn't it? A slut's first impulse is to find a manslut to marry, because a manslut is so much just like herself in his promiscuous ways. But the manslut sees the slut's slutty ways and is ashamed of her, and gets ashamed of himself too in the process, and he ends up ghosting her.

Cue "But but but but it's okay for men to sleep around!" complaint from sluts afterward.

Buchwild · 2020-04-05T07:53:08+00:00

I just saw this post, the comments from women are completely insane. So many people confused why a guy would be put off by a gangbang and why as long as everyone consents it's ok.

AbsoluteMercenary · 2020-04-04T21:28:58+00:00

All these whores lie by omission, and then claim that it is okay because "it was college" and "everyone else was doing it". Bah! They made their own decisions and now they will and should face the consequences. Reminds me of this quote from Kingdom of Heaven,

https://youtu.be/GL0w0Vn4q1Q?t=80

kyledontcare · 2020-04-05T00:05:34+00:00

What're those things coming in the door? They're chickens! Are they coming home to roost here? What . . .??!!!! I'm accountable for my past???

Extra_Napkins · 2020-04-05T05:16:23+00:00

If she responds with “Why would you ask that?” It happened.

Good for this guy. He dodged a major bullet.

2020-04-04T21:01:03+00:00

If a woman goes to college, assume she's a whore.

Swim191 · 2020-04-04T20:23:27+00:00

The trade isnt worth it now days IMO

IfThenPill · 2020-04-04T23:03:14+00:00

Many times, women will tell men that, yes, they had some wild sex back in the day. But the sex wasn't all that good. Or they didn't like the sex. It wasn't who they really are, or they just didn't want that for their lives. No, you see, that sex doesn't matter at all, despite the fact that you're now finding out about it 10 years or so after the fact.

brohan556 · 2020-04-04T23:47:08+00:00

Yes skank it's the end and you deserve every night of crying you earned yourself. Hope they break up so he can find someone better

AoiNagisaSan · 2020-04-05T00:28:57+00:00

maybe I should’ve been more honest

Maybe you shouldn’t have engaged in degenerate behavior if you want to end up as someone’s wife.

Complicated_Peanuts · 2020-04-05T05:57:42+00:00

The true gangbang is in the comments of that post

king-of-the-light · 2020-04-05T07:37:48+00:00

Dude just realized he lost 2 years of his life

EternulReactionar · 2020-04-05T12:29:28+00:00

Men in college: "I need a part time or an internship"

Women in college:

SirKolbath · 2020-04-05T02:09:06+00:00

"My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"In a row?!"

Clerks, 1997

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-04-05T05:28:31+00:00

Thread locked by simp mod or some female which is expected.

Won't be surprised if thots and their simps writing how lucky he's to have her, how insecure he is, and how she's one in millions.

Safe to assume daddy paid for college and cheered for her freedom of choice from sidelines while she's getting fucked from all directions.

Again, safe to assume fiance is the paying party for her life expenses, and she's bringing next to nothing in equation except a used up body.

Her kids will be ashamed of her and I'm wishing somebody will tell her future kids about her past just for some drama

TheSecondComing97 · 2020-04-05T09:26:59+00:00

So what are men supposed to act like when women go to college they either just disappear and only reappear after it’s all over/everything they do doesn’t count because “I was in College” slut winky face.

Like negative fucking no. That shit happen and given what she’s said it legit sounds like this dude doesn’t care about the massive fuck fest she went on in college but her dishonesty and the fact that she got fucking gangbanged by 4 dudes and has them as friends on Facebook.

