A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.

gingerkid2010 · 2017-10-22T04:23:44+00:00

Another good thought experiment would be if you had a camera crew following you around everywhere for a month would the girl you are interested in watch it and think "I want to be a part of that life"

Reachir · 2017-10-22T00:29:54+00:00

So... what is your point? Is there anyone here who thinks being lazy and boring makes them attractive?

SUCK_MY_DICTIONARY · 2017-10-22T01:37:52+00:00

Yeah but this shit is dangerous cuz you are basically living for some particular girl’s pussy. Turns out you don’t have to be an ubermensch to be able to get with those girls, and if your entire life is driven by pussy then you also are unattractive to those girls.

porn-chicken · 2017-10-22T13:47:54+00:00

The hottest girl I know has a type that she goes for. She likes extremely outgoing white guys with dreadlocks and ratty clothes. Most have a pot habit and struggle to hold down a job.

I know this is supposed to be a motivational post, but it's worth knowing that you can do all the right things and still not get that girl. Do the right things just because.

heray14 · 2017-10-22T07:07:44+00:00

The answer is clear but I am just lazy as hell. So I just think: whatever... it’s easier to just sit there. And if I become too ashamed of myself and cannot stand the idea of other people seeing me as lazy and unattractive, I can just reduce interaction with them... Whatever

bluedragon239 · 2017-10-22T04:27:05+00:00

DONT DO THIS Lemme tell you why this is bullshit:

You're putting her on a pedestal
You're investing way to much on one girl who you believe to be unattainable
Very likely you'll catch feelings, see her doing shit with other guys, and feel depressed
You'll keep finding things that are wrong with yourself, some of which you can't change/need to accept

The solution? Fuck doing it for the girl

Do it for yourself with conviction and ambition and girls like that will come to you (if you aren't a recluse ofc)

yeaigetit · 2017-10-22T04:48:03+00:00

People always talk about going after goals, what does this mean though. What goals do normal people have. And don't tell me starting a business.

Meowzahar · 2017-10-22T06:40:52+00:00

"Just be yourself. But not like that."

greenlittleman · 2017-10-25T15:58:48+00:00

I know guys who are

-Doesnt exercise regularly

-Sits around masturbating at his laptop or playing video games all day

-Is addicted to the internet

But they have fucked 50+ girls, including 9 and 10. This shit matters only in LTR, in pickup she wouldn't even know what you are usually doing. And after sex itself even if she know these 3 things, in most cases she wouldn't care about it, unless she slept with you because she thought you are millionaire.

dmvjr · 2017-10-22T12:36:34+00:00

Only the people you described, received zero value from this lol. Nice post, and way to keep it real.!!

StercusMaximus · 2017-10-22T18:20:41+00:00

/r/getmotivated

42-AX · 2017-10-22T21:17:22+00:00

A better way to rephrase the message OP meant to say is "Do you have similar attributes to the type of person you're interested in? If no, then move on OR change yourself. If yes, then go for it."

Questionnaire7 · 2017-10-22T02:11:39+00:00

Hit the nail on the head. Only the first and last dont apply to me, but the last nearly does.

efatih55 · 2017-10-22T11:19:26+00:00

I agree with your statements BUT I also experienced the total opposite site.

I am from Europe and I went for a holiday to Antalya/Turkey. Do you know what I saw there? Guys who work there in hotels absolutely have 0 muscles, short, not educated and rude. BUT they pick up the tourist girls from Russia, Sweden or Germany.

maboyles90 · 2017-10-22T09:04:46+00:00

Addicted to the internet... Closing Reddit now. Good night.

Licheno · 2017-10-22T11:07:34+00:00

This is very very basic self awareness, it's like realizing that doing college admission tests with elementary school knowledge is not the best idea

WannaChangeMyLife4ev · 2017-10-22T11:18:35+00:00

Chocking... Ha ha ha ha.

Aleph_Alpha_001 · 2017-10-22T13:51:37+00:00

Another thought experiment would be to decide if you want to be in your life or if you would rather change it.

Why does it require a hot unattainable female to make a value judgement about my own life? Is a hot female's opinion of me the gold standard? I've been with good-looking, sexually uninhibited, smart, successful women and been miserable in the relationships.

So no thank you.

Lavy92 · 2017-10-22T04:10:45+00:00

The coolest people, who get the hottest pussy don't waste time going to the gym, or doing anything that society says they should for that matter.

gerannu · 2017-10-22T04:33:30+00:00

Exactly right, I think of the other comments are getting confused that you're saying to do this for one girl. This is a sub with the sole purpose of getting laid right? Why not make yourself as attractive as possible? I went from chubby to visible abs and it makes gaming girls WAY easier.

crackpolystyreneman · 2017-10-22T00:58:14+00:00

Yes, because I'm rich

Socialinception · 2017-10-22T04:21:03+00:00

Do you think she ideally wants a guy who"

Who gives a fuck what she ideally wants, it's what she actually responds to that matters.

IcarusWright · 2017-10-22T05:16:48+00:00

This guy pictures himself as a woman.. gay

Title	A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.
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Date	October 21, 2017 10:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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