1 Treating Your Date As If She’s The Queen Of England
The best way to impress a woman is “NOT” trying to impress her.
So, instead of treating a woman like she is a goddess, focus on having fun and treating her like your annoying little sister.
Why? Because when you place a woman on a pedestal and treat her like she is a queen, it shows that you have little to no value, no options with other women, and you’re just an ass-kisser who wants to get in her pants.
When you treat her like your annoying ass little sister, your interaction will be playful, and you will show her that you’re care-free, fun, and you’re not going to take shit from her.
Most men try to be perfect and super polite on a date, and instead of having an awesome date, it ends up being boring and forced.
If your date with a woman is boring as hell, you can pretty much kiss your chances of seeing her ever again, because if you're boring on a date she will assume you're boring in bed, and boring in general.
When you go on a date with a woman, you should treat her with respect, but you shouldn’t be treating her like she is your God.
Treat her like a normal human being who has strengths and weaknesses like everybody else. Tease her and don't be afraid to make comments that might be polarizing.
As strange as this may sound, the more you try “NOT” to impress her, the higher chance you will have of leaving a great impression.
2 Going To A Date In A Serious Mood
This is a mistake a lot of guys make, and I used to be one of those guys.
If you want to have a successful date, it’s best that you get yourself in a social mood before the date.
Sometimes I will go to the destination of the date early and talk to the people there to get myself in a talkative mood.
Chances are your date probably had a long day, and the last thing she wants is to go on a date with a man who is super serious and stiff.
Loosen up.
Listen to some loud music that pumps you up and gets you in an expressive state.
Do whatever you need to do to get out of your head and enjoy the present moment.
3 Avoiding Eye Contact & Not Being Vulnerable
It’s very difficult to create a strong connection with a woman if you’re not willing to make strong eye contact in your conversations, and you’re afraid to be vulnerable.
Strong eye contact shows a woman that you’re engaged in the conversation and the moment with her. It shows her that you’re listening to her. It shows her that you have nothing to hide. It shows her that you’re confident. When you avoid eye contact you display all the “opposite” qualities of what I mentioned above, and you will have a tough time creating a strong connection on your date.
Being vulnerable is powerful because most guys refuse to do it. Most guys try to act cool, or tough, or macho, but few traits are more cool, tough, or macho than being vulnerable.
Being vulnerable shows a woman that you have healthy emotions and you’re not afraid to show her who you really are.
However, being vulnerable should not be mistakened with being a pussy. Those are two completely different things.
Being vulnerable is about removing your “mask” and letting go of the act of trying to be cool. Being a pussy is when you just complain, bitch, and moan like a little boy.
Be vulnerable, but don’t be a pussy.
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