Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?

jsbach123 · 2022-05-02T22:16:49+00:00

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epimpstyle · 2022-05-03T00:06:40+00:00

Start talking with old men and women in a park, they will talk to you and you will realize how easy is to talk to a stranger.

burncushlikewood · 2022-05-03T00:57:55+00:00

Talking to women is like the same as talking to anyone guys or girls, learning how to talk is something we as humans learn at young age and improve as we get older. You have tons of experience talking just try and relax, here is a gambler video on how to talk to girls. https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y

incognito3107 · 2022-05-03T06:50:05+00:00

Talk slower and look her in the eyes.

Woujo · 2022-05-02T22:09:34+00:00

Talk about something YOU think is interesting without worrying what she wants. Then tailor your conversation accordingly.

Neo-Rio · 2022-05-03T07:13:50+00:00

Your aim while talking to her is to get a RESPONSE.

Otherwise your talk is just wasting time. Seriously.

The response you want is one of the following characteristics: intrigue, curiosity, desire, lust, trust, connection, attraction, etc. etc.

So what you di is build questions that ask her to delve deep into these themes. Also, you design conversations that lead directly into these themes.

And what tends to happen is while you are talking to her, she will begin to feel all of the things I mentioned above around you - given that you are asking about it, and leading her to a place where she is likely to recall times that she was turned on. It's like low-grade hypnosis.

Along with leading her into those themes, you can also start injecting subliminal commands. You can't make people do what you want but you can tell them WHAT to do! The trick is to be incredibly subtle about it with your language by introducing weasel phrases. For example... it's just like when you are reading this very sentence and you start to have thoughts that make you think... "Hmm... he just used a subliminal command in this sentence and made me have this thought!", and you won't even realize that I made you have the thought! You'll just think it was your own idea and go along with it.

Now, the interesting thing about talking to women is that AFTER you have talked to them, they will remember NOTHING about what you said. Nobody ever does remember the exact words we used when talking to someone ten minutes ago! HOWEVER, what we DO remember after talking with someone, is how the person made us FEEL.THAT is CRITICAL.

That is why you can actually spout complete nonsense to women that almost sounds like legitimate English, and have it mean ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.... and yet, make her FEEL all sorts of feelings! Just look at how TV advertising works. Half of the adverts make no logical sense but they aim to push your emotional buttons.

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-05-03T08:07:20+00:00

Say whatever’s in your head. Don’t hold it in. Even if it’s the corniest joke you can think of

splugemonster · 2022-05-03T12:26:02+00:00

Do you get blank headed when chatting with your mates? People with mutual interests? Colleagues or classmates? You get blank headed because ur brain sends an unregulated adrenalin response based on your contextual interpretation of the situation, which causes a “fight or flight” response.

maxpossimpible · 2022-05-03T09:22:23+00:00

Practice practice practice. And an understanding that they're not listening to what you're saying but how you say it.

MrBlack__ · 2022-05-03T09:01:57+00:00

My go to question on a date “if you won the lottery today what is the first thing you do”

If they answer in a boring way you know it’s not you lol

PHVEDO · 2022-05-03T10:13:56+00:00

ur judging your thoughts. Realise that ur thoughts are not unique and are probably things other people also think about including her. So its actually easier to get into conversation without filtering your thoughts

TLu_03 · 2022-05-03T01:31:21+00:00

My dude, ask about them. They aren’t that different from you. Lead the conversation towards areas you’re knowledgeable or passionate about. PRACTICE in low/no pressure situations; a cashier, your waitress, your friends mom. Get in the reps with normal people making normal, engaging conversation, and then take your lessons learned and apply that to girls IRL.

DragonDinner22 · 2022-05-03T07:08:05+00:00

Talk about anything. Literally anything, but yourself.

Acid_In_My_Eyes · 2022-05-03T08:13:37+00:00

I think if you are confident it doesn't matter what you say that much.

Paltenburg · 2022-05-03T10:04:41+00:00

If nothing else: How do you talk with your friends? If you're blanking, it's perfectly okay to talk to girls the same way as you do to anyone else you know.

But I agree, sometimes it just doesn't flow

quienchingados · 2022-05-03T13:05:55+00:00

She is not "someone you like that could lead to something happening between you two", she is just a friend, you have to see her as a guy friend, normal, a guy that's a friend, that's it. So sometimes you don't say anything, sometimes you say something incredibly stupid, and that's fine because that's normal.

MK2718 · 2022-05-03T13:29:21+00:00

Speak with no filters and offer your honest opinions. Normally when you chat with friends, you probably don’t feel like you ever run out of things to talk about. This is because you are not constantly filtering your thoughts, being worried that they are good enough to say. Being stuck in your head is what leads to awkward pauses in a conversation. Some disagreement and debate in a conversation is engaging. Ask a person’s opinion and be willing to disagree with it. This shows that you are not just saying things to get them to like you. Thus they will feel that the can trust what you say as being honest and that they can use it to accurately get to know you.

Let other people talk about what interests them and be an active listener.

Talk about things of value to the other person. What information do you know that may of use to them? What’s interesting to them? What useful advice can you give? How can you help solve a problem that they have?

Talk about what interests you. The passionate energy that you will communicate will be felt by the other person.

Avoid situations such as talking about programming languages in a group of people where the majority know nothing about programming. Technical people often speak way too in-depth about specific things that other people have little knowledge about.

For a truly engaging conversation, you need to be communicating emotions not just information.

You don’t actually have to be an interesting person for people to be interested in talking to you. On average, things such as: positivity, fun, and being emotionally stimulating, all rank higher than being conversationally interesting when it comes to building a connection. Often people don’t even really remember the details of a conversation, but instead just the emotions that they felt. When it comes to things like generating attraction, the subject matter of a conversation is often trivial. It’s all what’s being sub-communicated that is of actual importance.

If you want people to find you to be a more interesting person, then you should actually work on becoming a more interesting person. Say yes to new experiences. You can create a more interesting life by exposing yourself to new things. You don’t necessarily need to travel the world going on adventures. You can expose yourself to new ideas through books and podcasts to create a personal knowledge base that allows you to provide a unique perspective.

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Leon_The_Greek123 · 2022-05-03T17:57:50+00:00

I talked to a woman on the train this morning. First, I asked whether the train was going directly or might stop at other points on the route. Then, I just started asking questions about herself. We ended up talking about our families, and how many nieces and nephews we both had. I gave her my number at the end. Wish I did that more often though.

So it's a matter of starting the conversation and just try to keep it going, doesn't really matter what's it about.

Title	Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?
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Date	May 2, 2022 10:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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