Just a quick update here because some people have been asking about my status.

Two weeks ago my divorce was finalized so I'm 100% free and clear. I stayed firm in the negotiations and was able to walk away with a great deal. She didn't ask for much at all.

It was definitely the right decision and I should have listened to everyone here and done it a lot sooner.

For anyone else on the fence I'd say go for it. Separations never work. When women are done they are done. Cut your losses and move on.

Thanks for the help guys!