How do I create value if I have absolutely nothing?

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-03-01T07:18:59+00:00

Eat clean. Shower twice a day, stop watching porn, go running.

Do that for 6 months and come tell us how much your life has changed.

MrAgamemnon · 2019-03-01T06:56:16+00:00

I don't have a car, bike, or means of transportation to get a job.

When I go talk to girls at the mall they run away as I approach them with a smile or just casually walk towards them.

How do you get to college? How do you get to the mall?

Does a fucking fairy come and give you a ride in her pumpkin carriage?

Get a fucking job and hit the gym.

amwfhunter · 2019-03-01T06:41:30+00:00

Start lifting weights and get a job nearby. Assuming you can walk right? What the hell do you study?

Sorry man but you are a victim of your own laziness

IVIaskerade · 2019-03-01T09:07:59+00:00

Find a restaurant near you, and tell them you're looking for a job as a dishwasher. If that doesn't work, find another.

The One Punch Man Workout can be done without any equipment, so do that.

Deebo211 · 2019-03-01T11:08:17+00:00

You have the victim mindset. You need to change that asap. Get a job bro. No ones going to come save you. Life is hard get off your ass and grind.

boy_named_su · 2019-03-01T07:17:29+00:00

Step 1: stop making excuses, faggot. Start making solutions

Step 2: the / r / theredpill sidebar is free. Read that about 12 times

Step 3: Go get a shitty job. I had 3 fucking jobs when I was your age. I delivered the fucking newspaper at 6 AM for five bucks an hour. I was a dishpig. Save your money. Now you have money. Then join the fucking gym at your school. In the meantime, do pushups. The world record is 10,507

Then find a martial art club nearby (boxing, BJJ or Muay Thai) and do that until you don't suck

Then come back. See you in 6 months, or never

Justanotherredditt · 2019-03-01T07:36:40+00:00

You can’t do any Bodyweight exercises? Find a bar you can pull yourself up on, have a goal of 100 pull-ups. Do 100 push-ups a day, and 100 Bodyweight squats a day. It’s easy to find excuses.

dazs123 · 2019-03-01T06:35:04+00:00

Bro you go to college you're telling me you don't have time to lift?

anylegtypes · 2019-03-01T09:56:15+00:00

I can't improve my looks and get physically attractive because I have no money.

Look up bodyweight exercise guys on YouTube. They have more muscle than you and are leaner than you. Bodyweight exercise is free and can usually be done at home, with chinups really being the only thing you need a sturdy bar for, and that should be at a nearby park.

You can improve your skin by taking cold showers (saves money too) and eating healthier (unless you're literally just eating spaghetti already, you can put together a diet that's both healthier and cheaper than what you're eating right now), and just ask for a different hairstyle next time you get a haircut. No more cost than usual.

I don't have a car, bike, or means of transportation to get a job.

Take a bus to a mall. It'll cost you two bucks to print a full stack of resumes, and nothing to type it on a college computer. The bus fare can be compensated for through a cheaper meal, if absolute need be.

When I go talk to girls at the mall they run away as I approach them with a smile or just casually walk towards them.

This will improve as you get better at talking to people and gain confidence. All the info you need for this is online for free. There are no secrets in any pickup books that aren't written for free in some Reddit post or elsewhere.

I don't have money to buy nice clothes.

Plenty of blokes walking around in shitty singlets and footy shorts with cute girlfriends. Nice clothes will help. They're not necessary.

I don't really have any friends except some old classmates from high school.

Make some. You're in college, everyone is insecure about their social circle and wants more friends. Talk to people. If they don't like you, improve your personality. Again, lots of resources online about being funnier / nicer / more interesting / etc.

but I understand now my problem is actually having value.

You think value is having tangible resources to show off, and those will help... but most of your value will come from confidence, being interesting, being a leader, etc. All these skills can be developed for free.

