An example of how not to approach

summon_lurker · 2019-04-03T15:48:07+00:00

Plot twist it’s the employee from the restaurant tricking him/her to spend money there

RexUniversum · 2019-04-03T16:34:39+00:00

Hey, I have blind spots to personal space and privacy. Wanna date?

Fallingbe · 2019-04-03T15:51:24+00:00

Bruh

its_a_fake_story · 2019-04-03T16:13:08+00:00

Dude. Why. Why.

spikespiegelforevs · 2019-04-03T18:14:25+00:00

This only loaded as the first 2 texts on mobile for me and I legit thought "hmmmmm... maybe a little too forward but I dont see the big issue here...". But then I actually clicked the pic lol. Holy shit this guy is a jackass

Vibefire · 2019-04-03T16:00:22+00:00

my eyes

DopeFishIsBack · 2019-04-03T18:00:09+00:00

So I was out eating at a Mexican restaurant with my mom and the waitress caught my eye and days later I found myself still thinking about her. I had no idea what her name was but I wanted to see her again. So I got on the website of the city in which the restaurant is located and looked up there business license, I looked up the owner on Facebook and went through their friends list and found her. Obviously I never went as far as this dude and contacted her. I guess the lesson here is that I’m a lonely weirdo and you should set your social media accounts to private, online stalkers can be rather crafty.

GiantAssPandas · 2019-04-03T16:24:31+00:00

That’s pretty cringe. Hopefully guy learns a lesson to not pull that again.

izgmoen · 2019-04-03T18:02:54+00:00

WOWWWW lmao!!! I thought the first text was decent and was gonna say “what the fuck are ya’ll talking about”

Kept reading*

LOL No no now i get why ya’ll are just baffled at this shit.

rizbitz · 2019-04-03T18:45:26+00:00

“You smiled at me” ok? lol that’s soo creepy

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2019-04-03T22:05:52+00:00

Notice the 23 messages. Women have abundance. Just a reminder when you think a girl is special, she’s talking to 20 other dudes trying to get the same thing.

Trowawaycausebanned4 · 2019-04-03T20:18:06+00:00

I did something like this, I went on a trip with a girl and we had a lot of similar interests and I thought she was cute. We were talking a lot but forgot to get her contact info. Although her info was on a mass contact list of all the trip goers. I mentioned that’s how I found her and asked her but she didn’t reply lol. It wasn’t mutual

Bobandjim12602 · 2019-04-03T20:37:02+00:00

Dude, he overheard her number and contacted her? When he should have gotten it in person. WTF!?

Honestly, if he wanted to play this off, he should have acted like it was the wrong number. Then played it off as a coincide if she remembered who he was. He should have been funny, not fucking creepy. Even then, the way he didn't get the number directly from her is sorta fucked up.

Tubur · 2019-04-04T04:15:23+00:00

/r/sadcringe

GrislyGrape · 2019-04-03T16:27:23+00:00

That was quick. But in all honesty, he has potential he just mixed up the order.

Approach
Impress
Exchange numbers (definitely get a girl's number without her giving it, they appreciate it because it shows how driven you are to meet them)
Ask/confirm on/the date (respectively)

He just mixed up the order, he wanted to: 3, 4, 2, 1

readonlyuser · 2019-04-03T21:12:39+00:00

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fivefootsixcharmer · 2019-04-03T17:07:20+00:00

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JenRae93 · 2019-04-04T04:10:37+00:00

I’ve got something similar to this that happened to me. I’m a director at a teen afterschool place and interviewed a guy in his late 20’s for a job. It was completely professional and there were multiple people doing the interview tho I was the one leading it. All went well and he seemed like a great candidate and he even mentioned his girlfriend a few times as that was why he said he moved to the area. The next day I received an email from him (on my professional email that I had given to him if he had any questions) where he called me beautiful, said he felt we had a real connection (from a 20 minute interview lol), and asked me out. Needless to say he didn’t get the job lol.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-04-05T00:17:56+00:00

Maybe for the next girl he can overhear her street address and send her a postcard.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-04-03T17:30:39+00:00

That’s a bold strategy, Cotton

novadesi · 2019-04-03T19:14:52+00:00

I think it’s the bus driver

TTV-DontEvnTrip · 2019-04-03T21:13:01+00:00

You should meet up! He seems like s nice guy

Gregory-76 · 2019-04-04T01:30:04+00:00

OK. WHATS HER RESPONSE?? Yes, or Nah??

CaveDoctor · 2019-04-04T04:02:41+00:00

But a prime example of great trolling.

UnparliamentaryTea · 2019-04-04T04:38:41+00:00

This reminds me of when I’ll be on the Instagram explore page and see a girl’s photo and my girl friends will be like “She’s cute you should DM her!!” That’ll be a no. Obviously I wouldn’t be as creepy as dude in the photo, but I don’t want to end up on some list

apensaus · 2019-04-04T05:55:35+00:00

R/sadcringe

Euphoric_Toaster · 2019-04-04T10:12:12+00:00

I’m no pua but this is a sus approach

gibertot · 2019-04-04T13:00:40+00:00

This cant be real

theinfamousdoctoroak · 2019-04-04T13:51:04+00:00

They say it pays to lie to people.

Ggjhggtrrrr · 2019-04-03T22:22:47+00:00

Is it just me? I don't see any text or video.

Frogsandalligators9 · 2019-04-04T00:46:43+00:00

This is why I refuse to flirt with women. No good can come of it. Plus, I run the risk of getting charged with sexual harassment.

l6_6l · 2019-04-04T16:26:06+00:00

This is what jailbait looks like

DimitriT · 2019-04-05T00:49:20+00:00

To be honest I don't understand people in the comments here. Cringe this and lonely that. That dude has serious memory, I'd be impressed! And he is kinda polite about it.

An example of how not to approach

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3 is sarcasm right lmao or am I just trippin

Title	An example of how not to approach
Author	WrecklessTimes
Upvotes	1068
Comments	78
Date	April 3, 2019 3:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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