Am I too old to seduce?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-09-30T20:54:48+00:00

No, you're not too old. But don't expect results right away. For many of us it took years. Typically 3-5 years to see meaningful progress. So expect some success from 38 - 40-ish and onwards, if you put in a diligent effort starting now.

DaygameCode · 2024-09-30T21:05:03+00:00

As a coach, i can tell you that you are not even old. You haven’t reached half of your lifetime. You have not even reached your prime age. The only thing that can sabotage your learning and results is your refusal to learn, or acting like you know everything or acting like you are too old to keep learning. And the good news is that you don’t even need to get a coach, you have a lot of information for free on reddit, youtube, etc so you can always learn by yourself with the only downside being that it might take longer to make progress. But you are young enough to have your best decade.

UnkemptGoose339 · 2024-10-01T06:52:53+00:00

Am 37, albeit in very good shape. I eat Paleo and lift weights 5 days a week. Very strict with sleep schedule as well excepting some weekends.

I've been "gaming" for about 10 years now off and on, 6 years if you don't count my serious relationships. I'm single now and content with my dating life, although there's room for improvement for sure. I still mess up a lot and kick myself for it. You have to celebrate all of the small victories like getting her number, or getting to kiss a super hot 9/10 girl. If these are things you couldn't do before they are victories for you, as they are progress. Rome wasn't built in a Day, and you will not be a master seducer overnight. It's .1% progress every time you put in an effort to talk and court women. The reward is well worth the hours you'll put in. Learn to appreciate every minor victory and try to enjoy the process of learning this.

So no. 35 is not old at all, just be sure to maintain your health, eat and sleep well, and hit the gym as much as possible.

It's about 50/50 for younger 20 something girls if my age is an issue or not. But I can actually hold their attention and continuously see them, whereas in my 20s I could never retain any girls for longer than maybe 1 date, usually not even that. So if anything being older and more experienced is an advantage if you're putting in the work.

SatyaSharma210 · 2024-09-30T22:10:13+00:00

Got introduced to this body of knowledge about 5+ years ago, when I was 50+.

Have had a string of successes, from daygame, social and dating apps.

Never doubt

coffeeshopcloser · 2024-09-30T21:30:46+00:00

You're young. I'm 35 too. My neighbor's old. He's 65. Still gets multiple women monthly from 25-55+. It's just about building your sales funnel.

Advice-
So many men think that the best way to get girls starts with a smile. That only works for 15% of the time when you talk to a girl who's actually a nice decent woman. And even then, they are usually already taken.

For the rest of the female devils walking on the face of the earth that we're left with, all you need to do is make a neutral faced eye contact (not droppy face or big eyed face), give a subtle disgust then smirk smile face in that order, then a slight blow of air from the nostril type of small laugh. I'm talking about a full activity that should not last longer than 3 second with 2 seconds of eye contact before the action steps. Next is a little push and pull. "Can't tell if you want to beat me up or buy me a drink"... or something along those lines and take it from there.

Dude I'm still friends with my ex she laid it all out for me years later when we started talking about our relationships and experiences after having dated each other. She told me women do the same thing that we do where we don't know if a girl that looks at us is interested or not, and the key is that when women look at us they're kind of startled by the fact that we saw them look and they end up having this disgusted look on their face which we take for being gross that's why you got to test the fucking buttons.

How do you test the button on 75% of the women on the planet? Refer to steps above in paragraph 2.

Last bit of advice, scroll thru Instagram to find some accounts that discuss all the problems people go thru in relationships. Once you're done with that, get back to realizing how lucky you are not to have any of those fucking problems yet. You don't even know man, 99.9% of women spend their time walking around their man looking for something to argue about because modern women are extremely bored extremely quick, but thays because they dont know how to be interesting or funny themselves without the introduction of a vicarious instrument aka the man's dick. That's why we're the ones that have to be funny and interesting. Get how that works? So when you follow the above steps to get a girl talking with you, you're able to focus on what she's saying instead of how amazed you are that someone who sits down to piss is actually responding to you so you can be able to figure out what to say next.