Rapp5601 · 2019-03-01T11:00:57+00:00

Bro just stop. You seem to be getting every excuse from the book. You go to college so maybe that's where you should start looking for a job. And no matter how ugly you are people are still willing to talk to you, just do your best to be friendly

resnine · 2019-03-01T12:56:48+00:00

I can't X

I don't have Y

A surefire way to keep yourself poor is to frame everything in your life by what you can't do and what you don't have. It is cyclical, a feedback loop. The more you define your life by what you can't do the less you will do. And the more you define your life by what you don't have the less you will have. To those who give, more will be given and they will have abundance. But for those who have nothing, even what they do have will be taken away.

atticusfinch1973 · 2019-03-01T10:37:40+00:00

Bodyweight workouts are free.

You can get a used bike for $20 (or free in some places).

Nobody knows if your clothes are used.

Stop being a whiny bitch and do something.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-01T17:13:19+00:00

I can't improve my looks and get physically attractive because I have no money.

you can work out with zero money

I don't have a car, bike, or means of transportation to get a job.

If you had a job they might give you an advance to get transport.

When I go talk to girls at the mall they run away as I approach them with a smile or just casually walk towards them.

You are either threatening or unattractive, it's that simple. Fix whatever is the problem.

I don't have money to buy nice clothes.

You don't need nice clothes. You really really don't need nice clothes.

I don't really have any friends except some old classmates from high school.

So you have some friends.

I'm in college and I eat all 3 meals alone by myself, and I've tried talking to people but they don't seem really interested.

Look. It's your life. Accept that it's not fair, it's not what you were told it was, and noone else gives a fuck.

BUT

It's your life and you can do what you want with it. You own it, it's your job to fix it. You're not female, noone will save you. "Stop whining" is the most support you can ever expect from anyone else.

Next: a woman won't fix your problems. She won't support you, she won't make anything easier. In fact unless you're awash with options and strong as a rock she'll make most things harder. Expect nothing from women, seek nothing from them, do not rely on them for anything. Give up all your dreams of that "loyal supporting wife" you hope will come along any day now.

But they will fuck you, and if you have your life straight they can enhance how you feel about things.

You'll need a while to internalise the above, but it will strengthen you as you do.

Next: the "value" thing is true but you're not looking at it right. What do YOU want to do? What do YOU want to be good at? What do you want for yourself? Go and do and get these things.

You do not have nothing, you have:

Good English skills
Internet connection
Time
Ability to learn
Clothes so you can legally go out. Nicer ones are not essential.
A body that will let you get to difference places. Shoes help but are not essential.
A human brain: the single most flexible and powerful thing in the known universe

I've tried talking to people but they don't seem really interested.

Get good at something, focus on something.... literally anything. Schoolwork, a skateboard, building a business. ANYTHING you want to do. Get good at that. Focus on that. People will want to talk to you.

ZeppKfw · 2019-03-01T07:08:15+00:00

If you're talking to people and they're not interested then you're probably boring and a bit creepy. Get some hobbies man, maybe get a 05-09 mustang and make it your project car and be passionate about it (that's at least what I did), do some lifting, do some mma/boxing/sports, do some hanging out with bros you found on the hobbies you like.

It ain't that hard. You just have to keep talking to people as you're obviously not natural at doing that and yeah you're pretty much set man.

EDIT: You can look good with clothes on a budget. Stop making excuses.

vivid_mind · 2019-03-01T11:42:32+00:00

Dude you can go to the nearest recycling centre or communal bin and pull some water 5L jugs. Fill it with water (could even be rain water) or sand. Congrats you have your gym! Now go lift. Clothes? Look for charity shops. They sell designer almost new clothes for peanuts. You can buy a hat or find a can in the bin and beg for a couple of hours and boom you have money for superb clothes! For the rest of money buy some cosmetics. Some charity shops sell new high end stuff for peanuts. Find local food banks or homeless shelter and ask for food. They'll help you find a job too. You can look where random people gather in the morning and bid for jobs at building sites.

You don't need friends! Focus on yourself. No excuses. Forget about girls cars etc. Work on yourself. Don't buy useless shit. Save money, invest. Edit: also don't drink or do drugs (That's fools path), meditate, read books (sidebar!)

