Any tips for attracting girls without alcohol, clubs, or partying?

Skieski_ · 2015-05-11T04:01:25+00:00

Meet chicks doing something you love, you'll find common ground. Plus points if you're good at it.

uuuqqq · 2015-05-11T04:01:05+00:00

Day game at a coffee shop.

It's spring, just go outside and talk to any and every cute girl you meet

imcaptainpoopypants · 2015-05-11T04:46:01+00:00

Wear nice cologne & avoid having bad breath

CanadianStatement · 2015-05-11T12:09:37+00:00

Get a dog.

MagicJuggler · 2015-05-11T14:15:52+00:00

Not a Magic nerd, but a 40k nerd. Learn to dance. Not club dance, like swing or salsa. Even waltz or contra. When I was your age, my view was:

"American women generally don't dance. Learning to dance is futile."

Nowadays, my view is:

"American women generally don't dance. I can make them do what I want!"

You learn self-confidence, and how to talk to women, both verbally and physically. If you tense up at the thought of an attractive woman in your arms, this will help you out so much.

Good luck!

SteveDaygame · 2015-05-11T06:34:08+00:00

Watch this.. it will point you in the right direction.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpW0ezfHDYA

osom3 · 2015-05-11T11:16:26+00:00

be passionate about what you do (hobby or so), nothing is more attractive than this (at least for me)

+humour

kennilicious · 2015-05-11T17:21:09+00:00

I'm not saying I'm drowning in pussy but I met the past 2 girls I've been involved with through co-ed sport leagues.

My go-to sport is volleyball due to the following reasons:

You get to meet a bunch of people at once
Great workout
Lots of girls play volleyball (and they're usually fit)

Notice how I left the girls aspect at the end. What I'm trying to convey is that you should do something because you have a passion for it, not just because of the girls. If you do they'll immediately notice this and find it creepy as shit.

Referring to Mark Manson's book, "Models", I've found and narrowed down my demographic. You need to find yours. Find an activity that you love and allows you to meet new people (sorry but video-games won't help).

DancesWithPandas · 2015-05-11T05:35:36+00:00

I'm not sure if you live by a large lake or the ocean, but taking a girl out sailing is always a great date...unless you capsize.

Find some good hiking trails that lead to scenic views. Maybe pack some picnic foods and a blanket.

Captain-obviously-bi · 2015-05-11T16:00:16+00:00

Have personality, and be confident

Chicken-n-Waffles · 2015-05-11T16:33:49+00:00

Be funny. Take an improv or stand up class. Or sit in on a class. Comedy clubs usually offer a free class first of the month.

DaygameCoach · 2015-05-12T01:34:19+00:00

Daygame and college campus game. You can search seddit and google about them.

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-11T10:11:36+00:00

yup, you should hang out around the dining hall and go to school events like concerts, marathons, competitions or the school gym. also try to connect with people there using the event or activity as a topic of conversation.

hungrycl · 2015-05-11T14:40:09+00:00

Inherit a lot of money. Jk

Define what you like to do for fun and use that to meet people. For one I love playing soccer so I joined a coed league and met some girls that way.

xau-the-tau · 2015-05-11T15:24:35+00:00

Hit up some bookshops, start chatting to people about what they're reading. If you're into outdoors type stuff you could organize a day trip with a group to go hiking or rock climbing or something along those lines

mrinthemix · 2015-05-11T17:21:52+00:00

Desensitize yourself, I believe that you can enjoy clubbing. What is the specific reason that you don't like clubbing?

Russian_monk · 2015-05-11T19:26:07+00:00

You don't need to drink in order to go out and meet women. But if meeting women is your goal its hard to beat clubs,bars, house parties etc. Clubs and the like are terrible places for human interaction ( loud, crowded, tons of distractions) BUT these are the only places where you could find a concentration of hot women. So my advise is to force your self to go and spend time at these places, after a while you'll become desensitized to the sensory overload and actually start to game in these venues.

Neogaffan · 2015-05-12T20:22:10+00:00

Join a club that interests you

Rugnardl · 2015-05-11T06:29:45+00:00

Look good

Bradaz1 · 2015-05-11T12:22:16+00:00

Chloroform

Vidrai · 2015-05-11T09:15:48+00:00

If you see a girl you're interested in any appropriate setting approach her and be confident. Girls will generally not expect it in normal situations therefore be more intigued or open to suggestion.

I met a girl in a sporting goods store while she was working; After a quick back and forth I asked her to go for dinner that night and she said yes. simple as that.

garblegarble12 · 2015-05-11T11:49:40+00:00

Its called Church, really it doesn't need to be this hard.

SteveDaygame · 2015-05-11T06:32:42+00:00

bars and clubs are the WORST way to meet women, the best way is approaching them in the daytime and getting to know them. Check out my website www.nycdaygame.com actually my youtube might be better www.youtube.com/nycdaygamecoach

If you have any questions PM me and I'll give you some tips man

Title	Any tips for attracting girls without alcohol, clubs, or partying?
Author	Sunframe
Upvotes	81
Comments	70
Date	May 11, 2015 3:30 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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