Until then, during, and after, get some hobbies, hot the gym, down some creatine, and focus on growing that retirement account so you can buy that car you always wanted with ease. Me personally, I tried to be good in all my relationships but it seems like all the good women died with our mother's Generations now they really just want the dog in us but they don't want to tell us they want the dog in us, they just want us to know and read their fucking mind and ignore them. It's ridiculous. Sorry for the long message hope it helps, Any of this didn't make sense just let me know and I'll try to clarify, I used voice to text to write all this down and there might be typos here and there.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-09-30T21:16:21+00:00

There are guys in their 50s doing this. I don't think there really is an age that is too old. Learn about the basic fundamentals. Get comfortable doing regular approaches. Make it a fun lifestyle. Then just play the numbers game.

Consider combining online, social circle, cold approach, etc... Also consider going out to bars, and not just doing daygame.

Spend about 6 months getting comfortable with the basics, then just play the numbers game.

321sleep · 2024-09-30T21:37:21+00:00

I learned game in my 40s. I've never had so much fun with women. I dove in, studied everything I could get my hands on, and practiced weekly for nearly 2 years. Now I have many beautiful plates spinning and my dance card is always full.

PghPat · 2024-09-30T21:29:26+00:00

No. I'm 43 and started learning over the past 6 months. There's a lot to learn and unlearn, but anyone can be successful

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-01T11:49:37+00:00

Usually it's you that can be your own worst enemy, people growing older are getting more serious about life, much less eager to have fun, and are getting more rigid about their convictions and mindset. However, if you managed to conserve your inner child, you can still be able to provide almost as much value as male in his biological prime.

TerminatorReborn · 2024-09-30T21:51:50+00:00

I have a friend thats older than you and he picks lots and lots of hot early 20s girls

Nullroute127 · 2024-09-30T22:13:56+00:00

Mid 30s guy here.

I pull girls in their early-mid 20s almost exclusively.

Most women think I'm 26-28. Honestly I think this perception hurts more than it helps.

The right time to start is now.

Sherman140824 · 2024-09-30T21:05:58+00:00

I wish I had started at 35. I face a lot of difficulties with people thinking I'm a criminal. There is too much to work on. I'm 44 now.

epimpstyle · 2024-10-02T16:52:21+00:00

A video is worth 1000 words - VIDEO - I'm 46, started doing this 5 years ago at 41... if you're old or not at 35, you decide. You don't need years to talk to women, in two weeks you get enough experience to see what works for you and what doesn't.

CharmingRejector · 2024-10-03T12:38:26+00:00

Yep, you're just too old at this point. Yeah, really sorry about this, but at 35 you should really be married and working on your career. /s

I'm 45. Just out of some years of LTR and dumb self-inflicted celibacy. Idk why I did it, but I woke up from the stupidity a couple of years ago and started dating again lol. It's mostly great fun, but sometimes it's a little frustrating, and you ofc risk getting your heart broken (ah now I remember why I kept celibate for so long...) but in the end it gives you something to have some fun with, and if you're lucky you'll find the love of your life. And if not, you'll just end up an old vampire like me.

TestifyMediopoly · 2024-09-30T22:35:56+00:00

No 🤦‍♂️ you should be hooking up with 20yr olds at 35

Clear-Photograph6584 · 2024-09-30T22:27:24+00:00

Never too old.

MouseAware809 · 2024-09-30T22:31:18+00:00

Bro, I am 42 going on 43. You are never too old.

What.... do you think connecting with fellow humans expires once you hit a certain age?

Imagine you are talking to Colonel Sanders, what do you think he would say to you?

Yes I know negative beliefs rear their ugly heads, but this is the universe showing you what you need to work on. Or your subconscious telling you what you need to work on.

You can either climb out of this negativity (google Scrooge pattern and look for an audio version) or you can stay with it and lower yourself further and further into shit.

FrozenCocytus · 2024-09-30T21:51:56+00:00

I'm 30 and I definitely think I'm way too old.

ratfooshi · 2024-09-30T23:39:38+00:00

Of course not.

Look at snoop dogg.

It's about confidence. Outerdirectedness. You didn't lose it.

It's within you. Slowly uncover it every day.

It's a skill just like riding a bike or working out is.

Focus on how people feel around you. You're gold.

Title	Am I too old to seduce?
Author	guicho_02136
Upvotes	34
Comments	90
Date	September 30, 2024 8:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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