Andgelyo · 2019-03-01T13:46:58+00:00

Lmao at these comments, I agree OP get the fuck off your lazy ass and do something. Go running around your block. Do push ups, sit ups, at your home. Fucking wash yourself everyday, and practice small talk with cashiers or at least maintain eye contact and smile at everyone you see. Get off your lazy ass.

slimbleudog · 2019-03-01T17:06:27+00:00

Your college doesn’t have a gym ?

Edit: OP, on another post you said, you were willing to drive and see a girl. But now you don’t have a car ?

These post are annoying as fuck. Whiny dudes that need their hands to be held through fucking everything.

SirWrangsAlot · 2019-03-01T08:13:24+00:00

Does your school not have a gym? Most do, even small ones.

You have internet access obviously, so look into Amazon turk/Lionbridge for decent online income. Look into blood plasma donation, decently lucrative. Doesn't require a whole lot of time spent to come up with money for a gym membership and bus fare.

In the meantime read the sidebar and recommended books. You can find free PDFs of alot of them.

PlantainNationalism · 2019-03-01T13:02:00+00:00

Read Ride the Tiger by Julius Evola. I can DM the PDF. I can't unfuck you as good as Evola can. As far as the gym, fill up a backpack and do pull ups and dips at a park. Nobody gives a fuck that you're broke. You eatin and you got 24 hours in the day. You're good for now. Just challenge your mind and body so you can grow.

DirtyBastard13 · 2019-03-01T16:52:33+00:00

Get a job, get transportation. Get value. Girls don't want no scrub.

RossDDMarshalls · 2019-03-01T17:04:24+00:00

I can't improve my looks and get physically attractive because I have no money.

False. It costs very little change you're hair or upgrade your style. It costs very little to lose fat or gain muscle. It's costs very little work on your posture. It's costs nothing to run or do push ups.

I don't have a car, bike, or means of transportation to get a job.

False. Get a job within walking distance. You have the internet. You can do M Turk, an Amazon-based business-to-individual micro task processor. Google it. You fill out surveys, answer questions, and perform small internet-based tasks. You can get money sent directly to your bank account for your work. You'll be making less than minimum wage, but it's a start. There are other internet jobs you can find.

When I go talk to girls at the mall they run away as I approach them with a smile or just casually walk towards them.

If this is true, you probably look horrible. Girls respond well initially to guys they find physically attractive. You can fix this. This doesn't help what happens after you open your mouth though.

I don't have money to buy nice clothes.

False. You can buy skinny jeans at Walmart these days and basic fitted v-necks are cheap. Thrift stores have really cheap good clothes as well. If you have literally have no money, you can work on that.

I'm in college and I eat all 3 meals alone by myself, and I've tried talking to people but they don't seem really interested.

Dude, you're in college. Just saw this bit. Go to your counselor. Ask for help getting a job. You can ask for a good place to meet people too. Someone there should be able to give you genuinely useful and specific advice on getting your life in order and from there you can just grind.

max_peenor · 2019-03-01T21:20:49+00:00

I can't improve my looks and get physically attractive because I have no money.

Do you have to put quarters in your arms to make them work?

masterpiece00 · 2019-03-01T10:53:11+00:00

You're too young to have any SMV, the hot late teens to early 20's (above hb7) girls are fucking and dating above 30's guys, you're really a decade away from getting attention from girls, they won't notice you or feel you have much to offer, unless you are massive and a natural early bloomer charmer with rich parents.

Just focus on why you are in college and hire an escort every now and again as a treat - they are much hotter than normal girls and cheaper for your pocket.

UpperRedSide · 2019-03-01T08:43:20+00:00

Buddy ol pal.