I mean fuck me. How in the right mind can she not see the issue here?

lethargic_apathy · 2020-04-05T12:10:30+00:00

Yeah, go ahead and call the cops. That way, more people know to be wary of your lies. But knowing how society is, she’ll omit that and make up some other reason like abuse and really mess things up. I mean, it’s not like they’d dismiss her claim right away like they do with men

Also, I hate the “I was in college” mindset. Everyone by that point is above 18. If you were some little kid who could barely understand the concept of economics or something and you messed up, sure, whatever. But you’re a legal adult now. That doesn’t excuse your inability to keep your legs closed. One of the many reasons I tell my friends—both male and female—to chill with the hookups is because the past will come to bite them back. I mean, getting knocked up at prom isn’t worth it to look “cool” cause you know what isn’t cool? Having a kid to feed without any money of your own to support it. That being said, I absolutely despise the fact that she, like many others, choose to play victim

She asks if she should’ve been honest as if it’s an incomprehensible thing to do. Stuff like this is why I’m wary of chicks that say to “accept their past.” For one, they might not even be honest. And secondly, they could most definitely still be in touch with them. But once you tell her that don’t feel comfortable with her talking to them, then suddenly it means that you’re showing patterns of an abusive partner in a relationship. Time and time again, I’ve seen people post stuff like that. And guess what? Your ass will get dumped and they’re flock over to their lover while they suck away half your assets. Ridiculous

SevenDeLeven · 2020-04-04T20:24:48+00:00

Look I don’t blame the guy for reacting the way he did at all. I feel he did the right thing.

But this isn’t exactly what I’d imagine as this subreddit is for, as she feels remorse.

Amazing short story stuff though

Sumfuc · 2020-04-05T04:15:31+00:00

The prettier the woman the bigger the whore.

rvail136 · 2020-04-05T05:41:45+00:00

The CC rideer stikes again. Hon, you shouldn't have been in a gangbang...

_Nequis_ · 2020-04-05T11:14:45+00:00

It's both kinda funny and pathetic at the same time her parroting of "I WAS IN COLLEGE!!11!!",as if she's just a victim of causality and found herself jumping on 4 dicks at once compelled by a major force.

Might use this excuse next time i'm at the bank,i mean I WAS AT THE BANK,how couldn't i just heist it?

Throw-The-O · 2020-04-05T12:47:59+00:00

To be friends with them on social media is the worst part. Knowing they know everything about her and what she’s done and him being oblivious to it all. Has to make him feel stupid as fuck.

TimeyWimey1467 · 2020-04-05T18:38:28+00:00

I think this relationship was doomed from the start. That guys seems pretty acceptable of sexual history but within limits

If she was honest about it in the early stages, he would have dumped her asap. She knows that.

Now that he is engaged, in a relationship and probably has developed feelings for her he probably (and stupidly) thought they could work it out. Otherwise, he wouldn't bother asking if she is still in touch and pretend to be fine for sun-tue.

But now that he knows she is fb friends with them, he better dump that trash.

TimeyWimey1467 · 2020-04-05T17:55:14+00:00

Atleast he got to know before he married her. I really hope he just dumps her asap and moves on with his life.

College slu, liar and dishonest. Also, manipulative. Putting the blame on him and her sister's bf.

WeAreLostSoAreYou · 2020-04-05T01:29:10+00:00

So nasty. Poor bastard. At least he got out.

tommygavin265 · 2020-04-05T01:40:03+00:00

Reminds me of the movie Old School...... Knock on door Hello Yeah? I’m here for the gang bang! Classic!!!!!

chalulin · 2020-04-05T02:54:27+00:00

This reminds me of a few characters from a show called "Dr. Quinn medicine woman." In the show the innocent telegraph operator fell head over heels over the local town prostitute. He never asked how high her body count was and would have shamed him if he ever dared bring that checkered past up.

Ancap_Free_Thinker · 2020-04-05T15:32:43+00:00

At least he was wise enough to nope out of there

Maui_Boy · 2020-04-05T19:13:59+00:00

What a whore

Peschkowskaja · 2020-04-07T15:52:43+00:00

I dont even mind, that she fucked a lot of guys. Im not an angel myself.

