Why can't I be a superbowl alpha?

Rian_Stone · 2018-02-05T14:08:19+00:00

If you make alpha mean things you already do well, it doesn't make it so.

ok /u/GargantuaBlarg29, now I get to quote /u/thotwrecker

This subject comes up in many forms and I can always predict the top level comment.

I say stop playing video games, they are a waste of time building no real life skills, and tricking your brain into thinking you are improving / conquering challenges / facing down real competition. And thus sapping your will to find those opportunities in real life for masculine growth.

Top level comment says "dude maybe YOU had a problem with video games but that's on you, video games are fine in moderation. I make 200k a year and play LoL daily, so kindly fuck off from attacking my beloved pasttime (present-time?).

You say "don't smoke, it's a worthless hobby, there's no point, and if you think it's adding value to your life you are probably just hamstering to rationalize it because it feels good."

Top comment... "Nah bro you can smoke in moderation. Here, smoke in these reddit approved ways, have a vape, have an edible, and by the way, you can be successful and healthy and productive while responsibly using pot."

The bottom line is we all have to make DIFFERENT sacrifices to reach a level of success. I can't eat all this delicious shit, I am a food addict and if I start eating shit food, my puny little brain is going to want more, and I will start eating more shit. I'll feel like crap then and I won't work out. 6 months will go by and I'll have undone my last cut. That is because I have self-knowledge; I know I love food, I know I have a bottomless stomach and I still can fuck up a buffet like I'm a broke college kid. So I have to have stricter control and stricter rules in order to be happy and fit on a long term basis.

Another guy might be eating whatever and working out 2x a week, and will look shredded. I know these guys, many of them are 'naturals' physically in the sense of having great genetics and athleticism. These guys can fuck a pizza into their gullet every week and wash it down with a few porters and they'll be fine. Their relationship with food gets to be "I eat what I feel like, and magically my body still looks and performs pretty good."

So the key to TRP is "I do not get to do what a natural gets to do."

If you are a fuck up, you don't get to eat shit. You have to eat the chicken and greens and sweet potatoes and shit. If you are a fuck up, you don't get to smoke. You need to be maximizing your alertness and productivity, and you never should be just chilling in a bored state. Ever, like fucking kill yourself if you want to do that, because you need to be extreme. If you are a fuckup, you need ESCAPE VELOCITY from the shithole of your life, which means you don't get to just do what you see already successful people doing.

Let me repeat that - if you are NOT SUCCESSFUL, then you cannot just do what you see successful people doing. You must have a more extreme work ethic, a more retarded absolutist attitude, and less "cheat" days if any.

Now about weed, is weed really that bad? No. The only problem with weed as far as I'm concerned (especially if you aren't smoking shit-tier reggie joints) is that it makes being bored and doing nothing "fun". Go fuck yourself if you want to chime in like "when I'm high I like to write books and compose music and program apps! Hurr hurr!" You know damn well you're the exception and 99% of redditors are watching netflix, eating food, or doing the same dumb shit with the same beta low achiever friends when they get high. South Park nailed it - weed is bad because instead of doing other things, you're smoking weed which is going to help you enjoy doing things that aren't helpful or productive.

"But but thotwrecker life isn't about being productive! Why do we have to be such nazis! You are allowed to relax bro!"

No fuck that, Elon Musk is allowed to relax. Successful people are allowed to relax and do things that aren't focused around accomplishing shit. Unsuccessful people aka all of you who don't own a home, don't drive what they want to drive, don't have the rotation of bitches they want, etc... you should orient your life around being productive. You shouldn't tolerate a hobby that lets you have fun sitting on the couch. If you are unsuccessful, you have weak will. If you have weak will, then the lucy leaf is too much for you - you will enjoy it responsibly until you realize you're smoking to help yourself avoid stress or anxiety about your life being shitty. You're using it responsibly until you blaze up when you have nothing better to do, and you realize that when I ask you what was the last book you read, you respond with something you read in college.

So that's my perspective. The Red Pill knowledge is only useful if you have the self-awareness to say "here is where I am in life, and here is where I'd like to be." TRP is also about looking at yourself in the mirror and figuring out why that gap exists. If there's a gap in your life and you're spending a lot of time on gaming, netflix, weed, shit friends, reddit, drinking, whatever it is... then chances are completely eliminating those shit hobbies with an autistic level of absolutism WILL help you. You have to have the self-knowledge to say "I'm a little fuck up who doesn't have the work ethic I need to hit my goals, I'm not fucking the bitches I want to fuck or making the money I want to make, so I don't get to do the fun stuff that a more successful guy would." That is the heart of TRP - you do not get to do what I get to do, and I do not get to do what Chris Pratt gets to do, and he doesn't get to do what Leo gets to do.

Triadis3 · 2018-02-05T06:33:53+00:00

You have a sad combination of both selection and observer bias.

Selection bias is an error in logic where you don't choose the right sample, so it's not a representative random sample of the population you are trying to observe... i.e. you see all your friends and the superbowl mania on tv and the ads that convince you that EVERYBODY's having a party and getting shitfaced on shit beer... Well, they got you. If you go to a tailgate party in a stadium parking lot and take a poll, I'm willing to bet 100% of those asked love football.