Get a computer. Apply to at least two dozen jobs. It doesn’t matter what kind. Get a ride to your interviews. Hopefully get hired. Work your butt off. Buy a car. Work your butt off some more. Buy some clothes. Make sure they fit well. Guess what? Work even more. Get a gym membership. Look into how to eat for muscle gains. Put on some muscle. Lose some fat. If you still don’t like how you look, work some more, save up, go see a plastic surgeon and get jaw implants, or a rhinoplasty, or whatever the plastic surgeon suggests. Nobody will bat an eye if you decide to get surgery to look better, if that’s something you want to do. If they do bat an eye, fuck them.

You’re now at least +4 points more attractive.

kick6 · 2019-03-01T11:45:51+00:00

Go to your local library and check out a book on prison fitness. There are plenty of ways to work out that require zero equipment.

MCAsomm · 2019-03-01T11:46:43+00:00

Get a job and stop whining

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-03-01T11:59:20+00:00

Create value for whom?

[deleted] · 2019-03-01T13:18:11+00:00

Yeah you answered your own question. You know what's wrong find a way to fix it.

huggyblossom · 2019-03-01T14:15:45+00:00

As far as I know a 20 years old BMW is around 1-2k usd depending on the model and it's still a beemer.

As far as I know push ups, pull ups, squats and burpees are free.

And as stated from others - an hourly work will fund a car and its gas expenses and will buy you clothes.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-03-01T15:54:39+00:00

I heard push ups are free gains.

scanfan2022 · 2019-03-01T16:52:46+00:00

Seriously? You have internet access. Search for a job online. Or use public transportation to go to a local employment assistance center.

Excuses.

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TheBunk_TB · 2019-03-01T17:51:34+00:00

Keep going. Meet more people. Do more positive things.

looneyniggabunny · 2019-03-01T18:14:36+00:00

First off, I think what OP needs is a change of mindset. So you don’t have x so you can’t achieve y. You already know how to achieve y which is thru x. Then why are you giving up? That’s lazyness/deadbeat man. You know what’s needed to achieve for y, if you keep going on why you can’t achieve stuff then you’re not fully understanding what’s the red pill. Do something about what you need to do, and be consistent. Things will be better, you start seeing results, you keep grinding for that feeling and snowball. Good luck brother.

LogicalOlive · 2019-03-01T18:31:50+00:00

You go to college? Is it an university? If so bitch you gotta free gym right there.

Next create value? What do you feel like your good at? Make a website for it. Upload weekly content for it but don’t promote it for 6 months. Once the months are up start promoting.

You don’t need expensive clothes. You need expensive confidence and good style. Go look at we’ll built style on twitter and create your own look after seeing his examples.

Girls don’t want to fwu right now that’s fine. Get your shit together for the next 6 months. If you go to an university then you have the busses as transportation. Get your ass in the gym and after about 3 weeks of going there regularly ask for a job. Preferably ask for the closin shift so you can do homework while at your job.

theherosmyth · 2019-03-01T18:43:41+00:00

The moment you let go of this defeatist attitude, and the moment you decide that all these problems you have are not going to be the boss of you, but instead resolve to figure it the fuck out, life will become a lot more interesting.

You want some value to offer? How about you’re the guy that started with absolutely nothing and made something of himself because he refuses to sit and complain like a little bitch. Where he didn’t have money for the gym he did push ups and pull ups in the park. Where he had no money for books he went to the library. Where he had no money to buy cool clothes he kept approaching girls anyway, because the money would come eventually, and in the mean time it was good practice.

Step it up dude. You need to update your attitude.

ElCidCampeon93 · 2019-03-01T18:56:27+00:00

Create value then. Get a hobby. Get a job. Go to the gym. Lay off the internet if you need to.

KillaJewels · 2019-03-01T19:57:28+00:00

Those are limiting beliefs. Feeling sorry for yourself will not change your situation nor will it get sympathy/respect from others. If you want to change, which I think you do, effect it by taking massive action. No excuses. Your value comes from your uniqueness. If you want to improve on that, it will take efforts.

macheagle · 2019-03-01T20:07:51+00:00

You need to work on yourself. Unless you’re born rich, value as a male is earned and developed. It’s honed over a long period of time. Develop skills, interests, hobbies, and ideally passions. Lift.