Had a lot of boyfriends and fucked them all? Okay, cool, you`re choice, as long as it is a low 2 digits number.

But gangbanged by 4 dudes? ANNDDDD still friends with all of them? What the fucking gross fucked up fuck? You dumb cunt

MauserFG42 · 2020-04-05T01:41:46+00:00

get fucked slut, you did then & you will now

Plasmaa76 · 2020-04-05T12:06:09+00:00

If it was just college then why the need to be dishonest in the beginning?its because she knew she was a slut and didn't want him to know.

men-first · 2020-04-05T17:19:48+00:00

HAHAHAHAHA

suicidemeteor · 2020-04-06T05:50:53+00:00

And still friends with them? That sure as shit shows she hasn't turned over a new leaf or abandoned that part of herself. I'd be willing to bet she's keeping them as a backup plan. She says she couldn't even pick them out of a lineup, but she's friended almost all of them. That practically screams cheating. Not to mention, her sister's boyfriend knew about her promiscuity but soooomehoooow it just never came up with her FIANCE until someone else mentioned it.

Tobacco_Lungs · 2020-04-04T23:42:07+00:00

If she just would have been honest to begin with.

Origami84 · 2020-04-05T09:59:31+00:00

The problem is not you being dishonest, darling. It's you being a cumdump.

Nevek_Green · 2020-04-06T01:50:10+00:00

When you think about it being a slut isn't the worse part. A lot of guys provided they aren't refusing to be a slut with them can look past that. No, the worse part is that she lied. That their entire relationship was built based upon lies.

If I had to bet money I'd wager he is wondering how much of it is even true. He trusted her, he put his faith in her, and turns out she didn't even trust him enough to tell him the truth. Once you realize that this woman had zero qualms lying to you that's it. You can never ever trust her again.

I wish there was a follow up to this, but we'll probably never hear it.

Wtcorp_1 · 2020-04-05T11:34:00+00:00

Poor guy but at least hes making the right choice by bouncing the fuck out of there

derealchad · 2020-04-06T01:36:46+00:00

This is my major fear in life, strongly decided to not settle for a non-virgin, anything else pump and dump.

power_cleaner · 2020-04-11T20:04:23+00:00

I notice that those subs never has a girl posting about a guys past but always about a guy posting about the girls past.

4odl3r · 2020-04-14T00:32:56+00:00

"yes, I was friends with all of them"

R/femaledatingstrategy right there 🤣🤣

zer165 · 2020-04-15T02:34:46+00:00

Wow this one hits home. Not the gangbang thing but the still friends on facebook/numbers saved in phone/etc. Fuck...

GigamusPrime · 2020-04-20T20:51:19+00:00

As far as can be told, they both had a past (to different degrees. VERY different) also sounds like he stepped up and was honest while she deceived him. That’s why he’s so pissed, and if it were flipped I bet she’d have left. With everything and probably after taking any money she could get her hands on and selling the ring- wouldn’t care if she were married

If she was 100% up front in the beginning, and then they got engaged, then this wouldn’t have happened. Her fault

Ishabaka · 2020-04-22T17:19:07+00:00

Actions have consequences.

Whoulda thunkit???

Itsjustnickg · 2020-04-05T04:50:22+00:00

There is stuff we don't know. It may not be the gangbang that put him over the top. She said she shared lots details. Think back to Rollo Tomassi's "Saving the best." I'll give you an example. She could have shared how she sucked a lot of dicks but "didn't like it." He may be craving a blow job and never got one from her. What that tells him is she doesn't have the attraction for him that she did for the other guys. The guy in Rollo's article had a wife that had video taken of her in a gangbang. That's not what set him off though. What set him off was the fact that she gleefully sucked the other guys dicks but wouldn't suck his dick. THAT is the point. Y'all are overlooking that.

Title	It was college so it doesn't count
Author	QueefyGoodness
Upvotes	607
Comments	327
Date	April 4, 2020 6:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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