Sure 80-90% of the population is just that.... plugged in sheeple. The reason it "works" is that there are a lot of women out there that have to settle for a sheep, because the wolves won't choose them and there are not enough to go around, and wolves are not usually great providers/dads.. So they, as women, take what they can get, whether consciously or not. Hypergamy.

Are these dudes having rockstar sex with a happily submissive wife and all her friends? No, they watch a game on tv and get shitfaced with all their friends who are in the same boat.

Their reach never exceeds their grasp, they have reached the apogee of their station in life. Are they happy? Maybe, because if you think yourself out of even the idea that you can be a wealthy, in shape, well read, well travelled MAN, then you've glass ceilinged yourself. You don't/can't see how the others side lives.

I actually did this myself... I'd always wanted a 911 turbo. Got to the point in my life where I could easily afford one. Went for a test drive, it was nice, very quick, but everywhere I was, there were other 911's. Not as special as I thought. A friend said... why not a supercar, then? I hadn't even considered it. I never thought I'd be driving a Ferrari or a Lambo, so I packed up those dreams long ago and tucked them away. I created my own box, and it took an outsider to help me smash it.

I have an Aston and a Lambo now. Break out of your self-made walls.

Observer bias is when you see what you expect or want to see. Tells me which side of the Pareto distribution you are on. If All your friends are wasting the weekend watching a game on tv, maybe you should rethink your choice in friends. Reminds me of the recent Jeopardy episode where none of the "football" categories even got a response... smart people have better things to do than memorize shit that does not matter.

I didn't know this was superbowl weekend, don't even know which teams. I have better things to do. Browsing reddit is my only vice where I stare at a screen. What did I do yesterday? I had my two subs come over and meet each other for the first time, they and my primary sub/wife were then tied together and subjected to an intense scene of my own creation that lasted 4 hours.

Me and 3 nude restrained girls completely under my control. Epic orgasm.

But, you do you...

"Go ,<sports team>!!!"

maxofreddit · 2018-02-05T03:17:07+00:00

lifestyle of clean diets, weightlifting programs, and fashion consciousness recommended here.

First of all, have a little fucking pride & expect more of yourself. Aim a little higher. Jesus H Christ.

Second, the first two on your list, eating right & lifting, are absolute requirement for health, longevity and being useful as a human being. There’s nothing sexy about losing your breath at the top of a flight of stairs.

The third thing, fashion, you may have some leeway, as styles differ. Assuming diet and lifting are on point, you should be able to look as good in a T-shirt & jeans as a shirt & tie.

But honestly. Your post wreaks of laziness & lacks any kind of respect for yourself, or your kids & family.

You’ve got work to do.

Sc00byDubious · 2018-02-05T03:04:35+00:00

short answer - then just fuck off. Nobody here is going to give you a sales pitch.

longer answer - It actually isn't that hard, and not expensive. It does take commitment. And it's all stuff you should be doing if you respect yourself and want a quality life. Most guys are just awful and very unattractive. It's easy to separate yourself from the herd. You don't realize it until you unplug. Being social and having fun is part of the program. So watching Superbowl is fine. But following a bunch of teams all season, writing off your Sundays in front of the TV is highly suspect, and highly unattractive to your lady. Make your MAP, work at it, and next year at the Superbowl party, it will be like having x-ray vision looking at all these guys and seeing all the basic shit they are doing wrong.

Greas3LoL · 2018-02-05T04:04:28+00:00

The honest answer (that you probably don't really want to hear) is that the vast majority of men DON'T have the sex lives they want. Do you really think 30-year-old-still-acts-like-a-frat-bro Geoff is really having his wife tear his clothes off when he walks in the door 8 beers deep dressed like he just came back from sports Comic-Con? She's most definitely not.

Most men are really reluctant to admit the ways in which their sex lives fall short of their expectations, but if you ask your friends in private they will usually tell you the truth.

The purpose of RP is not to get an "acceptable" anything. It is to get absolutely everything that you want without compromise. It's not going from sex 3 times a month to sex 4 times a month. It's going from sex 3 times a month to sex multiple times per day (if that's what you want).

RP is about having control of your life. Even if you don't want to increase your sexual frequency, RP will still drastically impact your sexual quality. Become a high-value male and watch the results. Or pop open another lite beer and bag of Doritos.

"This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe." -Morpheus

weakandsensitive · 2018-02-05T07:35:02+00:00

Been lurking for a few weeks, reading and absorbing.

Wow... A few weeks. What a life changing effort.

Super Bowl weekend in Minnesota was amazing. It felt like a real live city for a change. The bars stayed open until 4AM. It was really interesting.

I think the crux of your question is more like "why can't I have fun?" The short answer is because you're a fucking loser.

Persaeus · 2018-02-05T10:55:44+00:00

You have my permission to be a loser.