What do you like to do that may be a marketable skill in the future?

What was your nurturing and family environment like? Any siblings that are good at something? Parents? If you come from a broken home, you may naturally want to seek female companionship and beta orbit. Resist this at all costs and WORK ON YOURSELF first.

Make sure you have these before you’re in your mid-late 20’s, after that it’s a bit harder to turn around especially with skill sets and career trajectories.

monsieurhire2 · 2019-03-01T21:22:55+00:00

It sounds like you haven't read the side-bar yet.

"I can't improve my looks ... because I have no money."

You can't do a push-up? No money at all? Yet you're in college and you eat 3 meals a day. No money at all is the people in Venezuela digging through trash heaps to eat and/or prostituting themselves on the streets. You're in college for fuck's sake eating 3 meals a day. Presumably you are there because it will lead to a higher paying job than had you never attended. If this not the case, then drop out and get a job before the debt gets too high. Otherwise, focus on making money when you get out of college. Be sure that the field you are entering into is high-paying, merit-based, has upward mobility, etc. Whether or not you like it is besides the point. The point is to make money, and be disciplined.

You can work on your appearance by focusing on building up muscles. Guys without muscles are clothes racks. Guys with athletic muscular bodies can look good wearing rags, but since girls are obsessed with status, they wear nice clothes to play the status game. Muscles are built by eating lots of protein, lifting, and getting good sleep. It costs money, but not that much. You have to eat, so you may as well eat healthy food.

You could theoretically afford nice clothes. What you would have to do is figure out is what to buy, how much they cost, where to get them, then save up the money to get them. Or you could have them right away on credit.

You could borrow money to get a car to go to a job that would then pay off the car. You can get used cars pretty cheaply, so the loan would only be for a few thousand dollars, and you could pay it off pretty quickly.

Also, there are jobs you can do that pay you for doing stuff from a computer, so you don't actually need transportation.

It sounds like you haven't done anything at all to build value. This isn't seddit. We don't believe that quality women can be gotten and held with some bullshit game alone, whether it be inner or outer. Women want value, and if you have none, you have to BUILD it, either with capital, or with labor. Since you have no capital, you must either borrow it, or labor for it. If you borrow it and don't labor, then you'll be in debt, and your life will get worse.

It seems like you're unaware of the work involved in actually getting a woman. You approaching attractive women at the mall (presumably they aren't ugly) is akin to a homeless guy walking up to you on the street asking you for money. You are literally begging for their pussy with nothing to offer in return.

If people don't want to talk to you, it's a signal that they don't perceive you as high-value enough. Study the people in groups that appear high-value. Why do they have their value? There are visible factors like looks, clothing, athletic build, and then invisible ones, like wealth, status, social ties, friendship groups, etc. Try to emulate them. Video yourself talking to people and note how you sound or come across compared to other people.

Anyway, people have become millionaires with less.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-03-01T22:04:29+00:00

It seems like your problem is money, not women. I'm in the exact same scenario you're in FYI, or was until a few months ago, and am now killing it with women and working on the money. You can either go up or go down from here. You choose.

Thunderfin · 2019-03-01T22:07:11+00:00

I'm in college and I eat all 3 meals alone by myself,

I do too but girls don't care if you're attractive. I still get tinder matches

someonesopinion6969 · 2019-03-03T12:09:41+00:00

Bro, i have no job and i managed to start going to the gym for free with a friend, he helped get me lifting and now i use it on the regular. i still dont have a gym membership but it never stopped me from excercising before i started and joined.

like everyone says here, pushups are free and a cheap pull up bar wont cost you much. you wont gain huge strength but it's better than nothing.

money is a bitch, i hope you find your way out of hell. as lack of finance definitely dries up pussy

QLB91 · 2019-03-01T08:31:40+00:00

Maybe you should start getting out of that victim mentality

heyprestorevolution · 2019-03-01T12:24:50+00:00

Become a Socialist, comrade.

Title	How do I create value if I have absolutely nothing?
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Date	March 1, 2019 5:51 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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