I’m guessing you have not talked to many men IRL about there sex lives. Besides myself I only know one that gets laid on the regular; and this guy has options that he exercises on a regular basis (shocking I know).

gettingmymojoback · 2018-02-05T11:48:39+00:00

Basically you’re whining that life isn’t fair, that the fairy tale you’ve been sold is a lie, that “just being yourself” should be enough.

You have two options, continue down the path of the herd and stay in dreamland OR swallow that bitter pill and get to work. You want to stay in dreamland and get the benefits of being an Alpha male? What you are asking for is an impossible delusion.

Like many others you are describing who I WAS almost to a perfect T when you describe your ideal lifestyle of laziness, self indulgence, and neglect towards oneself. That fucking dummy bought the lie completely. That fucking dummy couldn’t figure out why despite busting his ass to do everything he could to “make her happy”, the best he was getting was a bit of starfish thrown his way once a month (on a good month) IF he did everything right and bought her all the right trinkets and IF she was in the mood, and IF she got a back rub first and IF.....you get the picture.

Fast forward to 18 months later. While you bemoaned not being good enough the way you are, I was getting meals prepped for the week to hit my macros, emptying my gym bags, washing my shit, planning my next 3 months of workouts and goals, helping my wife with a crisis that hit her side gig, and being a fun entertaining motherfucker.

Despite us having a fuck ton of shit going sideways last week (illness, injury, family/financial emergency ) that would have absolutely killed my sex life before MRP......she was initiating once we hit the bedroom as long as I promised to be gentle.....which she promptly changed her mind about minutes later as all I kept hearing was something that sounded suspiciously like “harder” coming out of her mouth.

I’m not so sure my weekend would have ended the same if I had gone to a Super Bowl Party, came home wasted and horny, then tried to fuck her while trying to keep my beer gut out of the way.

LPT, women want to fuck attractive partners too.

You do you.

RedPillPowerNine · 2018-02-05T05:21:05+00:00

The fat guys you see at the super bowl. How do you know their wives aren't at home with Chad thunder cock?

Thoes guys are proablly not getting laid at all.

1% of the married male population is doing thoes things and 1% of the married male population is getting unsolicited blowjobs. It's that rare.

SBIII · 2018-02-05T10:54:10+00:00

Why can't I just be a superbowl alpha?

Because there is no such thing. The fat bloke drinking beer in his football shirt isn't alpha. He's just a fat bloke in a sports shirt drinking beer.

His life isn't successful. And it will never be. He is out of shape physically, so he is out of shape mentally. You simply cannot get your shit together mentally if you don't try to get in shape physically. Believe me, I tried it. Once you start working out, your mind and outlook changes completely (this coming from someone just a month into it).

If you aren't mentally in shape, you will never be successful - you will either never have any aspirational goals or you will not have the mental strength to persue and achieve them. This will apply to all aspects of your life - your career, your passions, your relationships.

Everything that you could be will never be, because you were too weak minded to change your life and become a better man. You will remain weak and subdue your great gift - the gift of being a man who can achieve anything - by numbing your mind and body with beer, sports, porn and shitty chicken wings.

You will never achieve anything and you will die alone, leaving behind a legacy of nothing other than a miserable wife and some badly raised brats who will become like you were - a fat fuck, drinking beer at the superbowl wondering why his wife won't fuck him like a pornstar.

So, why should you not be aiming for the more achievable target of just getting more friends and hanging out doing what most "non-loser" married men are doing?

Only you can answer that question.. do you want to live a shitty life and die knowing that you passed up the opportunity to have a great life or do you want to live, knowing that whatever day you die, you will go to the grave, happy in the knowledge that you pushed yourself to your limits and gave life everything you had?

FireTempered · 2018-02-05T03:21:23+00:00

You can. Go ahead and do it.

Why are you fucking around asking us? Just do something even if you don't get any validation from us, or anyone else. Or, is asking dumbass questions, easier than actually doing something?

Or better yet, you can say we were mean to your little faggot ass and you won't do anything. So far, that is your path already.

[deleted] · 2018-02-05T05:17:32+00:00

Ugh.

My sex life is not great

What you're doing isn't working. Shouldn't you try something else?

The_Litz · 2018-02-05T06:59:37+00:00

Because you aren't.

Sepean · 2018-02-05T08:38:39+00:00

Sure you can do a half-assed effort. You’ll see half-assed results.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2018-02-05T10:31:17+00:00

Go fuck about playing poker, drinking and being a dick. See if it works, then when your wife fucks off and you finish crying about it come back here and start at the beginning. Look through people's OYS then look back at history and see how far they have come. Put the work in, this is a total life overhaul and it sounds like you need it.

ReddJive · 2018-02-05T11:54:10+00:00

Because you don't understand frame.

markpf73 · 2018-02-05T13:21:11+00:00

Does your wife have a fetish for balding fat men and have a pay subscription to a fat guy webcam porno site?

If so then yes you have my permission to continue being a lazy sack of shit.

man_in_the_world · 2018-02-05T03:59:29+00:00

Because you still won't have frame, and your wife still won't want to have sex with you.

Title	Why can't I be a superbowl alpha?
Author	morpheuuus
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Date	February 5, 2018 2:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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